I said "Yes" when my fiance proposed for a number of reasons; He makes me laugh, he's smart , he has a warm heart...the list goes on and on. For the most part, we both want the same things out of life, but I'm getting frustrated with his level of maturity. He doesn't have the money to spare to help me with the car payment, but he seems to have enough dough to go out and have fun. He never graduated from high school and, though he talks about getting his GED, doesn't put forth any effort to actually DO it. He's in quite a bit of debt and, though I've been bugging him to start cleaning it up, he hasn't paid on anything in the past 4 years. He's 27, and I'm 24, but I feel like I live with a 12 year old. He spends all his spare time on the computer or playing with the xbox. I'm at my wits end with him, and I feel like the only responsible one in the relationship. How can I convince him to grow up a bit and act like an adult? I do want to be with him, but I can't if he behaves like a child!
2007-07-02
05:30:14
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Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG
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