My exboyfriend, his new girlfriend, and myself have a "stalker" i am almost positive it is her and she is making all this up to make him hate me (bc were still friends) how can i proove it is her? by the way the new girlfriend lives 1000 miles away from me nad my ex
2007-06-28 06:57:39 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the new girlfriend is saying that she gets restricted calls from my number at least 25 times a day and she said that an unknown email is emailing her pretending to be me. i know she is making it up. how can i proove it? its making my life hell cuz i want my ex back and she is making him hate me. my ex blames all my friends and i keep telling him that its her and he has every excuse on how its not her. but i know it is. we never had stalker problems until he left her for me and then all the sudden she has a stalker pretending to be me. my ex left me for her nad i know she is mad we are friends. i just cant prove to my ex that it is her
2007-06-28 13:35:49 · update #1
also with the emailing. it is coming from a yahoo account. we have the cops invovled and everytime they track an email it comes back to my computer, her computer, or my exs computer.
2007-06-28 13:36:57 · update #2
I'd like to know how she stalks you from 1,ooo miles away. Phone, email,... ???
change your phone # to an unlisted one and change your email address for starters...
That will slow her down some, and the "still friends thing..." no you're not... you just can't see it. Stay away from him "as a friend" and maybe she'll get the message.
Otherwise, it sounds like YOU are the stalker!
Otherwise... get a restraining order.
2007-06-28 07:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Revenant Hamster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i am sorry to hear that she is 1000mi away, that must be hard for you to see him all the time and, even though she is not there, knowing you can not be with him.
It is hard to figure out what a stalker is like unless i know what they are doing to stalk you. Ask your self these questions, and see if you can piece together the answers: How did he meet her? When do you get stalked? What happens when you get stalked? Does she know that you guys are being stalked, and if she does, did he have to tell her, or did she already know?
Sorry that is all i got. Maybe that can help, and if it doesnt i am sorry.
Good luck with everything!
2007-06-28 14:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by lacrosse_ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant i have the Same prob.. Only thing you can do is Get a restairning order and when shes close be like OHH **** call the cops.. li\ke 20 times a day! you win!
2007-06-28 14:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by kazapim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really provide enough information here to say for sure. What is she doing? Calling? Emailing? Writing letters? If so, call the police and have them trace her calls or track her emails or whatever. They will take care of it.
2007-06-28 14:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give details about the stalking. How can anyone help you figure out who's doing something if we don't know what they're doing?
2007-06-28 14:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "new girlfriend" is stalking you, but she lives 1000 miles away? How do you know it's her, if she lives that far away?
2007-06-28 14:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Higher someone. People actually do have to hire others if they want to find out lies, or if they really are being stocked. Is she just saying this so her boyfriend won't cheat on her? hmmm..
2007-06-28 14:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kare Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you a ax-camera-and a tunafish sandwich and make a visit to her crib.
2007-06-28 14:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋