Other - Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I work within th elocal government which is really good but i have just had my eyes tested and they the optition said i am really short sightened i couldn't read the second line on that letter test they do. Anyway because i work in an office and forever use a computer i thought i would be entitled to be reinbursed for at least the cost of the eye test. I eneded up spending £118.50 for a pair of glasses and my eye test. But i thought they would of wanted to help me with my college course and help in that way as they pay for college and if i fail my tests next month they will be paying for them, so you would have thought they would contribute towards my eye test.

As i know have no money for food or electric if we run out and my partner is in his overdraft already i paid £72 towards my exam fees this month on to of my eye test. Am i entitled to help from work as i cant get help from the NHS at all.

Please could you let me know what you think as everyone else from my college course

2007-03-17 03:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I first dated him, that was only 1week after he broke up with his ex gf, they lived together for 2 years. and he told me he had been through many many relationships, long or short, he always gets over it very quickly, only sad for a couple of days... now we finished our 2 years' relationship, while I was still in a terrible mood, he moved on to another one... I hope he can find his happiness, but I still cant believe it... how can a man get over it so quickly, it made me wonder if he really loved me b4, although he said he did...

2007-03-17 03:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by jing j 1

im 24. i know i should not do this but i have to for medical purposes. its weird but how to ask a guy about it and then explain it to him that ill do this because i need to. what is the idea or how will i say or ask about it?its weird but i have to.

2007-03-17 03:37:28 · 13 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2

well i am a over the road owner operator yep a truckdriver and i got this question to all the beautiful women out there i work hard earn good money know how to treat a lady when she is in my company but i just cannot find that special lady out there been there done that in the internet dating sites but it seems that the business is the down point i may be wrong but just because of a persons income or the way he or she earns it he or she is not suppose to find happiness in the form of love yes i am already answering my question here but yes i understand that a lot of ladys want there guy home daily or weekly but the role of my business for the last 37 years is transportation 30 yrs in australia & 7 here in the usa but all i want is someone to love someone to spend holidays and special times with or a laugh over a bottle of wine or beer or that nice dinner at our favorite resturant or be there with you in times of sadness

2007-03-17 03:35:57 · 1 answers · asked by wombat4412 2

Things are out in the open now & over & done with about a relationship what I should not have been having with someone 9 & a half years out of my age group.. I'm only 18, but still have feelings for this person. My parents however do not agree with the relationship & its legally immoral. I am not allowed to contact this person anymore, but after everything is over & done with I still feel like I would like to talk to them. They were a good friend in my life, something of which is lacking from people of my own age group & I find older & more mature people easier to be around & communicate with. I dont know what I should do at all?! Should I try & leave this person alone(I dont know whats even happen to them) & move on with my life & let them live they're or after a while should I attempt to talk to them again & be friends after everything is over(legal issues). There will be nothing filed against him or I of which we 'wont' legally be allowed to see or talk to eachother. So I dont know?

2007-03-17 03:29:08 · 10 answers · asked by Lor 2

I'm 22, & soon to be engaged to the man I lost my virginity to almost 1 yr ago. He thinks our sex life is perfectly fine, I don't. I'm painfully shy when it comes to mentioning it, & when I try, I feel like he shuts me down. The 2 main problems - anything/anywhere I want to try, his attitude is either "been there done that", "it's not all it's cracked up to be," or "you've only been having sex for 9(ish) months, you don't want to try everything at once, or you're gonna get bored" but I'm already bored now... very bored... the sex just feels very routine - like it starts the same and ends the same... also, he can't ever seem to last long AT ALL & I've subtly mentioned going for "round 2" but have NEVER gotten it... I've only had an orgasm MAYBE 3 times or so... and I have NO IDEA how to tell him, because I do love him more than ANYTHING, without crushing his ego, that 1) I'm not satisfied in the bedroom, and 2) 15 mins. from foreplay to finish line doesn't quite do it... PLEASE HELP!!

2007-03-17 03:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd just like to wish all the wonderful Mum's throughout the land a very special Mothers Day for tomorrow, you all deserve to be treated like the Stars that you are!
Sadly my mum passed away in jan this so this will be my 1st M/D without her, but she will be greatly remembered!
Have a great day ladies, you ALL deserve it! x x x

2007-03-17 03:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by The Original Highbury Gal 6

2007-03-17 03:18:58 · 4 answers · asked by jerii_loves_you_too_much . 1

Wat should I do if im like bein chased by da police yo cas I think da on to me but i bet you people think im dum cause i kinda just gave myself away but no theres no way da could find me im way to fast and way to smart STREETS SMART so why dont cha halla at me homies and dats wats up peace out$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$STAY FLY

2007-03-17 03:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This group I know wants m,e to join them but I dont know if I should let me describe them:
*They are the most baddest kids at the school
*After school there just plain bad
*They blow up stuff put stuff on fire they tag buildings
Thats what they do I would join them but there kinda wild.

2007-03-17 03:03:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a hard position in my life right now...I'm 15 and dealing with new situations...There's this boy that I liked for about 5 months now...He told me he only wanted to be friends and I thought that was how it was going to be until he recently started talking about sex with me...He said we can be friends with benifits and I'm torn because I really wanted him to like me for me not for my body...I want a relationship with him and he wants the grown up with me...How can I make him want me for just me?

2007-03-17 03:01:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy thats aways on my roof, i see him at night when i go out the toilet, he hides behind the chimney, i pretend i dont know hes there, but i watch him out of the corner of my eye

what could he want? and why would he be up there?

2007-03-17 02:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not sure if my crush likes me too or if he's just being nice to me. we went out and i know he has to go home after midnight because he has a plan the other day. but when i asked him not to leave he didnt leave! (im kinda tipsy that time he could just escape from me if wants to right?) what could be the signs if in case? and he knows me already how can we be close? i dont know his number and other stuffs. if we will not be an item its okay, but i really like him. what should i do? its so rare for me to like a guy. just give some tips for this. thank you!

2007-03-17 02:50:38 · 5 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2

If you saw a terrorists from Iraq walking down the street what would you do.

2007-03-17 02:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 02:45:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOVE

2007-03-17 02:34:48 · 14 answers · asked by Vijay Kandpal 2

Feel like a low priority! Would dump him, but he is nice in other ways, and maybe take a year for me to get another guy to ask me out! Should I be mean and refuse to see him?

2007-03-17 02:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is curently deployed in iraq and I want to plan a vaction for when he gets home, maybe something exotic or romantic but I dont know. If you can help thanks.

2007-03-17 02:29:12 · 16 answers · asked by mwagner27530 2

I used to love him .he used to love me more. but we had a problem I found it was better for us to separate. he tried alot to stop me but I was very stupied so he left me for 3 months he tried to have relations but at last we are together again. He seems strange so do I. I become very sensitive. He becomes very nervous.I m not sure of anything. Do u think we can complete. Or we just broke the habit of being lovers.????

2007-03-17 02:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by beba 1

2007-03-17 01:47:32 · 1 answers · asked by blacktiger 1

Lately, I've been thinking whether to take risk and fall in love with the new guy, when the memory of my exboyfriend keeps on haunting me. I don't know, i really loved him... but then again, thinking of what we once had and what happened, it just makes me bang my head at the wall and say to myself, "why am i even thinking about reconciliation?." He hurt me... but what if he's showing signs of wanting you back. What would make you say yes and accept him? Need answers... to enlighten me in some ways...

2007-03-17 01:39:23 · 7 answers · asked by justhateher 1

2007-03-17 01:36:22 · 16 answers · asked by aeijae 1

im in luv with an innocent & very possesive guy from one year only.he also love me very much.but problem is that he always want to sleep whenever i call him.i become angry for this & this becomes a big issue for our relationship. at that time ,,even he wants to make me agree. but i m very agressive & don't want to listen him.but some time later, i agree that i was wrong..Yet we think that nothing can break our relation.

2007-03-17 01:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by renu c 1

2007-03-17 01:10:53 · 5 answers · asked by shekinah_78 2

My sister wanted to borrow a top of mine tonight. I said i would think about it . Here are my reasons i want to know if they are rational:
1. She would never lend me a top of hers.
2. She once took a top without asking, which i would be shot for doing if i did that to her
3. I knew she was being nice to me all day for the sake of the top and i felt like she was buttering me up.
I know its just a top but this situation in our house throws our whole dynamic out of whack.
In then end i said no and she argued with me. Then an hour later i said to her look you can borrow the top i just wanted to make you understand that you need to respect me and my things. Dont call this petty because you dont understand our relationship. i didnt have a problem with her wearing the top i just have a problem with her behaviour.

2007-03-17 00:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

can someone fall in love with just one look at a person's smile?

2007-03-17 00:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by aeijae 1

Me and my fiancee are engaged
but there is a 3 1/2 year age
difference between us Is this good or bad?

2007-03-17 00:24:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous