My bestguyfriend has a cheating girlfriend. everyone knows. i have told him numerous time. for example, he caught her sitting in another boys lap. she flirts with this boy named jack alot. my bestguyfriend was about to breakup with her but changed his mind. he said he's just going to cheat on her too. what should i tell him?
2007-06-25 11:02:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should stay out of it, it's not your business. It's between him and his girlfriend.
2007-06-25 11:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems we have a "cheating war" going on.
They should break up, or just get more physically involved like kissing and stuff.
In relationships, sometimes people are scared to take it to the next level?
Possible Solutions:
1) Forgiveness
2) Discuss with a third party and resolve
3) Determine if the relationship can continue ...if they keep cheating, obviously NO. A waste of time, of affection, of thoughts, of money.
4) Maybe the guy is more ... reserved in terms of getting physically or not as experienced...
5) Ask what her intentions with Jack are
The somewhat Bottom line:
Guy wants girl, he outdoes what the other guy whos lap she was in . (Though possible girl did it to get back at him, or make him jealous, or play mind games because she is dating him as a joke)
In all honestly if it were me, find another girl, break up with her. No matter how much you love someone, if they don't love you back, no point paying them $1000000000 to love you right. It won't be real. If someone doesn't love you for who you are, you move on(or try to trick them and be someone your not perhaps).
2007-06-25 18:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him whatever you want but he will make up his own mind. I am sure he will come around and dump her. He already said he was going to cheat on her so its just about at the end. You told him all you could your not keeping secrets so its all on him now.
2007-06-25 18:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Julie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already performed your responsibility as a best friend. You gave him information that he should know about his girlfriend (of course, that depends on what you actually mean by cheating), but all you can do at this point is keep yourself aware of her activities so you have information if he asks you for it.
He's already looking for revenge, and you won't stop him; only he can do that.
2007-06-25 18:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both in the wrong. If she cheats on him, he should just break up with her. If he cheats on her to retaliate, it just makes him just as immature, and a cheater also.
You tried to help him initially, now you need to mind your own business and let them work it out. Sometimes people have to learn things the hard way.
2007-06-25 18:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "best-guy-friend" should be a positive force in your life, not someone who will put himself on "her" level. All you can do is give "positive" advice, because he will most likely do what he wants anyway. Stay focused and if he chooses to cheat on her, reevaluate your friendship you don't need that vibe or drama around.
2007-06-25 18:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved sweetie. You will be setting yourself up for a whole mess of pain and heartache. If you love your friend, you'll let him find out on his own the hard way. You've already put enough info out there for him, it's up to him to make a decision on his own.
2007-06-25 18:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he going to do what he wants to do. you cant stop that but you can tell him once and then if he dont listen then you have two chooses:
you can stand behind your friend and wait til he falls on his a*s*s and be there to support him when he does OR
you can find new friends who give a crap bout you say and actually care about your opion instead of throwing you aside like trash
2007-06-25 18:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Razorblade Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them find out on there own..all you can do is advise what a relationship should be like and eventually it will continue or shift patterns...
2007-06-25 18:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing and let him find on his own because u told him once and he didn't leave her. when he is tied of her he will have to make that decision on his own . epescially u told him and he seen it . just let him make that decision on his own even though u are there for him and i think u are a wonder friend because u don't want to see him hurt.
2007-06-25 18:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that he's a loser. Why would he just cheat on her. What's the point of being together?
2007-06-25 18:23:00 · answer #11 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋