Other - Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

I was discussing with my girlfriend last night about previous relationships I am 27 & she is almost 27. She told me that when she was in University that she had a threesome with two blokes & it was the one time she has ever been totally turned on & that it would take a lot to top that! I didnt think that it would bother me & its not the fact that she has done it, its the fact that I feel like I dont totally turn her on now & it has made me feel a bit inadequate! That may sound silly but it is just playing on my mind. Am I stupid to be thinking like this or should I do something about it?

2007-03-21 23:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by richardwales79 3

i always fall in love with love... i forever long for that sense of belonging... and I all the time fall into the wrong person. if you read my question last week, you could make out what I am talking about.... I just walked out from a relationship of 4 years coz i found out for the umpteenth time that he was cheating me... after treating him like a king, pampering him like a baby, not asking him money and trying to make do with what I earn and add to this; he is married and his family is back in their country and I was like a fool worshipping him. but this is not the first time. men tend to take advantage of me. I am Asian, mid forties, have grown up kids, had a life before those 3 relationships, and now it makes me feel I should just stop believing there's someone who can love me. I am not bragging but, for my age I can still be mistaken to be on my early 30's... but what's wrong? why does this keep on happening?Is there someone out there for me who is worthy of my love and affection?

2007-03-21 23:40:20 · 5 answers · asked by gemovaperson 1

How do i trust my Girlfriend? Should it be natural? I have always had trust issues dated from childhood. I want to more than anything because its driving us apart and i dont want to lose her and for my peice of mind. What can i do to help?

2007-03-21 23:38:20 · 16 answers · asked by AJ21 1

i often answer questions in this catagory, and two recent ones in particular were from someone in real need of help and i wondered afterwards how they had got on, any one else think further than answering the next question, and wouldnt it be nice to hear some happy endings??

2007-03-21 23:37:29 · 19 answers · asked by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7

What are your wild weekend plans?

2007-03-21 23:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2

my boyfriend has had a friend a girl as a mate foryears they used to fancey each other but things have changed ,she has a boyfriend and me and my boyfriend are loved and looking to get married , i met this gitl and he said they are going out for a quick drink after work . i do trust him but why do i feel like crap? why am i sad he is going? is this normal ? am i silly ? what shall i do ? i cant go as im at work x?

2007-03-21 23:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by clare w 1

I was discussing with my girlfriend last night about previous relationships I am 27 & she is almost 27. She told me that when she was in University that she had a threesome with two blokes & it was the one time she has ever been totally turned on & that it would take a lot to top that! I didnt think that it would bother me & its not the fact that she has done it, its the fact that I feel like I dont totally turn her on now & it has made me feel a bit inadequate! That may sound silly but it is just playing on my mind. Am I stupid to be thinking like this or should I do something about it?

2007-03-21 23:15:01 · 16 answers · asked by richardwales79 3

how is it lust and how is it love?

2007-03-21 23:13:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

.....now my lover won't commit to me because im such a philanderer......WOMEN!!!...what u gonna do????

2007-03-21 23:03:29 · 2 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1

OK There is this girl i like a lot i am taking a lesson with her (Math). I Want to know a few things cause i never had a relationship before i wanna know if she likes ME and what move could she make to tell me? I Wanna know how to tell her i like her ? I Can take another lesson with her should i go for it i also want to know if it is too late to ask her out ?

So Reply PLZ

2007-03-21 22:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by bido91 2

2007-03-21 22:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by charlotte 2

Im sooo confused and torn. My brother has been friends with Sam for bout 10 years but I know Sam too coz we all grew up together but they are 3 yrs younger. Anyway recently we all started hanging out more and Me n Sam realised how much we liked each other! For about 6 months i really did ignore my feelings coz i know my bro wouldnt be happy with it! My brother found out that we kissed and told me he doesnt want me to see him again he's soo against it and basically isnt speaking to me and is kind of making me choose. I know this thing with Sam is a risk and i wouldnt bother if it didnt feel real! Were not kids we're like early 20's so it all seems totally immature having to hide wat we feel etc etc! I just dont want to lose my brother or sam! Its all the early stages of a relationship and its sooo perfect but i just wonder whether to end it now before it gets serious or just carry on with all the risks! I just dont want anyone to get hurt and want everyone to be happy!!!! Wat to do?

2007-03-21 22:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by zara 2

it happens in love, that it makes you disable to talk to her where you are dieing without her..... you do every thing you sent gifts greetins messages but cant say any thing why why why why why and when she by mistake calls you and answer to another number as you are changing your self to her then she wants to contact why why why why what shall i do what shall i do i am just dieing

2007-03-21 22:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by Omed S.S GRSN 1

I was in a violent relationship for a few years and it wasn't like that in the beginning but after a few drinks i turned in to his punch bag, every night i got punched, kicked and slapped... Why do men do this and why do they think its right?

2007-03-21 22:06:10 · 36 answers · asked by chell_bell84 1

stbarnardos

2007-03-21 21:56:53 · 3 answers · asked by Suzanne 1

Hi, I am 42 year old. Married with 2 kids. I am hopelessly attracted towards my 20 year old nephew. 8 months ago I seduced him and we had foreplay. Since than we do it everytime we are alone. But even after repeated requests he refuses to go all the way. Everytime he stops just short of intercourse. What could be the reason behind this? How should I make him do it?

2007-03-21 21:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 21:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men, if you had a girlfriend who was a maxim, playboy model or looked like one. Would you still look at porn?

2007-03-21 21:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1

Well, here's my story.

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, over the phone, using some vague reason that led me to believe he either lost interest or founf interest in another girl.

It's been two weeks and I've been sitting around and moping and crying and listening to jazz 70%-ish of the time. I'm going crazy.

Anyway. Here's my question: Do I have the right to mope if I technically haven't done anything to try and get him back? I feel cheated and lied to. But at the same time, nothing's changed -- I still love being around him and I love talking to him. I love it when he smiles and he's still the most amazing person I know.

I know this is pathetic, but if we could put that aside and you could tell me whether or not I'm justified in my moping, that'd be...dandy.

Thanks.

2007-03-21 21:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by K 1

2007-03-21 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2

2007-03-21 20:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 36 yo female i am trying to figure out how go get my mom's attention and keep it, i am a little slow but not much,my mom think's that if i go out into the real world how should i grab her attention

2007-03-21 20:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by trina 2

I doubt because everytime I show her love she doesnt react and would never response to my actions. I doubt if she miss me when where not together. Please give some advice...

2007-03-21 20:50:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 20:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by tom n 1

well i see people say they love each other, and i can see the love, but soon or later they would break up.. so who ever is reading this can you honestly say you love someone? and should love last? or does love have a time limit? if you really love them why leave? so forth and so on.. give me opionions and insights please.

2007-03-21 20:30:44 · 14 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3

like this question down below i copied it from someones question...seriously if you cant write well in english learn ok, before you go asking people questions in a ENGLISH website. does anyone else get irritated about this?



"Can Anyone Help Me To Get Rid Of These Thoughts....?
Friends, im 17+ and m in a realtionship with a girl last 1.3 yrs for which m thankful to god always!..the things were damn nice before...still it is! My problem is that whenever she's talking to anyone in phone I feel scare that maybe she's talking to a guy! As she use to talk atleast 1/2n hour....but after that she use to talk to me too and i use to irritate her! "

2007-03-21 20:27:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a defense and my topic is about premarital sex. i got very disappointed with myself bec.i wasn't able to answer that question.i was blocked and got tense with my professor.I was very sad after that they..Wish you could help me.

2007-03-21 20:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by Laede 1

i used to live in the outer suburbs of Melbourne in Australia and then suddenly my dad got a raise and we moved to Toorak, (inner city, very expensive) and i got moved to a private girls school. me and my dad used to be really close, now all my dad does is work, and its like the only important thing in life is money. hes never around
I can't keep up at my new school, the standars are beyond anything i could ever imagine. im failing and i don't know wat im meant to do anymore, everytime i fail my parents give me lectures on how if i don't do well in school im not gonna make money and go bak to living in a **** whole and i'll never be happy. my parents think i wont be happy living without lots of money.
except everytime i mess up @ school, ill come home and lock myself in my room and cry all night til i fall asleep. sometimes ill tell myself im usless and even cut myself,
is this depression all coz of my rents presure bout money? wats are your thought of money and how to live life...

2007-03-21 20:21:36 · 2 answers · asked by biianca [ loveees ] you 2

2007-03-21 20:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by w@NEe 2

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2007-03-21 20:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by www.nomarriage.com 1