Other - Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we moved down to London to get on with our lives, make them better and be together. The problem is that I am now feeling that I need some space. We are supposed to be moving into a new flat next weekend and we also have another flatmate in tow.
I really want some time to just live my life for a while and reassess what I want to do and where I want to be, but at the same time I really dont want to lose him cos I care about him a great deal. i also dont know if I can handle upsetting him for something that might be just a phase. Advice?

2007-03-23 23:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many whom hv believed or trusted him will definetely think so.Especailly after he was found NOT GUILTY by the Law.We all hv full respect for the law system here.But I'm very sure there are some who will be against it despite his innocence.Imagine having so many he called"God sons" buyin gof expensive gifts etc.Is it fair that he should be monitored closely before he's back teaching again.Some will be terrified and find it difficult to accept it.What do u think? (Let's be honest and fair should u want to shar yr point of view)

2007-03-23 23:49:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has pulled away from me, he's become distant with me due to work stress. He works full-time and during his free time during evenings, he looks for a new job. He has had few interviews, some near my city but he has not been accepted anywhere yet. He's still waiting for some answers. He is unhappy with his current job and hates it. he said hes not feeling good now. Last month I became very needy of him, which made him upset. I then realised that it makes things works talking about the relationship and blaming him he does not care. I am worrying about this and I am sad worrying that he is loosing interest in our relationship as he has not been attentive and I don't hear from him much? I am happy as he texted me a couple of days ago but today I asked him if we could meet up as we live an hour away from each other. He said that weekend he goes home to see his family. I asked him about the weekend after and he replied with " I don't know, we will see". What can I do?

2007-03-23 23:42:43 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1

I seriously think she is some kind of killer. She isnt home right now, but we were watching real crimes on tv and when this one about some kind of assasination came on she got up, went to her room and walked out with her piece. I have never seen her handle it so well, "she keeps it for protection" apparently and every time she uses it or cleans it she is really clumsy. She walked out the door 10 minutes ago, drove her car through the garage door and I tried to call her and she wont answer. The only thing she said was, damn you sharon, and then left. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?

2007-03-23 23:39:59 · 21 answers · asked by Modus Operandi 2

You could try geting a parrot.

2007-03-23 23:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by DAVE 6

Why cant i move on???
why cant i move on from my ex? it has been a year and i still love himsooooo much. how come i cant move on??

does this mean i really love him?
everytime i think that it is time to move on something happens like he contatcts me or something and i cant seem to move on

2007-03-23 23:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with the hub for 7 years, married for 5 and we have 2 young kids. i can't say that i love him, honestly i married him while on a rebound. i never got over the other guy and i still grieve coz recently i found out that guy was planning to marry me after he gets his MBA. wat can i say, i was 23 and i've never been without a bf so when the hub proposed, i said yes. things have never been good from the start, the hub was violent and he used to hit me. its since stopped but now he's taking it out on the kids. just awhile ago, my 2 y/o girl was cranky and he hit her, she fell and hit her head on the side of the dining table. let's just say it wasn't the first time, he once hit my boy who was then 2y/o till the boy bled. he's ignored me, cheated on me (though he swears on God's name he didn't), treated me like crap all these years. Its not that i'm scared to lose him, i'm just afraid no one will accept me and my kids, who've never felt their dad's love. i'm really lost..

2007-03-23 23:10:26 · 18 answers · asked by sexxxy_sabs 1

Whenever im in town I always see a gay with about 3 gorgeous girls giggling and putting there arm around him. The guys are definately gay because if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and looks like a duck it must be a duck lol. Why do gays get gorgeous girls hanging round with them? it just seems odd how some guys cant get 1 girl hanging round with them and gays always have gorgeous girls with them.

2007-03-23 22:50:06 · 17 answers · asked by gbasource 1

its like they think that thay are always right when they are around their friends. makeing us look like ***

2007-03-23 22:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by trublu 1

This is something I wrote for my hubby on he's birthday card.

You make me feel good
You make me feel happy
when I'm with you
I feel free
I laugh
I feel beautiful and smart
I feel strong to face my fears

You helped me find my self
When I was lost and confused
You listen to me with patients
You hugged me and kissed my tears

I love you
Your sweet
Your funny
Your cute like a little bunny (giggle I thought that was funny :p)
I love everything about you
Even the annoying things
To me your Perfect :)

He loved it and give me a huge hug and a sweet kiss :)

2007-03-23 22:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by Tina 4

2007-03-23 22:20:33 · 9 answers · asked by sweets 2

i am afraid for my life i have few friends and running out of places to go im desperate to change my identity and i dont want anyone to know because my ex is a police officer and he told me he will know how to find me if i change my identity please help me in changing my identity i just want to live a normal happy life can anyone help me lead the way?

2007-03-23 22:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-23 22:01:22 · 20 answers · asked by tanny 3

if you are in a relationship and everything's ok--but there's one sort of a problem. and that is-- if the person you're with doesn't really find you funny to talk with or any of your stories to her makes her laugh, is it something to consider to be a hazard or an aspect in your relationship with this person to think about and maybe consider to be a reason to dedide to just break off with the relationship just so to make things easier for yourself and the person your with? need advice.

2007-03-23 21:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by ken 1

i see this everywhere now what the #$#$ does it mean?

2007-03-23 21:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to tell her that I can take the responsiblity of a leader but not being proud of my talents, just for the sake of service and the benefit of the group.

2007-03-23 21:39:01 · 2 answers · asked by jcn 1

my partner of 7 years moved away, me and our daughter were going to go and live with him, weve been arguing because he wants me to go and live with him now but im not sure, we havent spoken for a week, i usually do all the phoning but this time ive had enough not rang or text him, is it true you should let someone go to get them back? i know hes not happy and hes not sure moving away was the right thing to do, he was 40 on thursday and it does cross my mind is he having a mid life crisis? please help read my other questions to understand this problem more. thanks....

2007-03-23 21:33:27 · 11 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2

My boyfriend is jobless and his exam result really suck!
But,I love him. How do think about my future if i married him?
What should i do?

2007-03-23 21:32:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my sister are like a year and six months apart. She always tries to put me down all the time I cant even trust her. she went as far as trying to break me and my fiance up for her own revenge about me not letting her borrow my shoes! My mom says she's jealous because i'm younger and have more things going on for my self. I love my sister but she is just so heartless when it comes to me. I can ask her a simple question and shell answer me like if I'm crap. I cry sometimes because it hurts me alot. I hate the fact that she looks at me like competition and she is not happy when im doing good. She started rumors about me at school about personal things that only she knew i thought i could of trusted her with my secrets and she tells everyone, she slept with a guy that I used to talk too behind my back, she talks to my enemies like if they were her best friends. I dont get it why does someone want to hurt their own sister it sucks! I never done anything to hurt her need advice?

2007-03-23 21:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by Jade Marrie 2

2007-03-23 21:26:34 · 1 answers · asked by blue_eyez181 1

Me and my sister are like a year and six months apart. She always tries to put me down all the time I cant even trust her. she went as far as trying to break me and my fiance up for her own revenge about me not letting her borrow my shoes! My mom says she's jealous because i'm younger and have more things going on for my self. I love my sister but she is just so heartless when it comes to me. I can ask her a simple question and shell answer me like if I'm crap. I cry sometimes because it hurts me alot. I hate the fact that she looks at me like competition and she is not happy when im doing good. She started rumors about me at school about personal things that only she knew i thought i could of trusted her with my secrets and she tells everyone, she slept with a guy that I used to talk too behind my back, she talks to my enemies like if they were her best friends. I dont get it why does someone want to hurt their own sister it sucks! I never done anything to hurt her need advice?

2007-03-23 21:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Jade Marrie 2

us girls do so much already for are self. and guys want us to act like their moms. do everthing for them

2007-03-23 21:19:11 · 17 answers · asked by trublu 1

How to handle those critics?

2007-03-23 21:02:32 · 5 answers · asked by uvika 1

i found whosmytwin.org but its not working do you have any links or any suggestions?

2007-03-23 21:00:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have clothes and makeup so what else is important?

2007-03-23 20:42:16 · 18 answers · asked by Rose 1

2007-03-23 20:34:41 · 2 answers · asked by tj 1

My ex and I have been broken up for 5 months now. The reason why we broke up was because of his temper. He use to physically abuse me and tear up my things in my apartment. Since we've been broken up he has become saved and told me that he would never do those things to be again. He told me that now that he's in the realm of God, the devil can not get to him like that again and make him abuse me again. I still love him but I'm confused about whether or not I should give him another chance. I just dont want to look like a fool again. But on the other hand I feel like there arent really that many "good guys" out there and that because he's trying I should work with him. I dont know...He wants me to be saved with him and work this thing out. I can tell he's trying and really trying to change, I see the chance in him but still I'm confused. Please help me.

2007-03-23 20:32:03 · 19 answers · asked by Sexy D 1

2007-03-23 20:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by tj 1

We've been dating for several years, and pondering tying the knot. We have an otherwise excellent relationship. He is logical, and sees children as a lot of work and a big investment. Says he's pretty sure he won't want kids. I, on the other hand, think there will come a time when I will have a strong desire to have children. This could be a deal breaker for us. Any guys out there who used to cringe at the idea of kids, but have had a change of heart? Is it possible that a 20 something male could develop a desire for children as he grows older and settles down? Or, is this relationship doomed to fail? Sage advice and words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!

2007-03-23 20:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by futurerdh 2

My b/f of 3 years just proposed 2 me over the phone and I love him but I told him that I wasn't ready yet Im 17 so i said i want to go to college and he was making me feel bad and now i do cause i really love him but now i know the relationship wont be the same nomore what should i do is it really my fault???

2007-03-23 19:44:59 · 9 answers · asked by secretgirl 1