Other - Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

i split frm my ex over 1year ago and i have his 4 year old son, i live in my own house with my child, ive been seein a guy for just over a year, my niece is gettin christened sunday and my sis has asked my ex to be godfather, i havent been asked to be godmother and i said i was goin till they said my ex is goin n bein godfather, then i said it was best if i dont go cos we dont get on, they said well hes comin and bein godfather whether i like it or not, and i said well i aint goin, mum n dad said fine dont come but ur goin to look bad, and hes caused nothin but trouble wiv my bloke. im stuck in the middle they know my ex has caused me nuthin but trouble and he hates me, yet they choose him over me

2007-03-26 23:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 23:51:03 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

you push the door open and walk in and find me naked and tied up tightly, what do you do with me?

2007-03-26 23:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2

Is there anything wrong with a 17yr female and 37yr old male being in a relationship?

2007-03-26 23:47:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I deal with my b/f not being able to trust me. Im not allowed out alone and it really getting me down. I love him more than anything but can't handle him not trusting me enough to go out. I dont understand as I have never done anything to make him not trust me. Im now on anti-depressants and have lost all my friends, Im only eighteen and I cant imagine my life without him. Please help?

2007-03-26 23:36:27 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 23:21:02 · 11 answers · asked by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4

establish that the majority rules and then bail. i need response to prove to her that her sister skills are poor,( LONG STORY ABBV>) i got her a job , we needed to have a employ. status chg. a meeting w/ boss, after repete inquires 1 mo. we kept waiting ,nothing ever happens, so i push the enelope, calling him again this time demanding there be some thing done i told him that i was speaking for all of us (somethg we all did 1 time or another) as a major. we are demanding it., i talked for my personal complaints, which entailed a greater deal using my truck ,my gas etc a girl rode wme and we have not wrk since
my sis con. to ea day because now that she sees what happened to me she has jumpship along w/ 1 other. aft.ask her 2 keep fighting 4 what we all want she soon told me not to start .bitching about it telling me she did not care hw she got pd, as long as she was working,, she's not said 2 wds 2 me bout it unless i coax her into reply to email please answer thx

2007-03-26 23:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-03-26 23:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by one hot momma 2

My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 years. For the last couple of months, he hasnt been wanting sex as often as we used to. We would have sex like once a week. I was wondering if practicing celibacy for a while would help? Maybe stop having sex, which would make him want it more and more? Or do you think it would ruin us, and make us grow further apart?

2007-03-26 22:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by B 2

She is 22yrs old & I am too. Those it make her lazy? She is pretty,honest,smart,positive & she have a good heart.

2007-03-26 22:39:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what cake shall i get..whats the yummiest?? sad question i know but what the heck! cheers...heidi x

2007-03-26 22:39:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 22:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by christianity 1

In every relationship, there is something that is expected of each individual involved. As a man, there are things that he expects from his woman. what kind of woman does a man expect his woman to be?

2007-03-26 22:25:44 · 4 answers · asked by ifeanyiabel 1

im in my mid 20's and my life was not all smelling of roses! I had a pretty tough childhood and in my teens i was not so perfect! Now I can see what i have done wrong and try to make it right! I had done so many mistakes but i cant seems to forgive my self! I keep punishing my self!

Im stuck in the past, which is stopping me from having a good future.

how do i overcome this, please help me!

2007-03-26 22:15:29 · 19 answers · asked by Janey 3

....with my daughter. She's 3 and a half and I absolutely adore her and love being with her. I work in the mornings and, if I don't see her before I go to work, I have to phone my hubby and ask to speak to her, just to say good morning. She's fantastic company and we have really good fun together.
Trouble is, she's due to start school in September (already goes to pre-school in the mornings) and people keep saying "they're lovely at that age. Wait till they go to school, it'll all change". Is this really true? How can I retain my bond with her when she begins this long journey through life?

2007-03-26 21:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by Rachael H 5

I admire those who can accept their partners children from a previous marriage and feel love for them.
My husband has a 19 year old child from a previous marriage that I have never met. Our four children do not even know he exists.
After over 16 years the child now wants to meet my husband.
I just wish this child would disappear and leave us completely alone. I feel sick at the thought that he may come and visit.
We are a VERY happy family of six and I know that I cannot handle a visit from this child (now a man).
I know people will say horrible things about me, but I am not a horrible person. I am just being honest because I am soooo worried this child will ruin my happy family and my relationship.
The mother of this child and her family made it impossible for my husband to see this child after the marriage break-up and moved with no forwarding address. There has been no contact til now.
Please give constructive advise, not abuse!

2007-03-26 21:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by Peta G 2

2007-03-26 21:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my daughter was age 4yrs she was fostered because I was suffering from depression which I was left untreated for, when I was raped four years earlier by someone I had trusted, I was still a virgin and saving myself, for when the right person came along. I was only seventeen at the time, nieve, stupid and knew nothing about boys, so you could imagine, this man thought I was dinner and he just ate me, then spat out my bones, I felt dirty, used and so foolish to trust him.
When I had my daughter fostered , I had every intention of getting her back but when I did try the social worker had left and my daughter was adopted by child abusers, I tried to find her on my own but I couldn't because I couldn't drive.
I was allowed to see her when she was thirteen, I jumped at the chance but she was sent with a minder which I now understand was her abuser, social services wouldn't let me speak to her on her own, all this time she was being sexually abused by the family who adopted her.

2007-03-26 21:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lyndell T 1

2007-03-26 21:31:07 · 10 answers · asked by shygal 2

i met this unbelieveable man here on the comp... never met in person... i'm new to this... but i can say.. he is everything i want... he feels the same too... My feelings for him grew so strong.. i think about him all the time... i would give anything to have him with me.... but we live sooooo far apart... and it hurts more and more each day... never been through this before... don't want to tell him goodbye... just want to know how to deal with this .... the more i talk to him the more i want him here.. and it is killing me that he's not.... ...... thanks!!

2007-03-26 21:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

his toe pusses and i like the smell sometimes i eat it.....serious

2007-03-26 21:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by jenna h 1

2007-03-26 21:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by Melanie 1

A friend of mine is 27 years old. She has four children, the oldest in elementary school still. She comes from a poor background, and she's just now trying to further her education in nursing. She doesn't have much income and making it paycheck by paycheck is reality for her. She's got pretty eyes and decent face but dentures because of not having money for the dentist as a child. Her body is lean and athletic...amazing six pack despite four kids. She's very sweet, caring, real, and she loves helping people. Her intelligence is high. So, would you give this person a second look?

I don't want this friend as I am married but I am curious as to how "marketable" she really is.

2007-03-26 21:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by TCSO 5

and the comuter logged them as being tooken at 3:50 am in the morning then he did everything possible from attempting to delete them everytime you left the room when you only left the room to go put something in the car because he asked you to after he had already just asked you to go get the same out of the car but you ran so he didnt have time and then when you got tired of him wasting time when he had something that was so important to go do but he was still on computer doing seemingly nothing but making sure you didnt get the mouse that you took the mouse from him then he ripps the hard drive out of the computer so you cant see them, he tries to tell you that it was his sisters friend and it was during the afternoon and then his sister when seeing the pictures says " whos that'' and not to mention that when you return to his house after stealing the hard drive from hoim so he cant delete the pictures somehow they are on the comuter but instead of being 5 pictures there were only2

2007-03-26 21:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

I've hardly started getting ready for graduation which is in less than 2 months. Announcement ideas, food, decorations......anything!

2007-03-26 20:57:53 · 2 answers · asked by imgma2 3

Throughout my late teens, my dad had countless afairs and now i find it hard ot trust men. I broke up quite recently my partner of 3 years, partly due to me being jealous of him and not trusting him.
I never stopped him going out or anything, but I used to wonder what he was upto. To make matters worse, within a week of him leaving me he was seeing a girl form his work that he'd only met 2 weeks before he decided to end it.
How can I learn to trust men. Lads - you can help me out to if you want!

2007-03-26 20:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Clarkey 2

my friend's dad and her uncle were professional footballers.
now she and her 2 sisters are dating professional footballers.
is that weird?
everyone keeps saying its so dumb

2007-03-26 19:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

we don't really see each other.. i all ready told him that i like him and we kissed in january. but he said he was not ready... (some problems with the ex, aound like he's been traumatised) i want to call him and get closer to him, at least just has a friend.... i'm not into 'calling ppl' at all... and there is these girls running after him....

you know what i feel like i was the guy in the story and his is the girl...

I don't know to push him... or sound like desesperate, but....im getting impatient!

he's 18 and me 21.

So WHAT SHOULD I DO...

2007-03-26 19:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Gardenia 2

In the song "somebody told me " by the killers the lyrics go "somebody told me that you have a boyfriend that looks like a girlfriend that i had in february of last year." My question to you is if a friend of the person sayng that says "somebody told me that you have a girlfriend that looks like a boyfriend that i had in february of last year.", would they or could they be the same person?

2007-03-26 19:00:35 · 3 answers · asked by atownviperman 2

another guys and said hello by mean just wanna make friends . it;s happen to me , the next day i saw the same guy that i intruduced myself .its seems he freak out and avoiding me everytime we met . i don't understand here in USA .
i am Romanian , ANY IDEA ???? WHY?? EXPLANATION ,pls

2007-03-26 18:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by ROB 1