well right now i'm staying w/ my sister 4 the summer... and she lets me go out w/ my bf and my curfew is 12(midnite) well i got home at lk 11:40 or somewhere around there. she came out her room and asked me where did we go and i said 2 the mall and 2 his house 2 watch a movie. and then she gave me lk a weird look and said well u sure are happy and she started kinda lk imitating how i was talking and stuff. can't i just be happy or do i have 2 come home all sad? it gets me sad b/c it's lk 4 my family if anybody comes home happy after being w/ their boyfriend they think ur having sex. and i just get tired of it somethimes. plz help!
2007-06-28 19:18:52 · 13 answers · asked by I love my baby[11/11/06]!!!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but i'm not a virgin and i don't want my family 2 kno about that
2007-06-28 19:26:10 · update #1
No it doesnt. But that might just be the way your family is orintated to think. You dont have to be like them and before to long you will be out on your own and you can be as happy as you like with or without sex. Im afraid its just one of those little anoying things that we all have to deal with growing up. Familys all have there funny little traits. One day you may even be able to turn it into a funny story.
2007-06-28 19:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by placid_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to reassure her that you're not intimate with him and that you're waiting because you're not ready for that yet. She's your sister so it's probably easier to talk to her about this stuff than your parents, so go ahead and talk to her about it.
You should ask her why she's so suspicious- did she start having sex at a young age? Don't accuse her or anything, just let her know that you think you can learn from her experiences and mistakes.
2007-06-28 19:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just cause in your sisters relationship, her and her boyfriend need sex to keep there relationship happy. Some relationships aren't forever cause they think sex is everything. Don't get me wrong it is important but it isn't everything. Everything is having your boyfriend as your best friend and it just feeling good just being around him. Don't let her get you down cause your doing it right.
2007-06-28 19:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... I guess you just have to keep coming back before your curfew. And families are always like that. They get overly concerned...well adults do that a lot. I guess b/c of their own experience or what they know that they're afraid might happen to you. So...i'd say just take it easy and you'll get used to it. You're not going to be young forever you'll get your freedom sometime aight!! Gd lck!!
2007-06-28 19:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by :::shiRo::: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your family has issues. Im sure their only trying to protect you, but thats kind of strange for your sister to act like that. Just ask them that>are you supossed to come home sad? weird........
2007-06-28 19:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Willowjac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, did you have sex? You never clarified that. If you did, then credit your family with some observation ability. If not, then roll your eyes and act disappointed that they think that right away.
2007-06-28 19:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt mean when you come home happy after bieng out with your boyfriend that your having sex i do it all the time
2007-06-28 19:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by sugarlips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly
but it sounds like you dont want her to be happy, what a bad sister you are
2007-06-28 19:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them your in LOVE is that ok to know some one loves you I said IS THAT OK. see how that sound. later
2007-06-28 19:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by rocketman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck your sister. She's just jealous. Do whatever the hell you want.
2007-06-28 19:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋