Lately, I've been thinking whether to take risk and fall in love with the new guy, when the memory of my exboyfriend keeps on haunting me. I don't know, i really loved him... but then again, thinking of what we once had and what happened, it just makes me bang my head at the wall and say to myself, "why am i even thinking about reconciliation?." He hurt me... but what if he's showing signs of wanting you back. What would make you say yes and accept him? Need answers... to enlighten me in some ways...
2007-03-17 01:39:23 · 7 answers · asked by justhateher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you go back, the same problems you had before that made him an ex to start with, will re-appear and cause you to break up again. Once an ex, always an ex! Don't try again!!
2007-03-17 01:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For right now, put some distance between you and the exboyfriend and take a risk with the new guy. Maybe some day you and the ex will both have grown enough that you can connect, but right now you need to sort through your feelings and you need time to do that.
Take a breather, get to know yourself again and meet some new people. Then later if the ex still looks good maybe you can give it another try, but I think you'll find yourself happier with someone who isn't so inclined to hurt you so easily.
2007-03-17 09:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want someone who hurt you so bad that you ended the relationship. Love is not supposed to hurt, dont let anyone hurt you again. Toughen up dont fall back on old familiar ways. Stay strong and hold out for better
2007-03-17 09:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by nylatinanurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. memories will allways stay with you but sometimes its good to let some go. Meet others and make knew memories with someone else.
2007-03-17 08:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by madmama3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like the bad things out weigh the good..dont let a sentimental moment make you weak.. just let go and move forward, dont look back, just burn that bridge behind you dear
2007-03-17 08:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is obviously a reason why this is past relationship....don't go back for more punishment...move on!
2007-03-17 08:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur first problem is u need to find a woman and all ur troubles will be gone
2007-03-17 08:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by MsThang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋