I am currently engaged and I will be a virgin on my wedding night. My fiance assures me that he likes that I'm a virgin. I am afraid he is just saying this to make me feel better. To the men out there, do you have opinions on virgins that you could share with me? Do you think it is cute, sexy, beautiful? Scary, turn-off, etc?
2007-07-02 17:11:50 · 9 answers · asked by decvbride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not a man... but my fiance is my first... I know that he did like it, he was very patient with me and totally understanding. I too was afraid that he was just saying he liked it and more so thinking... i am so lacking experience... can i please him, will i do something wrong.
I ended up talking to a few girlfriends about it and getting sex advice and tips lol. I'll just say it made for a very memorable night and I, nor he, have any regrets
2007-07-02 18:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men love that a woman is a virgin. If he didn't like that about you he would have pressured you till you gave in long before your wedding night. Most men think it is sexy, and love love love that you haven't had anyone before them. It is a beautiful and blessed thing, and amazing since today's society says its okay not to wait, that you have waited for marriage.
2007-07-02 17:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Men love virgins. So no hes more than likely not lying...but who cares what other men think your getting married.
2007-07-02 17:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wendie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fiance assured you that he likes that you are a virgin
why don't you believe him?
you will be fine, it's a great gift you are giving him
2007-07-02 17:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman should be a virgin for me if she wants me to marry her, and no I dont believe I should be a virgin for her well too late I've had over 80 women during my life. But if you want to be divirginized and your over 21 and hot let me know I'll see what I can do
2007-07-02 17:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
cute,sexy.beautiful,scary?...... how about expected?
you should be, you and your spouse should both be. thats the way God intended it to be, society dictates different.
2007-07-02 17:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by rosie p 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It only matters what you and your husband think.
2007-07-02 17:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's just saying that go out and have sex with a few random guys......It will ease your mind
2007-07-02 17:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by ngtvnrg 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well it let him know your pure and to me that is beautiful
congrads
2007-07-02 17:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by tom c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋