I have been married for a year to a guy that has never done anything wrong to me. He's generally a nice guy. He'd never lay a hand on me, but thats the problem....he wont lay a hand on me lovingly either. He acts like sex is a chore, and a waste of time. He cant stand to snuggle, kiss, hug, anything. I am an affectionate type of person and it kills me that he is like this. Yes in his defence I did know that he wasnt hugs and kisses all the time, but he used to be a little more affectionate and initiate sex occationally, but now its so different. I feel like the only reason we got married was because I got pregnant. And I love him for giving me my son, but I dont fee like im "in love" with him anymore. I feel like I love him as you would a good friend. I know hes not cheating on me for a fact. So there isnt another woman or anything. I talked about divorce, but he swears that he loves me, but even after bringing it to his attention(numerous times!)he still hasent improved. What do I do?
2007-07-01
19:46:28
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TornIntoPieces
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