There is a milionaire who I work with who likes me. Problem is I'm married and would NEVER cheat on my husband. He has offered to pay us a huge amount of money for me to be with him on his birthday. Should I accept? I like him and would probably go out with him if I weren't married. I love my husband and would never leave him. We could really used the money....
2007-06-28 10:36:58 · 57 answers · asked by jenush 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What would your husband say about it if you did? Would he accept you back? If it was alright by him, then it is your decision.
2007-06-28 10:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...how could you two ever look at each other again knowing that something that is meant just for each other has been cheapened by the lust for money.
It will always be in the back of your husbands mind, and it WILL come up in an argument...will the "millionaire" keep his mouth shut, or will he (and his friends) always be wanting to borrow you for a little while, will your husband still go for it, will it be easier for him to give you up? Will he turn into a willing pimp?
I understand money issues, but I would never prostitute my wife...only to save the life of one of our kids would something like that even be entertained.
Is your husband eager to do this?
2007-06-28 10:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by JohnnySmoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the rich guy is used to paying for prostitutes like he is wanting to make you by offering you money in exchange for sex you may want to think about how much money is worth getting a disease from someone who pays for it.
sweetie you should be outraged and offended that the rich guy thinks he can buy you just like some other hoe.
however since you are truely indeed considering the offer-i wonder what that makes you? any other time you need money then you just have to find that section of town where they be looking for gals like you.
2007-06-28 10:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is something that you and your husband can only answer. On one point, is it a sex act he is looking for or a dinner and a movie. If it is sex he is looking for and your husband is ok with it then you just need to look at it as just sex. It would be like a one night stand. As long as you use protection it should be ok. Point two, is it something that you have discussed with your husband. If he is ok with it then you just have to set the limits and price for your time.
I personally do not think it is wrong as long as you and your husband are fine with it.
Good Luck
Mark
2007-06-28 10:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mark P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it. And like you said, if you would never cheat on your husband, then why are you even asking this question?
Your husband wouldn't agree [and if he does, he obviously likes money more than your keeping your self-respect], and you seem to not agree, so don't.
And to answer your question: No, I wouldn't, whether I was married or not [which I'm not].
2007-06-28 10:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU NUTS???
I hope he is offering you enough money that its worth it to destroy your marriage.
Or try telling your husband. If he says he is alright with it, how would it feel to be married to a man that would let you have sex with someone else for money.
And just for the record, the guy you work with is being a real jerk. If he asks again, pour some ice cubes down his pants.
2007-06-28 10:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by gross d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it!
i personallly dont think it is right at all to be honest & the millionaire guy obviously has no respect for your marriage & if you do this think about your kids feelings & husbands feelings. think how your kids will dis respect you when they find out in a few years that you slept with a guy for the money..its not good honey, no matter how tempting, just, whatever you do remember your self respect and remember that everything has a consequences. best of luck
xoxooxoxox
2007-06-28 10:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SAID IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME.YOU ARE MARRIED AND VOWED BEFORE GOD TO BE TRUE TO YOUR HUSBAND. IF YOU THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY GIRL HE'S BOUGHT,THINK AGAIN.ASIDE FROM CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND,SLEEPING WITH HIM MAKES YOU SLEEP WITH ALL THE WOMEN HE'S EVER SLEPT WITH AND PUTS YOU AT A TERRIBLE RISK AS WELL AS YOUR HUSBAND. NOT TO MENTION YOU ARE LITTERALLY SELLING YOUR BODY FOR MONEY AND YOU WILL FEEL LIKE A PROSTITUTE WHEN YOU TAKE IT.I AM NOT YELLING. I USE CAPS BECAUSE I AM NOT SEEING VERY WELL TODAY.I HAVE EYE PROBLEMS. JUST DO NOT DO IT.GOD WILL PROVIDE ALL YOUR NEEDS.LOVE HONOR AND CHERISH AND RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND YOUR VOWS AND YOURSELF.EVERYTIME YOU LOOK AT WHATEVER YOU DO WITH HIS MONEY YOU WILL HAVE A CONSTANT REMINDER OF HOW YOU LOWERED YOURSELF TO THE LOWEST LEVEL.DONT DO IT. TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT SOME CHEAP PIECE OF TRASH THAT HE CAN BUY AND TELL HIM TO BUY SOMEONE ELSE FOR HIS BIRTHDAY.
2007-06-28 10:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by tigercub1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you even considering it if you say you would NEVER cheat on your husband??? Tell him to get himself a professional.
The problem with this scenario is it could blow up in your face and ruin your life. THINK! THINK! THINK! I suggest you run away as far as possible in the opposite direction because this doesn't bode well for you.
2007-06-28 10:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be offended that he's trying to pay you. I'm sure you don't need the money that bad. Maybe you actually really have feelings for this man? DOn't cause any problems..its not worth it..period
2007-06-28 10:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by LuvuLaura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was gonnu say yer if his hot and ur getin money from it, its easy cash so why not!
but then i realised ur married so maybe talk about it with ur husband
try and think of it the other way around if he had a rich girl workin with him that offered him money to have sex what would you say?
2007-06-28 15:52:29 · answer #11 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋