My girlfriend told me off. She called me selfish because of a misunderstanding. Although her feelings were hurt unintentionally by my actions, she retaliated intentionally with unkind words toward me. She wants me to apologize, but I think she should apologize for her retaliation. I don’t think ME apologizing to HER is necessary because she already made herself feel better by putting me down. Am I the one that deserves an apology? Or does she?
2007-03-21 05:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by rodanrodney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
waaaaaaaaaaaaa........
cry me a river, this is one of the most immature questions I have come across in a long time.
oh my bad, didn't realize you were a kid.
be mature and set a good example, you should both apologize.
2007-03-21 06:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down explain to each other in calm rational voices why you were hurt by the other's action. Then on the count of three whether you forgive or not , you both say "I'm sorry let's put it in the past and love each other today". Then it will no longer be an issue just don't make the mistake twice.
2007-03-21 05:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Janet L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you did, but whatever it is upset h er. You should apologize to each other, you were both wrong, even if what you did wasn't on purpose the right thing to do is tell her your sorry. The more mature of the 2 would apologize first.
2007-03-21 05:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the whole scheme of life one fight is not worth a relationship of any kind. If you were wrong in any way, ask for her forgiveness and care about your part in this and do not worry about hers. It does not matter what eventually happened if something you did started the whole thing then own it, end it and plant it six ft under with honest words of apology and humble request for forgivenesss.
2007-03-21 06:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by chattanooga chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love this girl and the fight was over something stupid even if its not your fault i think you should just go ahead and apologize for the fight happening in the first place. Unless you want her to continue being mad. sometimes you just have to apolozige for things to end the argument even if you didnt do it. It will make your girlfriend happy and if she aint happy then aint nobody gonna be happy. do the right thing buddy and apologize be the bigger person.
2007-03-21 05:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually friendship goes a long way if the ingredient is mutual understanding,as per the situation you both hit upon wrong chord.both need to understand.
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It all depends on how much you miss her,if that is so then apologize,then after that you can put your side.
2007-03-21 05:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by kala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of u guys should...but someone should be the more responsible one and jus do it first even if it wasnt your fault just do it so u guys and make up
2007-03-21 05:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by ericjarrellwilliamsjohnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise...both of you apologize...YOU FIRST! SET THE EXAMPLE!!!!
2007-03-21 05:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by xman77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what did you do ?
I can't say that you need an apalogie without knowing what happend?
2007-03-21 05:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋