What do I do?

Question

I'm 23 years old?
but yet my mom still treats me like Im 10 yrs. I work 40 + a week and I give her $1,136.00 a month. Every week i give her $100 and evey two weeks I give her $368.00. Im 4 months pregnant. I cant bring my childs father to our apartment. Its hard for me to save money. I cant even go out. She expects me to be home by 9:30. She expects me not to go out to a club or even go out Friday nights. Im trying to save money but its so hard when the majoritie of my check goes to her. What should I do? Im the youngest of 6 kids. so im not sure if thats why she keeps on holding on to me. What should I do?

With that money she buys food pays the bills but it’s only me and her, so it’s like how much electricity can to people waste. I don’t ask her to o my laundry I have my clothes separated but yet she still goes in to my room and gets it out. My mom is 62 yrs old I think that she thinks that she will be alone. I pay my own personal bills.

I can't even save money. Everything goes to her. I feel bad telling no I cant give you money

Answer 1

if i were u, i would move out! move in with one of ur siblings that dont live at home anymore, and pay them rent (im sure they'll charge a lot less) until u can get on ur feet or rent a place with a friend. ur mom is RIPPING YOU OFF! i cant believe she has the nerve to treat u that way ESPECIALLY after charging u such an ungodly amount of money every month. ur mom is purposely charging u that much just so u WON'T be able to get outta her house. ur her baby, and u are the last child she can control, so shes prolly petrified of the day when she won't have a say in anything u do anymore. have u tried talking to her about all this calmly and rationally? tell her that u are contributing to the household as much as an adult would, and that being the case, u expect her to treat u like an adult from now on. No more nosy questions, no more restrictions on what u can and cant do. and NO MORE CURFEWS. tell her that as long as ur living under her roof, u would be more than happy to call her and let her know ur ok when ur out late, but that u are an adult, and u have the right to make ur own decisions on how late u stay out. Make her read what i wrote u, if u think that would help. Good Luck, and in the mean time, TRY TO GET OUTTA THERE! ur too old to be living at home anyways!

Answer 2

You really probably need to have a nice long talk with your Mom & try not to be mean. If you can't come to some kind of any agreement move out there are ways. Find out what the bills actually are before you give her another dime. You will probably find out she is saving you a lot of hassles, honestly. Does she have any income? If not maybe that is why she is trying to keep you from leaving.Talking to her will be better than talking to us.

Answer 3

$1604.00 .........Does your mom work? Is that the reason you give her that much money. If not then she is using you for paying the apt rent, Some mother have to let them make their own decision

Answer 4

if you give her that much money you could easily move out on your own. she is trying to control you and it is working. hit the road