I used to love him .he used to love me more. but we had a problem I found it was better for us to separate. he tried alot to stop me but I was very stupied so he left me for 3 months he tried to have relations but at last we are together again. He seems strange so do I. I become very sensitive. He becomes very nervous.I m not sure of anything. Do u think we can complete. Or we just broke the habit of being lovers.????
2007-03-17 02:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by beba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is some underlying issues that need to be resolved. Although you both have separated for 3 months, the problems you guys had before the separation still exist. To compound to it, you guys probably have trust issues knowing that the other person has been with other people. If you really love this man, I think the best thing you can do is to go to a couple counselor who can delve into the deeper issues you guys are facing. There is still a good chance of fixing the relationship because you have both decided to get back together again. Keeping the love & passion alive takes a lot of effort. Do what it takes if you want to save the relationship. Good luck!
2007-03-17 02:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cinta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its a bit more complicated than that...when you have a long term relationship with someone and then separate the chances are very low that you will find someone better in a short time...and of course there must be some reason you fell in love with him in the first place so my advice is to give the thing a second chance...and its not a habit...you guys like each other so whats wrong in being together...
2007-03-17 02:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assume I am a seer, or a shaman, or a mystic.
I'm none of the above, but try this. Turn off
the cel phone, the TV, the radio, the mp3 player,
the computer. Go somewhere quiet with this
guy, like a nice park, and sit together without
talking for a few minutes. Relax, maybe scratch
his back. Hug him, see if he hugs back. Then
talk, open your eyes and your ears and focus
completely on him. See where that takes you.
2007-03-17 02:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want this relationship to work , it can. Love can change into habit, in some cases you can change that back into love again. Do things that you used to do but spice it up a bit. If you two went to parks together, take a picnic basket with you this time. Stuff like that.
2007-03-17 02:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you love him If not you woulndn't notice strange attitude or anything. Maybe you don't trust eachother since breakup. Try to work out differences and not break up every five minutes.
2007-03-17 02:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not a habit at all we just fall in love
2007-03-17 02:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by ilovedadq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time and relax a little, if you like him enough and he likes you enough things will work out. have a little faith! good luck!
2007-03-17 02:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋