Other - Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

My boyfriend is grumpy and stressed unless he smokes cannabis.We have a baby and i just want our relationship to work. This started before he started smoking it. He used to be so kind and caring when we first met but he has changed completely.
I end up buying it for him because i cant handle the rows. I love him but whenever we get into big rows he says he doesn't love me and is only with me for the baby. Then we get back together and he says he didn't mean it as he was just angry.
I don't know what to do please help.

2007-03-21 08:15:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years now (I am almost 21) and we have decided we are going to move in together January 2008. The problem is I grew up in a very very conservative religious environment and they are still that way. Now I still believe in God and have my morals, but I know my parents will disapprove and be angry with me and accuse of sinning and how wrong I am. They are sort of close minded and who knows how they will react. I love my boyfriend, and eventually we will be getting married after we finish college. My question is, what does everyone think about this, and do you have suggestions on how to handle the situation? I'm nervous about telling them. I don't want their to be hate between me and my family. It's not a question of should I move in with him, because I am and I'm happy with that. Just curious what everyone thinks!

2007-03-21 08:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by pink86 3

2007-03-21 08:07:43 · 2 answers · asked by Red 2

OK so basically I've liked this boy since eighth grade. I am a senior now. Sophomore year when we went on our first date he held my hand on the car ride hom and then tried to kiss me goodnight but i avoided it. I thought i had feelings for someone else who i had met online and when i met them i realized i didnt. however the first boy, nick, was avoiding me now because i had ignored him at a party the day after our date. we didnt talk for like 2 years. last year he went to junior prom with one of my friends who had said she never would date him and just was going with him to have a date. they have been going out ever since and their one year is coming up in may. this year nick is in two of my classes and we've been talking and even acting like we used to when we were good friends. ive realized how much i miss him and what a mistake i made two years ago. sometimes i wonder if he still thinks about me and wishes we were together. gahhh its so weird and i wish i didnt feel like this.

2007-03-21 07:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whom to do you guys and girls remember more?

the first person you fell in love with ( was together) or the second guy you fell in love with and had sex with. (was together)?

2007-03-21 07:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2

I don't take them personally, because the people that said and did these things to me, showed themselves to be people that don't have much character by the way they behaved. Their personal insults towards me were mean and harsh... but it just showed that as adults they certainly don't have good skills for dealing with things in other people that they don't understand or value. So, with these insights, I am not taking it peronally.. but every day, about 30 times, it pops into my head and bothers me... when will I be able to shrug off that these people harshly cristized me?

2007-03-21 07:52:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 07:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by Matt 1

I'm a stay at home mom with 2 children and I'm active in the community.

2007-03-21 07:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by Maryann 1

i'm not even pregnant but my freind has a kid and she told both of the dudes that they were both the dad...and those two men do not talk to eachother isnt that messed up. Have yall ever done that or heard of that!! i'm not judgemental i just want to know your story it's intresting to me and makes me laugh that the daddies are so stupid~!!

2007-03-21 07:28:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've kinda asked this question already but got a bunch of answers as if i was just clueless on dating all together. That was a wrong assumption to make. I'm just looking for really different ideas you wouldn't normally think bout, like indoor sky diving. If your going to tell me movies, pinics, horse back riding, or anyhting thats just easy to do anytime then please dont bother! Tell me your wildest best date maybe it'll give me idea or if you just know of something really cool to do, tell me! Any suggestions now?

2007-03-21 07:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3

my daughter is 4 and has found her first love
Did your first love last forever as she seems to think it will4

2007-03-21 07:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the real mothers, this may be a site that will help you. It helped me.

http://www.exiledmothers.com/

2007-03-21 07:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by lady 5

Im a little depressed and i want to know if i am right to feel this way. My aunt died of breast cancer in september and that affected me. I have never had a girlfriend and the ones that i like end up going out with me for one date and says that there is no spark. Im failing college, and if i dont pick it up i will get kicked out. This girl that i really liked ended up liking my best friend, which really hurt me. My best friend didnt go out with her because of me. He is the only thing threw all of this that has kept me going. On his f-ing birthday i got really drunk and i threw up in bar and we got kicked out, he says he isnt mad but i no he is. I feel really bad and now here i am alone, with no one to talk 2, because my friends from highschool have stoped talking to me, and college, well im only taking to classess and so far no friends. He was the only friend i had and i feel like ive lost him because of my stupidity. What should i do?? i cant loose him as a friend.

2007-03-21 07:00:55 · 1 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2

2007-03-21 06:37:15 · 13 answers · asked by Abi 1

With my ex boyfriend... when he would ejaculate inside of me there was no irritation, but now whith my current boyfriend, when he ejaculates inside of me i get terrible itching and burrning.... does anyone know what is going on with that? Please i'd like adult answers.

2007-03-21 06:34:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, but i backed out..then she said she was naive 2 think friends would work

2007-03-21 06:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1

I really like this guy. I would love to be his gf. But i am afraid. My last couple relationships have turned out crappy. They haven't lasted longer then 3 weeks. The guys change. I don't change. they do, for some odd reason. I'm afraid if i do go out with him, the romantic little love poems will stop, and he would become a prick, like the others. I'm not sure what to do. he wants me to be his gf. but i'm afraid of getting my heart broken once again. should i just give up, and stay friends?

2007-03-21 06:27:54 · 35 answers · asked by Skye 2

well i had my first love back in november of 2004 im 15 now but when i fell in love with her i fell in love so deep and she used to make my heart feel so good,and inside i just know were meant to be together,and that were the right people for eachother and that fate will bring us together,right now we are not in touch but i dont think that that feeling she used to give me when i first fell in love with her i cant feel with anyone else at least for 20 or 30 years or more, i feel like i was meant to fall in love with her

2007-03-21 06:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 06:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm looking for him. He should still be here in NC. And he went to East Lincolnton High School.

2007-03-21 06:03:25 · 2 answers · asked by lilkitt 3

Other than telling him straight out, I mean anyways to flirt and conversation starters with a shy and sporty guy would be what I'm looking for.

2007-03-21 06:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, but he has become moody, there isnt much sex anymore, and he seems to find things to moan to me about.

I was sorting out the washing and he piped up I asked you to move that (that being a very small pile of letters on the coffee table) and then abruptly said, 'why don't you just pack your bags'

what the hell has gone wrong!??!?!?

2007-03-21 05:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by leffers55 1

he keeps fainting. he is seventeen, and very fit and healthy (he plays lots of sport etc, has a 6 pack and stuff, so he's not unhealthy). his friends mock him and call him a GIRL and a SISSY. he isn't, is he? he cant help it?
he goes really cold and shaky and shivery, and is unconscious for about 3 minutes a time. it's happened about 5 times this week already.
i am worried. he wont go to a doctor. he says he can 'handle it.'
help!

2007-03-21 05:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by carl barat 2

My girlfriend told me off. She called me selfish because of a misunderstanding. Although her feelings were hurt unintentionally by my actions, she retaliated intentionally with unkind words toward me. She wants me to apologize, but I think she should apologize for her retaliation. I don’t think ME apologizing to HER is necessary because she already made herself feel better by putting me down. Am I the one that deserves an apology? Or does she?

2007-03-21 05:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by rodanrodney 1

2007-03-21 05:35:22 · 15 answers · asked by Ilse Fuentes 1

She has a boyfriend but she says she doesn't know if she loves him. She was seeing new guys when we were together ....started to having doubts.

She admits that i would treat her the same as i use to even if she comes back ...even though she left me. She said she still loves me but she is so confused whether she wants to come back. She seems like she doesn't know what she wants in a relationship.

She knows that i want to marry her and that i'm still waiting for her answer. She used to feel that same way. We both were so close back then and it was our first time for the both of us when we first made love.

I treated her well... the way she wanted to be treated..right now she's complaining to me about how her current boyfriend is treating her.

I forgot...she's my cousin

2007-03-21 05:29:03 · 3 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2

My conscience Asking..

2007-03-21 05:21:49 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2

What is the best way to say "I'm sorry " after you had a fight with your girlfriend?

2007-03-21 05:10:47 · 29 answers · asked by ScorpionX-The Mad Man 2

Should i take the antidepresent? even though i dont want to more than anything? or should i just keep saying no?

2007-03-21 05:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick D 1

At the moment, I've got so gh my head at the moment. I've got my GCSE's in two months and I feel almost as though i'm not that bothered. I know i should be, but i just don't feel it. All i've got runny through my head is friends problems, arguments with families, ex-bf's, bf's, just anything not to do with my GCSE's.

What can i do to concentrate on the 1 thing, it's all confusing me at the moment, and it's stopping me from sleeping as well.

please help!

thanks

xxx

2007-03-21 05:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by Spamoid 2