I am a person, who does not know how to say no... but instead I keep on saying yes, because I dont want to upset or disappoint the people who sorrounds me...
2007-07-01 20:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jadee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to keep being a doormat for others, then keep doing it. When you drive yourself nuts, you'll learn to say no.
2007-07-01 20:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say things like
"im trying to change as a person and dont want a reputation like this"
"Im not ready for this"
"Im waiting for someone special"
"i have a rule of __days/weeks/months/years before i know a person before i ___?
and if youre talking about saying no in general
"No Thank you"
"Nah, maybe another time"
"I'm sorry, I can't"
"don't hate me, but i can't"
2007-07-02 03:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Breana Like Whoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you drive yourself nuts, realize what you are doing for others: you are trying to be helpful to others... good for you. But for real for real, you need to learn to say yes to yourself and no to other people. Ask to practice with someone who you trust, to just practice saying no. This will allow you to be more assertive, and if you have not already done drugs or been pressured into sex, then you will have the ability to resist pressure and assert your will.
You have the right to express your will to others...Do it!
2007-07-02 03:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by crewbrotha86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh .. u need to learn to say no.. its a beautiful thing.. cuz if u always say yes.. everyone will always be expecting a yes.. to everyone.. and its not good
2007-07-02 03:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋