Other - Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

My boyfriend has been going through a hard time. He has been applying for new jobs and attending interviews in his free time. He works full-time so he spends his free time preparing for the interviews. But the problem is he gets negative reply each time. He is still waiting for some answers but yesterday he told me he is fed up of loosing. The thing is I have become very needy of him and I started to worry he does not care about me anymore as he has become distant with me. He has tried to explain to me many times that he needs to focus but I did not handle it very well. He told me last week that he is not sure about me anymore due to these problems and he has become less enthusiastic about our relationship. I really worry about loosing him. How can I make things better? I have been trying to give him space but I worry he has made his mind up that I am not the girl he wants as he thinks I will not support him when he needs to be.

2007-03-17 23:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 23:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom died for about 4 years but then it still hurts knowing that she was gone.

2007-03-17 23:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by shekinah_78 2

I have a problem. I live in the middle of nowhere and it takes forever to get to town. I don't have a job and I live with my mother. I REALLY want to move out and i want a job sooo badly, but driving in to town is too expensive. It's hard to save money when I have to keep fuling up my vehicle every day. What do I do? I want to start my LIFE....I want a job, I want a home of my own, I want a social life and I want love.

2007-03-17 23:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by Answer Girl 4

It seems that men can get upand out of the door in 10 mins, but girls need at least half an hour... there seems to be noconcept of faffing... what do you think?

2007-03-17 23:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Mr X 2

the right time,and how long should she hang out 4 me? We have indulged together before but the last couple of weeks has seen my usage increase even though Im very happy with her I have a problem with recent relationship and custody issues that bring me down,then cause me to find a way up again.

2007-03-17 23:14:15 · 8 answers · asked by sirocco blue 1

2007-03-17 23:07:27 · 5 answers · asked by hb8g9 1

2007-03-17 22:54:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 22:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

today is our 10 year anniversary. we are not wealthy but i do what i can for my wife. my job requires me to work 12 hour shifts overnight so i suffer from sleep apnea so i have no choice but to sleep during the day between shifts. unfortunately our anniversary falls on one of those days this year. so friday i had flowers (that cost $160) delivered to my wife to enjoy at work and over this weekend. i wasn't sure what else to give here given our modest income so i had worked some overtime the week before and told her i was leting her go on a shopping spree today for her anniversary present and that she could spend $500 buying things that make her feel nice and pretty. was this a stupid idea? bad gift? i really want to know.

2007-03-17 22:48:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive found out a couple of months ago that my bf has been looking at other girls naked on the internet, hes registered for the sex and swinger sites, i've confronted him about it but he tells me that hes just having fun and that I should not be worried. He's told me that he will stop but just recently I have found that that he is still doing it and has gotten new email addresses so I will not find out but the difference this time is that he has given out his phone number to someone now. He tells me that I still shouldn't worry that he is with me, but how can I trust him now when he has told me before that he would stop. What I am suppose to do? Should I stay with him or should I leave him? We have been going out for a year, we meet eachother online, I think that is why I'm afraid of him finding someone else on the internet.

2007-03-17 22:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lost in a Relationship 2

[20:44] ME: what is ur ideal thought in ur head about u and me?

[21:06] HIM: u and me...small apartment.....dsl.....cable...i work and u 2.....we fu**k and fight and fu**k....argue, kiss make up.....im jealous.....u fu**k around on me.....i cry......because i love u

2007-03-17 22:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Katie 1

what does it mean when the friends (more than one) of a guy you like (he knows you like him) keep watching you from across the room but not the guy you like?

the guy might like you too

sensible and helpful answers please! thanks!

2007-03-17 22:22:13 · 5 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1

I prefer fmf. What about you?

2007-03-17 22:19:26 · 3 answers · asked by Ella 3

2007-03-17 22:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Bossy 2

I really fancy some but theres none in the cupboard. I know I bought some yesterday..........

2007-03-17 22:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

heart hurt breaked......love some one but cant talk to her via phone cant see her but cant be alone and without her thinking her always with me self, but dont know what to do the relation which i used to have turned so much bad she hates me my phone calls but still cant live without her her being means that i am a good person but her not being means that i am the worse she is the one who controls me who give me pleasure yet i dont know what to do ? i sent her pleasent greetings flowers not through my name but through others name just to see her always happy i miss her a lot but yet i cant do any thing i dont know what do to? my life turned such that i dont know what to do? please advice... thanks

2007-03-17 22:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by Omed S.S GRSN 1

2007-03-17 21:49:56 · 7 answers · asked by saryadoc 2

LAGRANGE GA POLICE CAN'T FIND THE STAFF TO CLEAR OUT BIG LOTS OR LAGRANGE HIGH SCHOOL BECAUSE THEY ARE BUSY CLEARING OUT HAMILTON ROAD. IF SOME CAN HANG OUT WHY NOT ALL? IT'S UNFAIR.

2007-03-17 21:13:34 · 1 answers · asked by lawful 1

want a better perspective into your minds

2007-03-17 21:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by tupac4evaa 3

how do you feel when ur sister in law involves ur privacy over the limitted? she get in ur room when the door closed? knock on it at 12 am when it locked? leave her saliva on ur 6 mons baby's cheeks? yell at ur husband infront of u? remind ur husband to help his parents? her bf takes ur baby away from ur hands without say hi or ask u? just walks into ur room and takes her away to their room. She's 20 yr old and i'm waiting for her to understand for my situation, i live wit my husband's family. His parents and his lil sister. He wants to live wit them forever to help them out. I gave up my dream of having my family bcus i love my daughter and he loves her too. He told me he can't live without his daughter but i really need my privacy. My husband does not belong to me already his family is still trying to control him and even me. :(
thanx

2007-03-17 21:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Such as what does it take you to make your mate feel better and what Sensor on the body is the trigger to other Sensors.

2007-03-17 20:56:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 years old?
but yet my mom still treats me like Im 10 yrs. I work 40 + a week and I give her $1,136.00 a month. Every week i give her $100 and evey two weeks I give her $368.00. Im 4 months pregnant. I cant bring my childs father to our apartment. Its hard for me to save money. I cant even go out. She expects me to be home by 9:30. She expects me not to go out to a club or even go out Friday nights. Im trying to save money but its so hard when the majoritie of my check goes to her. What should I do? Im the youngest of 6 kids. so im not sure if thats why she keeps on holding on to me. What should I do?

2007-03-17 20:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by trish 2

right most of you might take this as me being stupid, but to be honest i know i am but i dont like liers not even the littlest lie ever so thats why im so ott over this....right my boyf is livin with his mum while are flat gets sorted an he is a mug for his mum he does everything for her an she is NEVER grateful at all. so i told him i wanted him to stop doing thigs as much for her an he said ok but yesterday she left him a msg saying pick us up blah blah an never asked just told him so i said no dont go an he agreed but i was on the phone with him. ans guess what oh suddenly his phone died !! it was off for 1 hour an a half. so wen i did get in touch i asked if he picked her up he sed no he hasnt seen her or anythin but then about 10 mins later i said u got up late didnt you set ur alarm he sed yeah i didnt hear it but me mum told me it went off i said how when u havent seen her an he said she phoned me on the house phone when he wont answer his mums house phone is he lying to me ?

2007-03-17 20:48:16 · 22 answers · asked by Nat xXx 1

so what exactly does it mean when a girl you are barely starting to get to know , tells you that if you move not to move too far cause we are just starting to get to know each other, that she missed talking to me and that she hasnt forgotten bout me. eventhough she has a bf but her bf cheated on her not too long ago and she took him back but things have been goin downhill. anyhow i know for a fact that girls just dont say things like that to anyone especially girls with a bf. so what could it mean?she might like me?she might just miss her buddy , new buddy at that or whats the dilio?? ok so update , i saw her tonight and she was checkin her bf out. and then she looked over to where i was and was checkin me out from head to toe same with her man, she prob was just comparing our attire. i guess she wanted to talk but it felt akward cause her man was there , yeah we are only friends but she knows how i feel bout her bf cause he cheated on her. anyhow what yall think?

2007-03-17 20:42:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cj 3

2007-03-17 20:34:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

After avoiding relationships for 5 years i met and surprised myself by falling in love with a man. Three weeks ago he said it was happiest ever been.This transformed to a week ago screaming down the phone abuse at me for no reason and with no catalyst. Then sorry, then next day face to face foul verbal abuse and today he has gone without even an argument or call. I know love been destroyed as my trust now gone and do not want to be vulnerable to insecurities. Just would like to know why the behaviour. Is it my doing?

2007-03-17 20:33:28 · 18 answers · asked by sunshinesmainlyonme 1

trouble ?????

2007-03-17 20:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by burlingtony 2

its 7 am on a sunday morning, why are awake not fast a sleep in your bed, my excuse is i have a 3yr old sun who want me to telletubies with him

2007-03-17 20:03:41 · 26 answers · asked by R I P 2

Wel i love this girl and i havent told her and wer just friends and i often go to her home and see her and her sis and im falling in love with her sister too.they both look very alike and are extremely beautifull...and i loved 1 and didnt tell her and now im in love with both..how do i decide who i stay with..i was thinking i need to choose who loves me..how do i find out who loves me so i can just stay with that 1.i really care and dont want to hurt either..how do i just find out who loves me more so i can give all my love to her and forget the other..what do i use to choose..i cant choose by there physical character they look same act same talk same..i only can know whos who by their hair 1 has shorter hair and 1 is 2 yrs younger..i dont want to ask either coz they might tell eachother..im a honnest guy just tryna find who loves me out the 2 i love.and nothings going on with either im just friends with both and take 1 out to din and stuf her i fel in love first..she doesnt know i love her..and her sister im very friendly with her also but no dating or lunch going on.they both seem to like me and are a flirting a bit so lite i dont know if it is a flirt

2007-03-17 19:51:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous