the time we had was the best i ever had cos i felt like everything was complete , even though she travels alot i know how much i care about her . any and everything i can do for her i done and beyond.i flew to see her after her birthday to find out she was seeing someone else. she kept telling me nothing was happening and she loved me .cos she knew i have trust issues from my last relationship . now she avoids every chance we have to talk she never replys to my messages and even took me off her friends list .
i feel so betrayed but i still want her back cos i feel like nothing matters without her. if she wont talk to me is it cos she feels guilty or that she simply dosent care enough about what we had .
i dont know if i want to get revenge or kill myself caus i see no other way. either way i am not the man i was before. can you help me?
2007-06-25 06:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try talking to her.. just keep trying
but dont kill URSELFF!!!
2007-06-25 06:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this woman, then set her free. She didn't tell you the truth because she knew exactly how you'd react...which is exactly what you're doing now. Everyone has rejection, it's part of life...not death. So stop wallowing in self pity, pick yourself up off the ground, dust yourself off, get some new clothes, and go look for a new girlfriend. NOBODY is irreplaceable and NOBODY is worth everything. If she doesn't love you anymore, she doesn't love you anymore, period. But that's where it starts and ends. EVERYTHING matters without her, but not until you realize that you can't have a "love" unless it is reflected from the eyes of the one "you" love...it isn't a one-way sort of thing. There is nothing to take revenge on, because she did nothing wrong. She chose to break up with you because she didn't love you...she was more honest with you than you're being with yourself right now. Suck it up and move on.
2007-06-29 03:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all stop whining and suck it up!! We all have these things happen and no one is worth your life! You were too clingy and needy, you gave up everything for this person and left no mystery. I know cuz I did the same. You don't want to admit it but deep down you know I'm right. You need to move on! She obviously has. Moving on is a process, it won't happen overnight, it Will be long and hard but you will get there. Stay busy, find a hobby get laid, whatever you need to do to keep your mind off it. One day karma will bite her in the butt for the wrong she did, wouldn't you rather be around to see it?!
2007-06-25 13:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself most definitely is NOT the way to solve this issue.
a reason that she might have stop talking to you and took you off her friends list is that she need some space. If you love her give her that. By her doing that, it doesn't necessarily mean that she hates you or wants you completely out of her life.
You need to get out and enjoy life. Try and meet some new people it doesn't need to be anything serious just to get there!
Good luck
2007-06-25 13:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by rein31590 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a counselor. She has made it pretty clear that she doesn't want to communicate with you. Nothing you can do will change that. You have to move on and be happy with your own life and you'll meet someone else once you're in a better place. Don't make your happiness dependent on another person. You're responsible for your own happiness.
2007-06-25 13:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone then you have to love them unconditionally. Try to get on with other things that make you happy, and just love her for who she is, in time she will see that.
2007-06-25 13:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋