OK so basically I've liked this boy since eighth grade. I am a senior now. Sophomore year when we went on our first date he held my hand on the car ride hom and then tried to kiss me goodnight but i avoided it. I thought i had feelings for someone else who i had met online and when i met them i realized i didnt. however the first boy, nick, was avoiding me now because i had ignored him at a party the day after our date. we didnt talk for like 2 years. last year he went to junior prom with one of my friends who had said she never would date him and just was going with him to have a date. they have been going out ever since and their one year is coming up in may. this year nick is in two of my classes and we've been talking and even acting like we used to when we were good friends. ive realized how much i miss him and what a mistake i made two years ago. sometimes i wonder if he still thinks about me and wishes we were together. gahhh its so weird and i wish i didnt feel like this.
2007-03-21 07:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh also im not sure if he is with her cause he actually likes her or because he wants to have a girlfriend and now since he has been with her for so long he doesnt know what to do without her.
2007-03-21 07:57:30 · update #1
you had your chance , blew it ...don't screw up things between nick and your friend ... Live and Learn, but always move ahead.
2007-03-21 07:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by EGOman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a girl in junior year and through a misunderstanding, she decided i was rude and didn't talk to me for a long time. Then we became very good friends in senior high , having coffee and talking for hours. But as we were both going out with others, we never tried for more. Then a year after high school we met and were both available..we dated, married had kids and...well that was 30 years ago, and she is still a Hottie! ...so hang in there, you may get another chance :)
2007-03-21 15:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.OldGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never step in old bacon..Your girlfriend will be for ever. Boys come and go. Be yourself and let him figure it out. Not to worry boys are smarter than they look sometimes. (giggle) he will know if sparks are flying and will let you know. Date all the guys you can let it be known you are free and available. It take about 2 weeks for men to come around and declare their interest. He might see you as something he is missing. But let him figure it out. Be traditional it always works. Beware your girlfriend may be in love. You do not want to loose a friend just for a thought.
2007-03-21 15:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu need to let it go, really. Your senior year is about new begginings and endings, you have plenty on your plate without adding this to the mix. YOU may just be trying to hang on to things from the past because you are a little afraid of the future....he has a girl, for your own sake leave it alone.
2007-03-21 14:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...well you said you are good friends now, so try finding out how he really feels for his girlfriend, if as u said is in the relationship just because, or maybe is something more...and after you have the facts straight, if you still feel like he doesn't really love her, you can tell him how you feel, but at the same time you have to think about the future if your paths are going separately it might not work at all, so why start something just to end it?...so...find out how deep your feeling are for this guy, and act accordingly...
2007-03-21 15:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Roxana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird. Sometimes we don't realize what we have til it is gone. Or maybe it just took some growing up, either way, I think you should act on your feelings. Obviously there is something there for you if you can't get him out of your mind.
2007-03-21 14:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by baygem2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you just be friends, makes life alot easier,, have fun your senior year, you will be glad someday,, might not realize it now, but have as much fun senior year and this summer,, cuz you dont get to go back in time and do it over,, believe me,, I am going to my 30 years high school reunion next year, and People always show pictures of stuff they did senior year and summer,, I worked alot,,
2007-03-21 14:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buyer's remorse. You blew him off two years ago, now he has a girlfriend and he's more attractive to you. Unfortunately, it's one of your friends he's dating, which makes him OFF LIMITS, at least til he breaks up with her. Move on and find a new man.
2007-03-21 15:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes with someone you need to let them be... especially due to the fact that his girl is supposedly your freind. How would you feel if you were in his girl's shoes? if i'm wrong then you just need to come out and ask him yourself. but i'm betting if hes been with this girl for almost a year then he's bound to have some sort of feelings for her. my advice find someone SINGLE.
2007-03-21 15:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by missi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed the chance, why ruin it for someone else?
If something happens between him and his g/f, then maybe you can do something, but not before that or you will ruin it not for him only, but your friend too, which I don't think you want to do.
2007-03-21 15:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I'm just guessing but i think he likes you back and that is who i feel when that happens to me an it happens to me alot and to my Friends alot so it is normal and you should give him a nother chance because he problem wants it but he is to nervous to do it him self.
2007-03-21 15:18:18 · answer #11 · answered by masta yoda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋