2007-06-25 11:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
o this is hard i u love ur husband very much .... and u dont want to lose him i say u go with the lie
watever just make urself think hes his father too
i say u dont ruin ur relationship and if ur husband dosent find out go ahead id do that
2007-06-25 12:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a huge lie if it really isn't his.....a white lie is a lie that you tell that isn't going to hurt them....like about suprise parties or santa claus. Tell your husband the truth and risk loosing him, if you cheated you deserve to have that risk if you could of got pregnant prior to marriage and you all weren't together, I guess there isn't much he could say to make you feel bad.
2007-06-25 19:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE HAVING A CHILD OF YOUR OWN AND YOU ARE HAVING A PROBLEM WITH THE TRUTH?
THAT IS WHAT I AM UNDERSTANDING, IN YOUR QUESTION.
4 THINGS TO CONSIDER, WHAT YOU DO IS YOUR OWN BUSINESS, HOWEVER;
1. IF THIER IS EVER AN ILLNESS AND THEY WOULD NEED CASE HEALTH HISTORY, WHAT WILL YOU TELL THEM OR YOUR HUSBAND?
2. CAN YOU LOOK AT THAT CHILD EVERY MEAL KNOWING ITS NOT YOUR HUSBANDS?
3. WHAT WILL YOUR CHILD THINK SOMEDAY- IF THE TRUTH EVER CAME OUT?
4. CAN YOU LIVE WITH IT ALL OF YOUR LIFE?
IF SO GOD GO WITH YOU AND YOUR DECISION.
2007-06-25 19:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad news. That's a great way to make sure that the marriage will fail. Telling the truth may do the same thing, but you owe it to him to be honest at least this once.
2007-06-25 19:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lie is a lie no mater what color it is,its better he knows
the truth,if he finds out you lied,he will wonder what else
you are lying about.
2007-06-25 19:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by genevieve10@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's not. Telling the truth is probably the best idea here. =}
2007-06-25 19:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
It's one of those $2 lies 'otherwise known as a bold-face lie'.
Tell him the truth.
2007-06-25 19:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by YES, I use correct grammar! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be honest to him then leave the poor guy alone. Lies will ALWAYS backfire on you.
2007-06-29 13:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by caroline j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,YOU cheated on him and got knocked up,GET REAL!!!
2007-06-25 19:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋