This guy asked me out last year and i said no because i didnt like him. Then this year he went out with someone for about seven months. Then when they broke up the girl he went out with went out with someone else. He got upset. Then about 3 weeks later i called him and told i like him and i asked him if he liked me. He said i was pretty but he didnt think we would go out. So then a few days later he asked me out. While on the same day he was flirting with the girl he broke up with. So i told him that i didnt want to go out with him. Now he going out with someone and telling the girl he broke up with that he has a new girlfriend and that he loves her. Do you think he was using me?
2007-06-25 11:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, just like you were using him.
2007-06-25 11:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy seems to really just want to be in a relationship and from the sounds of it just for the visual appeal. He probably thinks that being in a relationship with a pretty girl will impress other people, this is apparent from the lack of time before asking these girls out... I dunno if you'd call it "using" but it probably wouldn't be a very emotional or long lasting relationship.
2007-06-25 18:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Steve V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, nobody's using you. Besides when a man uses a lady, that's not how he does it. Askin her out is only one little step, and there's more to using than that one step. He cares about you. YOu should simply be happy that he asked you, and the cares about you enough to ask you out. I wish I had someone to ask out.
2007-06-25 18:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
And women wonder why men think they're nuts? He says he likes you, you tell him to get lost. Then, later, you tell him you like him. So he asks you out, but then you tell him that you don't want to go out with him....am I the only one who thinks you're driving us nuts?!!!!!
2007-06-29 04:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He was using you.
2007-06-25 18:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He was trying to use you. You said you didn't go out with him, so he wasn't successful.
2007-06-25 18:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was using you.!! :(... if i would be you, i would forget about him and find someone better!
2007-06-25 18:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by I <3 Izzy. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋