Wel i love this girl and i havent told her and wer just friends and i often go to her home and see her and her sis and im falling in love with her sister too.they both look very alike and are extremely beautifull...and i loved 1 and didnt tell her and now im in love with both..how do i decide who i stay with..i was thinking i need to choose who loves me..how do i find out who loves me so i can just stay with that 1.i really care and dont want to hurt either..how do i just find out who loves me more so i can give all my love to her and forget the other..what do i use to choose..i cant choose by there physical character they look same act same talk same..i only can know whos who by their hair 1 has shorter hair and 1 is 2 yrs younger..i dont want to ask either coz they might tell eachother..im a honnest guy just tryna find who loves me out the 2 i love.and nothings going on with either im just friends with both and take 1 out to din and stuf her i fel in love first..she doesnt know i love her..and her sister im very friendly with her also but no dating or lunch going on.they both seem to like me and are a flirting a bit so lite i dont know if it is a flirt
2007-03-17 19:51:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave a note at their house that says I love you. let them figure it out. peace
2007-03-17 19:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..let me get this straight..you like say A and went out with her.Fell in love with her and always go to her house. Then u saw A's sister, B and fell in love ALSO because they look-a-like.
Now you are confused on which you really like and do not want to make a mistake in choosing the wrong one...right?lets just assume thats the story.
Now let me clear one thing up.. you are confused.
Between looks and feelings, its 2 totally different things.
Dont confuse yourself with "Their Faces" and "Their attitudes" (Coz im thinking they might be twins or something coz they act exactly the same).
Each and every human being in the world, has a difference.
And its really up to you to actually realize what suits you.
Be patient. Be friends. And be cool.
Let your heart decide which soul meets yours.
Time will tell. Don't confuse yourself "Just Love" and "Falling In Love"..
Which girl makes your heart melt whenever they talk?
Which girl makes your adrenaline pump everytime ?
Which girl do you want to spend your whole life with?
If you answered no1 and 2 (the same person)- its infatuation.
If you answered the 3rd - she's the one.
Good luck man,take it easy.
2007-03-18 03:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone it means that you care about thier feelings as much as you care about your own. Seems you are more worried about your own well being. Which is evident when your biggest worry is who loves You the most. Who do you love the most? And if you decide to love the one who you haven't been taking out....do you really think its not going to hurt the one that thinks that you are interested in HER? Let me tell you....no girl is going to be content with dating a guy who proceeds to fall in love with her sister, or also loves her sister.. The discord this is going to cause in these girls' relationship will be intense.....have you thought about this? And if you love these girls, does that not matter to you? This whole thing is not a good situation. And by the way....when you love someone it's not difficult to know from thier physical appearance whether thay are thier sister or not(unless thry are identical twins).....and when you love someone you do not fall for their sister. Love means you do not love also ANYBODY else, ESPECIALLY not their sister.
2007-03-18 03:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no way you can fall IN LOVE with two. Maybe one is just an infactuation??? Possibly you need to sit and examine the situation. Lust and love are both very different things.
2007-03-18 03:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very confused. I think that perhaps you should wait until you are all a little more mature, before making any decisions about any of this.
2007-03-18 03:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry mate, but i havnt the faintest idea
2007-03-18 02:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who ever you feel more comfortable with
2007-03-18 02:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by PradoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋