Other - Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

this is my hubby s frst marriage.my second. he is 51 ...he told me when i touch him in public he has the creeps. when we are together in public.he never touches me...even to hold my hand...if someone took the time to notice us......they would think that we are total strangers. we can be in the car traveling for hours and we dont talk...in bed...he turns over and goes to sleep.in the morning before work.......tv is on while he eats breakfast.....when he comes home....he watches tv till bedtime. i have told him this hurts me, but he doesnt change his behavior that is driving me mad.what should i do?

2007-03-16 05:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 18 and my bf is 19 he works from 6:30am to 7pm and when he comes home i have'ent seen him all day and im ready for some romantic time alone but he is never in the mood he always says hes to tierd and just wants to go to bed i have tryed alot of thing to get him in the mood like showers togeather,sexy underwear,waking him up with a bj(that worked only once now he wants the alarm to wake him up)im running out of ideas if you have any suggestions i would like to hear them

2007-03-16 05:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by lisa b 1

After a number of bad mistakes, I need advice. I want to know what you would do. I am 29 and I have a wife and a child. I have 88 credits towards a degree in film editing which doesn't help because I no longer want to be a film editor nor do I want to move to LA or New York. We are living with my uncle and I am trying to figure out how and if I should try to go back to school. What would you do?

2007-03-16 05:11:25 · 3 answers · asked by jum_bo_js 1

who is your first priority -- spouse or kids? Why?

2007-03-16 05:08:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We bought an old house that needs alot of work. I want to fix the house up. My husband wants to go on vacations all the time. We have 2 small children and he says that they need to experience the world. it's always a fight and I always seem to lose. How can I get him to take pride in his home? I didn't go on alot of vacations as a child and had a nice home. He on the other hand lived for vacations. Help I'm at my whits end.

2007-03-16 04:54:17 · 8 answers · asked by gettingfit 1

My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months already. We went to a party and I was with my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friend went also. Some other girl that I thought was hot and is actually my girlfriend's friend claimed that she wanted to have sex with me. She even kissed me. I just brushed her off and told her that I am already dating a girl. I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's friend because I am already have a girl. I didn't tell my girlfriend. Did my girlfriend set me up to see if I am always loyal to her only? and plus, did I do the right thing by not having sex with my girlfriend's friend? my girlfriend and I didn't start having sex nor we are not going to start soon.

2007-03-16 04:53:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months already. We went to a party and I was with my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friend went also. Some other girl that I thought was hot and is actually my girlfriend's friend claimed that she wanted to have sex with me. She even kissed me. I just brushed her off and told her that I am already dating a girl. I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's friend because I am already have a girl. I didn't tell my girlfriend. Did my girlfriend set me up to see if I am always loyal to her only? and plus, did I do the right thing by not having sex with my girlfriend's friend? my girlfriend and I didn't start having sex nor we are not going to start soon.

2007-03-16 04:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never try to start trouble with her, but she is always yelling at me and calling me bad names...can I make her stop?

2007-03-16 04:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by Crissy 2

2007-03-16 04:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I caught my bf chatting to a girl again for the third time. I actually have access to his PC so I was able to know his password to a dating site. There I saw the messages he sent to the girls. One message really hurt me most. He told the girl that he´s looking for a serious relationship since all of this past relationships didn´t work out. He said that he´s single and looking for his princess. I confronted him about this. He just said that he was making a back up plan after I told him that I´d like to go back to my country soon. On the contrary, he said that he doesn´t like to lose me and he wants to marry me. I´m really confused whether or not I will believe in his words. Guys out there, share your points of view. Ladies can of course answer to this as well.

2007-03-16 04:45:38 · 16 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1

I am one of five children in my family, 17years old. I am the third born and i was the first girl. My parents already have grandchildren from my oldest brother. they think it will feel more special if they had grandkids fom their daughter. You see, my parents are a bit , how should i say this, old and if i had no children they would probably never get to meet my younger sisier's kids because my parents were already old when she was born. i dont think i could handle the responsibility of kids, but i feel so guilty because i dont think i want any. should i feel guilty that i might not give my parents any grandkids???

2007-03-16 04:43:13 · 21 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

Looking for a chica....doesn't need to speak English that well, just one that wants to come to America, less than 25 years old, likes to have fun, and looks smokin hot!

2007-03-16 04:42:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 04:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a shared apartment. She's gone MADD nutz! She charged @ me with 2 knives, she threatened me with a hammer, & she tried to break into my bedroom door to try to get my computer. & the police said that she had every right to do that, & they chose to put ME in the mental hospital & not her. What should I do to secure my room more? What's the top lock called again? I forgot. & How much does it cost? Is it like a master lock or deadbolt or something?

2007-03-16 04:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend Karen is going to give me $20.00 if I talk to this guy named Charlie today, just about anything. Just for kicks. What should I say?

2007-03-16 04:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious if I may be inadvertantly offensive. My bf's mom is disabled. Once a week she asks me to pick up some food for her, usually its 5 or 6 bucks and I pay for it. Sometimes she asks me to get her some groceries. She has a comfortable amount of money, but so do I. Me and my boyfriend usually do things 50/50 (we treat each other or split things). She always offers to reimburse me for what I buy for her but I don't feel right taking the reimbursement because I'm doing it to help her out. But, it occurs to me that its possible I may be offending her but not accepting it. What would YOU do?

2007-03-16 04:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by Esmeralda 4

today she's crying
tomarrow she's dying
no one is there
no one to care
left alone is a world of hate
left to suffer by untold fate

loving whose love has long since gone
not to be right but eternally wrong
hidden soon by shodow not sun
as soon as its dark her life will be done

knowing her pain and sorrow unseen
she falls into an endless dream
no one will stop
no one will cry
alone she lived
alone she will die

remember these words her last to be said
she is unspoken when she is dead
say your good byes
she losing the fight
forever she loves you
forever goodnight

2007-03-16 04:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by fzw_chick 1

My partner goes out friday nights and sunday to go hang out with his mates, we are both still young(20 and 21) and we have a daughter together.
I am very happy to stay with my daughter and I don't like going to pubs or clubs, but he does take our daughter out once a week or so while I stay at home and relax.
This is no problem for me but my family say he should not be hanging out with his mates when he has a family and I should make him stay in all the time when hes not at work.
To me that sounds horrible I am not his mother and I think it is good that he goes out and has fun, if it makes him happy.
My question is would you find it acceptable for your partner to go out with his mates, or do you think my family is right?

2007-03-16 04:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by cigaro19 5

2007-03-16 04:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by Buzzard 7

As you get older are you learning to deal and judge your own relationships, or do you get others to do your thinking for you?

2007-03-16 04:11:01 · 5 answers · asked by : 6

2007-03-16 04:05:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't spoken to my close female friend for 4 months-I wanted a break from her,as we got too close(I had feelings for her)she wanted to be friends.4 WEEKS AGO she txt me that our FRIENDSHIP IS OVER!That I should move on wth my life and she wishes me all the best.

That SAME WEEK we met at a friends reunion party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

At the end of the night,she hugged me tightly,said "take care hun and I'll see you at the nxt roadtrip"

This week I sent a email(via Facebook) if I could add her as my friend on Facebook.THATS ALL I ASKED,NOTHING ELSE.She wrote bck: asking how I am,what she done on her wkn and said I can add her "as a friend lol".

I wrote bck saying I'm busy at work and work wth too many women(which I do).She wrote back saying "Have fun with the ladies at work" - WHY she write that???

Wrote bck saying I have been having too much fun and she's not replied since.

Did she mean the friendship is over?Advice pls..

2007-03-16 03:57:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my boyfriend to leave his work to another garage as i'm getting fed up with this receptionist he works with. Im 19 and he's 21 and this receptionist is 30 something. I no there's nothing going on but it's winding me up she's managed to get his phone number off the company files and she keeps texting him telling him to come meet her or asking if everythings ok with him and me? he never texts her back but she carrys on doing it. I've even texted her myself telling her it's annoying me and why can't she find her own man. is it wrong telling my boyfriend to get another job away from her? away from his friends aswell which i don't like the thought of ... i dont know what else to do..she is driving me mad! I no people will say change your number but he's done it twice and she still gets the number as he has to give his work the number.

2007-03-16 03:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

there are people that are overweight,(like myself) and are proud of it. There are some that are ready to kill themselves if they dont lose a weight, cause they feel like they are going to die due to the issue anyway (like myself). I am just curious, I was in a decade long relationship that was devastating, and I gained weight, and had children and hate myself for letting myself go. I am not in that relationship anymore (PRAISE GOD) and am coming to know what i like and dislike, im starting to like me, and see that I am unique,, But what I dont understand is I look in the mirror at home or happen to walk pass one out in public and dont like how my body looks, you can see how it used to look, and it looks as if she is still in there, But I dont like what I see as far as my body. I have a good heart, and full of love. I wanted to know those of you that say IM DAMN PROUD OF BEING A BBW, OR A OVERWEIGHT MAN, please answer me why, how can you look in the mirror and not want to change that?

2007-03-16 03:52:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this tendancy to hit, push, and slap my boyfriend when i feel like he's disrespecting me. He doesnt let me talk, and I feel sometimes I have no voice in our relationship, so the only thing I have left to do is get physical. When I hit him, he will push me back, and yes i deserve it, but what about him? I dont want to do tha to him no more, but I want our communication to get better, what should I do?

2007-03-16 03:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Still Standing 4

My partner and I get along really well, except he thinks that some time when we very first got together that I cheated on him. We argued over this for quite a while, cause I really didn't cheat on him at all. He then dropped it and apologised for being a ****.

However now I realise that he still does actually think that I did this, but has decided to forgive it because we'd only just started dating and he just wants to get over it.

I can't believe this!!! I am shocked, and no matter what I say he says he won't believe me but loves me and wants to move forward. Honestly this seems very strange to me, except I know he really does love me.

I am very confused, and clearly he doesn't trust me completely because of this. What on earth can i do. I find it so unsettling that it's making me have anxiety.

2007-03-16 03:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 03:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by Joko 1

She has a number on her phone marked as a girls name when i know for a fact that its a fella its the second time i have found this number the first time i confronted her and she said it was nothing. Now its on there again i dont know what to think? Is she having an affair?

2007-03-16 03:33:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im on yahoo answers all the time and i see this ^ question
all the time and i thought they were stupid,until i was in a pasision myself
so im sorry,anyway,,im 15 and hes 18 my mom is fine with that and he's cute he can sing like an angel um he's charmimg and he has a hot body and so funny out of this world everything i could want but ....he has a baby girl she just turnd one,but thats not the point i dont like him like that i just dont ewhhhhhhhh,and yesterday he came over to see me and he's like can i have a kiss and im think in my head umm NOOOOOOOOO!!!
help me please 10 points!!!!

2007-03-16 03:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 03:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by steph 2