Ever notice how some women NEVER forget anything?

Question

why do most women bring things up that happened so far in the past that no one but them remembers it?
Seems like they cant move on emotionally. They harbor ill will and seethe about any little infraction.
Yet if a guy tries this same tactic he is labled as an arrogant ***.
How do you deal with this kind of behavior ?
Is it a no win situation?

This has happened to me with several women.
They do things that upset me too but I get over it and MOVE ON

Answer 1

I've never known a guy who's tried this tactic so I can't vouch for the being labled as an arrogant *** part. I consider myself one of those women who is able to bring up things that happened way in the past. Do I do it because I am still upset by those things and unable to move on? No. Usually the only time that stuff is brought back up is to support an argument. If I'm trying to agrue a point with my boyfriend I feel I will be much more credable if I can bring up instances that illustrate my point, but that doesn't mean I'm still mad or upset about those things, hardly. My guess is you just got out of an arguement with your girl, she played that card, you had nothing and now you're frustrated. Just know that us women aren't dwelling on every little thing that ever happened in the past 24/7.

Answer 2

Well the reason women never forget anything or choose to remember certain incidents is because they were emotionally hurt during that event. Women recognize when an event hurt them and notice when the signs are showing that it might happen again - so they put up an instant guard and bring up the past... In my opinion, everyone should live in the NOW and not worry about the past. Another reason may be because that past incident was never fully solved in their mind... and they need closure to move on. And no, its not a "no-win situation"... its all about communication.

Answer 3

The women you pick don't understand the art and concept of forgiveness. Either that or when you do something you don't repent and ask for forgiveness (say I'm sorry). The only way to let each day be a new day is to practise the fine art of forgiveness. That should be your #1 priorty when picking your next girl.

Answer 4

Wow. Date women who are more mature, who don't carry emotional baggage, who don't blather on about the "poor me's" in all of their spare time. These women are easy to ask out initially and easy to date because they aren't the strong confident women who would potentially turn down a date, but in the long run it's a sorry situation having to listen to their problems all of the time. Go for strong, confident women who are career/goal oriented - they don't carry their baggage with them.

Answer 5

People should learn to forgive and forget. True that you remember things that hurt you really bad, but maybe have a talk about it, resolve it and move on..

Answer 6

i think of adult adult males get the two bitter whilst they're overwhelmed with unhappiness and rejection and heartache. What i've got observed is that being cheated on and deceived is quite annoying to conquer for every physique.

Answer 7

Men do the same dang thing, they just stew about it in their heads and don't verbalize it.

Quit generalizing, we are all different, and if you haven't found the right woman yet, then maybe your priorities aren't quite right.

Answer 8

Some women never forget because it hurt them so bad, that it still has a impact on them now.

Answer 9

Men do that just as often as women.

Answer 10

Quit dating immature women who carry alot of "baggage."