I am a christian girl, who likes a mormon boy, who likes me back. I want to save myself for marriage and I think mormons have to do the same. Even though I'm not a mormon girl, do you think it can still work out?
2007-06-28 18:01:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Marriage is a decision that should be made when you both reach an age where you can make mature, practical decisions. When you have a 'crush', you still have a long ways to go.
For those that are at a serious stage in their relationships, you should consider that marriage is tough enough when you agree on most things. The more differences you have on all the other things, the more important agreement of religion is. It can be the glue that binds you when trouble come to you. It can work out if you have different faiths as long as you share faith.
The family is the smallest, basic unit of the Church. A husband presides in the home as a Bishop would in the ward. With his wife as counsellor, they can address the spritual needs of the family, If they have a good and reverent attitude, it will work.
2007-06-29 08:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Isolde 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your "Mormon" boy is a "true Mormon",the only way this "relationship" can "work out is if your convert to "Mormonism".
You will have to accept that Joseph Smith was a "prophet" who experienced a "divine" revelation admonishing him to establish a religion in the name of Christ.
I would suggest that you thouroughly study the Church of the Latter Day Saints, the "so-called" Mormons, and the denomination known as the Community of Christ--a religious group who broke off from the Church of the Latter Day Saints.
After studying with two young men who were "missionaries" from the Latter Day Saints, I can tell you those who are strongly identified with this religious organization are as fervant in their beliefs as the General Baptists, the Freewill Baptists, the United Methodists, Episcopalians, and Catholics.
I'm not sure what your definition is of "a Christian girl"; but, I can assure you that if you only have a "crush" on someone, and you are adamant about your "religious convictions" any differences with someone who doesn't share your "convictions" will be overwhelming.
2007-06-28 18:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Poots 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
being a mormon I can answer this rather well
we as latter day saints r taught to only date and marry ppl who have high standards and/or r mormons so it can work
but I have a question for u I'm in the same predicament just switched I'm mormon and I like a nonmember what should I do (I'll ask this in a question later) please look out for it
(I would profer to be called an LDS instead of mormon please
good luck!!
2007-06-29 06:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wind Driven Wanderer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If Joseph Smith had the Internet.....
Helen Mar Kimball sits on her bed, computer in her lap.
sweetiepie14 (online)
Suddenly a pop-up message appears on her computer screen: nastyboyJS wants to chat ~ ACCEPT/DENY ~ She accepts.
nastyboyJS: hi. got your address from heber.
sweetiepie14: my dad?? who is this?
nastyboyJS: brother joseph
sweetiepie14: oh! hi!!! wow!
nastyboy14: how RU?
sweetiepie14: ur a nastyboy???
nastyboyJS: j/k - a joke i made up LOL
sweetiepie14: lol
nastyboyJS: R u alone?
sweetiepie14: yes. why?
nastyboyJS: ur sweet
sweetiepie14: LOL
nastyboyJS: and pretty
sweetiepie14: lol
nastyboyJS: when ur dad talks 2 u tonite, listen 2 him
sweetiepie14: what RU talking about?
nastyboyJS: just remember i talk with god, K?
sweetiepie14: k
nastyboyJS: & god tells me what to say
sweetiepie14: k
nastyboyJS: ur perfect
sweetiepie14: ROFL - no
nastyboyJS: i saw you last week in your white dress
sweetiepie14: oh
nastyboyJS: you looked so pure and innocent
sweetiepie14: thx i think ur cute!
nastyboyJS: thats good. real good.
sweetiepie14: gotta help mom - ttyl
nastyboyJS: listen 2 ur dad - a commandment by God
sweetiepie14: k cya
Joseph Smith sits at his computer in a hidden location (for his safety).
fanny4U has signed in
nastyboyJS: hi F
fanny4U: hi lover
nastyboyJS: where RU?
fanny4U: @ ur house w/ Emma
nastyboyJS: WTF!
fanny4U: she asked me 2 help her
nastyboyJS: RU OK?
fanny4U: yes - we R BFF again
nastyboyJS: don't trust Emma!!
fanny4U: why?
nastyboyJS: get outa there now! don't say anything!
fanny4U: K - she's coming - brb
nastyboyJS: GET OUT NOW
fanny4U: xoxo ttfn
fanny4U has signed out
OrsonHide has signed in
ZinaBaby has signed in
elizaRsnow has signed in
OrsonHide: hi Joe
nastyboyJS: Orson! guess what?
OrsonHide: what?
nastyboyJS: ur going to jerusalem!
OrsonHide: WTF? A mission?
nastyboyJS: as revealed to me by god
OrsonHide: but what about Marinda?!
nastyboyJS: ur wife'll be taken care of. TRUST ME.
OrsonHide: i guess if god wills it.....
nastyboyJS: oh he does, he does.
nastyboyJS: Zina! Hi!
ZinaBaby: Hi
nastyboyJS: whatcha doin?
ZinaBaby: chatting w/ Henry
nastyboyJS: U should chat w/ me only
ZinaBaby: but he's my husband
nastyboyJS: about that.....
ZinaBaby: ?
nastyboyJS: I dont WANT plural marriage
ZinaBaby: I know, me neither! lol
nastyboyJS: BUT...
nastyboyJS: an angel came 2 me with flaming sword last nite. if i don't do this i'll lose my position and my life!
ZinaBaby: Wow! RU serious??
nastyboyJS: Lord made known to me UR 2B my celestial wife
ZinaBaby: i'll have to pray about this
nastyboyJS: good idea, then you'll know the truth i speak
ZinaBaby: what will Henry say if god wills it?
nastyboyJS: he follows god 2 - all will be well
ZinaBaby: i better go pray
nastyboyJS: lemme know asap
ZinaBaby: brb (praying)
elizaRsnow: hi babe
nastyboyJS: hi e
elizaRsnow: i wrote you another poem
nastyboyJS: kewl
elizaRsnow: inspired by last nite
nastyboyJS: u rawked my world! lol
elizaRsnow: i may be old, but i've got skilz LOL
nastyboyJS: can't wait to see poem
elizaRsnow: i can't believe emma didn't catch us!
nastyboyJS: we can't let that happen
elizaRsnow: i made ur bed this morning and thought of u
nastyboyJS: thx for helping emma at home
elizaRsnow: if it means i'm closer to u, then its all good
nastyboyJS: gotta run
elizaRsnow: luv u
elizaRsnow has signed out
OrsonHide: RU sure??? jerusalem is so far....
nastyboyJS: god wills it
OrsonHide: Y not Chicago?
nastyboyJS: god wills it
OrsonHide: Marinda is scared
nastyboyJS: i'll personally take care of her
OrsonHide: k...i guess if god wills it...
nastyboyJS: never fear u will be blessed
OrsonHide has signed out
EmmaHS has signed in
HeberC has signed in
HeberC: i talked 2 her like u said
nastyboyJS: and?
HeberC: she didn't want 2 @ 1st
nastyboyJS: did u tell her like i told you 2?
HeberC: yes - salvation 4 all of us if she will
nastyboyJS: and?
HeberC: i told her 2 think on it for 24 hrs
nastyboyJS: lemme know ASAP
HeberC: she's a good girl - she'll say yes
nastyboyJS: i hope so as god wills it
HeberC: i know - and i wanna be saved!
nastyboyJS: it depends
HeberC: gonna go talk 2 her again
nastyboyJS: u do that
HeberC has signed out
EmmaHS: hi babe
nastyboyJS: hi u sexy thang
EmmaHS: u know it!
nastyboyJS: gonna B gone 2nite
EmmaHS: not again! Y?
nastyboyJS: more of lords work
EmmaHS: :(
nastyboyJS: i may B gone 3 nites
EmmaHS: im not 2 happy
nastyboyJS: b strong
EmmaHS: its hard
nastyboyJS: ur my light, my life
EmmaHS: i know
nastyboyJS: god will bless u
EmmaHS: fanny was here
nastyboyJS: oh?
EmmaHS: we R friens again
nastyboyJS: b nice!
EmmaHS: Y should i?
nastyboyJS: i told you 2 thats Y
EmmaHS: u better stay away from her
nastyboyJS: of course lol
EmmaHS: im not lol
nastyboyJS: k i promise 2 stay away
EmmaHS: gotta run
nastyboyJS: luv u - cya in 3 days
EmmaHS: as u should
EmmaHS has signed out
sweetiepie14: u still here?
nastyboyJS: HI!!!
sweetiepie14: my dad told me
nastyboyJS: and?
sweetiepie14: Y do u want me??
nastyboyJS: god wills it
sweetiepie14: will it save my kindred?
nastyboyJS: oh yes - salvation for all
sweetiepie14: im scared
nastyboyJS: god will provide - ur a good daughter of god
sweetiepie14: if it will save my family.....
nastyboyJS: say yes and be saved
sweetiepie14: and my family 2 right?
nastyboyJS: its the only way
sweetiepie14: i guess i will then
nastyboyJS: ur a good girl
nastyboyJS: u will be saved now
nastyboyJS: 2morrow nite we will b sealed 4ever
sweetiepie14: 2morrow nite!
nastyboyJS: god says it has to be 2morrow nite
nastyboyJS: ill take good care of you my sweet
nastyboyJS: i promise u eternal salvation
sweetiepie14: im scared!
nastyboyJS: im a prophet of god - b not afraid
sweetiepie14: k i guess
nastyboyJS: follow the prophet and b saved
sweetiepie14: 4 my family
nastyboyJS: oh 1 more thing
sweetiepie14: ?
nastyboyJS: cant tell Emma - god said 2 keep us a secret
sweetiepie14: y?
nastyboyJS: its gods will u keep it secret 4 my safety
sweetiepie14: if god says so then k
nastyboyJS: i look forward 2 us 2morrow
sweetiepie14: cya
sweetiepie14 has signed out
ZinaBaby: back
nastyboyJS: did u pray?
ZinaBaby: yes
nastyboyJS: and?
ZinaBaby: i was told its true
nastyboyJS: came from god
ZinaBaby: this is hard
nastyboyJS: im not about 2 make that angel mad! r u?
ZinaBaby: but I luv henry
nastyboyJS: me 2 - but god wills it
ZinaBaby: henry knows god wills it
nastyboyJS: R u sure?
ZinaBaby: yes
nastyboyJS: k - i'll be there 2morrow a.m.
ZinaBaby: so soon?!
nastyboyJS: u didn't c that angel
ZinaBaby: k
nastyboyJS: i cant wait 2B sealed 2 u
ZinaBaby: god wills it
nastyboyJS: and im a prophet of god - follow me n b saved
ZinaBaby: k ttyl
nastyboyJS: oh - god said dont tell Emma
ZinaBaby: k i promise cya
ZinaBaby has signed out
Joseph logs out and prepares to depart.
2007-06-30 09:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Between Mormons and Christians, there is not a lot of difference. Both believe in the bible, and stuff like that. So yes Mormons save them self for marriage as well. If you guys both like each then yeah u guys can make it work out
2007-06-28 18:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by xcookiegurlx 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Sure! Why not? Now some Mormons will tell you that we cannot marry outside our faith. But we can. I've done it 3 times. Divorced 3 times too! But I know other couples that it has been very successful with. However, you should explore our faith. We are Christians too you know.
2007-06-29 18:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can date him, just the whole marriage thing won't work out too well if you are both religiously devoted, and the family's devotedness might be a thing too if you get married, but I say have fun dating, worried about complications in marriage because of religion when you start talk seriously talking about marriage.
2007-06-28 18:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by lilfry14 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would be difficult if you two are different religions, but it can work if you want it too, and if you both respect each other. Focus on your beliefs that are the same, not necssarily which church taught them to you.
2007-06-30 11:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by friendlyexmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to interrupt it to you.... he's on his venture for one...he's only concentrated on that. not the rest opportunities are high like maximum adult men they have a woman waiting for them while they get homestead.... we don't think in being gay additionally... asking him for his quantity will only consequence in getting the form of the place he's quickly and he's maximum probably on no account there.... he's attempting to share the gospel with you and not something greater... And thinking techniques like that i think of are terrible....taking a missionary to mattress while he's on a 2 year non secular adventure is only flat out ill! only stay away...do not make him think of you have an pastime in the church in case you at the instant are not. do not ask for his quantity and don't flow to church for him....opt for your self!
2016-10-03 06:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mormons aren't allowed to almost have sex with anybody except other Mormons.
2007-06-29 18:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Cheese and Rice 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋