the man i love is on leave from his deployment from iraq and he is in san diego with his son. he hasn't spoke to me for three days ever since his leave. i wanna call him but I dont wanna bother him and his son. He is divorced and is living with his sister. I miss him but I do not want to annoy him at the same time. What should I do?
He said he doesnt love me yet but he likes me a lot.
2007-06-25 11:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No as I suggest you wait for him to call you as you could put him in an embarrassing situation, then he will have a dislike for you and you don't want that. Yes I know its tough having to sit there and wait for the phone to ring, but you would rather be on his good side wouldn't you ?. Cheers and good luck.
2007-06-25 11:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and call when you know you can leave a message, tell him you were just thinking of him, and miss him. If he answer, tell him basically what you said just now. You don't want to bug him or anything, but that you wanted to let him know that you love him. Sweet and simple.
2007-06-25 18:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and say hi. Don't talk about his deployment, and ask about his son and his family. Tell him you're glad he's home safe and you'd be happy to hear from him any time. Let him come to you, but let him know you'd like him to come to you.
2007-06-25 19:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER.
FOR YOU, BUT WHAT ABOUT FOR HIM?
I UNDERSTAND HE HAS A CHILD BUT AS A MAN HE HAS NEEDS ALSO.
I CAN ALSO RESPECT ONE WHO KEEPS THEM IN A DECENT FASHION, TOO!!!
SAYS HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU YET, BUT LIKES YOU
A LOT?
NEVER HEARD THAT ONE.
BE VERY CAUTIOUS AND DO NOT CALL.
SEE WHEN AND IF HE CALLS AND DO NOT BE SO WILLING TO GO OUT OF YOUR WAY, DOES NOT SOUND REAL PROMISING. SOUNDS LIKE PERHAPS HE HAS ANOTHER ONE ON THE LINE, AS HE DOES NOT LOVE\
HER YET EITHER, JUST LIKES THEM ALL LOTS!!
2007-06-25 19:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is ready to talk to you then he will call you. Most likely he just wants to spend a lot of quality time with his family.
2007-06-25 18:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. be prepared he has changed from the war. So things in his life have different priorties.
2007-06-25 18:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by just1more 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should call him if he gave u his number its cause he wants u 2 call him. just go for it and let him know how u feel. good luck!
2007-06-25 19:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by honey_angel4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋