I,am only 15 and i,am engaged it that a good thing?

Question

Me and my fiancee are engaged
but there is a 3 1/2 year age
difference between us Is this good or bad?

NO NO FUNNY ****!
ian engagged at 15 ahes 11 1/2 yes

Yes NO FUNNY ****
And lets see 3 1/2 years younger then me
engage ments going to b4 4 6-7 yrs and
i love her with all my heart and she loves
me so FUCKOFF and thats that!!!!!!!!!!

Yes NO FUNNY ****
And lets see 3 1/2 years younger then me
engage ments going to b4 4 6-7 yrs and
i love her with all my heart and she loves
me so FUCKOFF and thats that!!!!!!!
Look no puppy love we been together 4 like 1 1/2 b4 that we been on and off so puppylove is loong past and please NO FAKE RELIGOUS ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

it depends.

if she is 3 1/2 years older, then thats weird.

but if shes 3 1/2 years younger, ill take it!!!
gotta get that young bottom while its ripe.

p.s. how do you grow such a stylish soul patch at 15?

xoxo, lawrence.

Answer 2

Some of it depends on the laws in your area but I was engaged at 17 to a boy that was 2 yrs older than me. We decided to make the wedding 4 years away b/c we figured thats when Id be done with college. I can tell you now, there is a big difference between a 16 and 18 yr old and a big difference between an 18 yr old and a 21 yr old. You are both going to be going through different "rights of passage" at different times. It might be wise to just wait. I did and realized as a junior in college that I did not want to marry him.

Answer 3

Your engagement probably has no force. In most countries you can't get married, even with a parent's permission, until the age of 15 or 16. Your fiancée is a few years off that mark yet. If your engagement is expected to result in an arranged marriage, there is a good likelihood she'll back out.

Answer 4

Are you serious? This is not at all good. This is not the age to be engaged. What about an education, a job, some responsibility, maturity? And are parents anywhere in the picture? And if you read your question properly....You say you are ONLY 15 which means you understand how young you are.

Answer 5

dude, 3 1/2 years is not that big of a difference. when your 23 she'll be 20-ish, don't worry it's not that big of a difference. but i do think both of you are WAY too young to be thinking about marriage. wait until you graduate high school and get to college. You meet SO many new people in college, you may change your mind about wanting to marry this girl.
But if your love is true, like you say it is, then you won't pay attention to the other girls you'll meet in college.
take care.

Answer 6

I dont think age difference should matter too much unless its like 25 years apart...wait, is she 3 and one half years younger than u? if so then its a problem, shes too young, in fact yor too young! why get married that young, why not work and live yor life...u still have TONs of things to see and do, enjoy life and worry about its troubles, marriage, and responsibilities later.
Hope i could b of help ...:P

Answer 7

The difference between mature adults and children is that the mature adults don't feel the need to ask random strangers whether their engagement is a good thing. If you still need to ask the question, then no, you have some more growing up to do. Marriage takes every power of good communication, maturity and good judgment to make it last. These are the skills I would say you need to develop.

Answer 8

likely, once you're conscious that it takes you want an hour to get to sleep, then you definately're likely wondering too a lot once you're laying down and attempting to sleep. attempt now to not imagine about what befell that day or what you'd be doing the following day. also, until eventually it helps you sleep, do not have light fixtures or television or music on. It basically keeps your mind more beneficial conscious because you're fairly focusing on it. in spite of the undeniable fact that, for some reason, it helps positioned others to sleep, including me. yet that could nicely be because i have finished it considering that i replaced into youthful, listening to music or the television and dozing with a nightlight. do basically not imagine about vast issues, do not devour too quickly earlier dozing (because of the undeniable fact that could reason your abdomen to get disenchanted, and it will make your mind stay conscious longer to target to digest the foodstuff), and once you've a not straightforward time falling asleep, possibly take some Tylenol PM or the like, in case your dad and mom enable it.

Answer 9

i am also but i dont care if its a good thing or not thers only a little over 9 month difference hes 15 and im 14 1/2 though i think if yall truely love each other go 4 it but be careful try not asking other people if u love her go with your heart

Answer 10

Ask yourself..what else is out there that you may be missing. What do I plan to do with my life? My career? Am I really in love? Do I really know what love is? If it is supposed to work out..it will. People change alot when they grow up. I thought I was madly in love with this one boy and I got my heart broken because we grew up and grew apart. Then I really took into account that we were too young, naive and there was so much to explore. Now I have what I was looking for.After waiting all this time.Good luck to you and hope things turn out like you hope.

Answer 11

Bad you are going to miss out on so much fun in high school. Your future spouse needs to be concentrating on college or a ttrade to help support the family your bound to have. School kids that would like to date you are going to not be interested in you. There is so much time in your 20's to have fun and get married but you have now successfully chosen to dismiss that for someone who may not be interested in you in a few years