Men would You?

Question

If you had a out of town job, would you all be faithful while you were making your money, and supporting your family?
Or would you live a double sided life? And if you were not the faithful kind would you feel guilt when you come home?would you eventually tell your wife?

Answer 1

Yes, I would remain faithful while I was out of town working. If I couldn't, I would get a divorce, then do what I wanted to. I could NOT live with the guilt, if I ever did something like cheat.

Answer 2

LMAO!!!! Understand frist off soccermom that we are all individuals, geeze, I'm 25 years old and I realize how well this complicates a situation. Ether way lets do this the roundabout way. You wouldn't be asking this question unless you felt suspecions for your husban, thats strike one(lack of communica). Now you wouldn't be asking men in general unless you understood more about why your husban acts the way he does, thats strike two(fearing people and men, lack of understanding). Third the way you phase the comments shows me that your trying to make sure that your not getting lied too and at the very least if you were that the truth would come out. Almost like the frist but this is all about trust there, strike three(Lack of trust, bad, bad). Sorry one way or another you don't have a very good relationship with your husban. So even if he wasn't, he could. And from the way you feel about him, it isn't beyond him. Next time to help with these kind of concerns, marry a friend not a stranger, good luck with that. Really it doesn't matter if he is, this relationship lacks trust, compassion, and emotion/mental intimacy. Which is exactly like 90% of the relationships out there. Your only one true fix isn't here soccermom, is talking to him(Yep that simple if you can lower your pride long enough). If you can't fight for him and talk to him about this, please leave before you have a kiddo, they deserve so much more then this.....