i met this unbelieveable man here on the comp... never met in person... i'm new to this... but i can say.. he is everything i want... he feels the same too... My feelings for him grew so strong.. i think about him all the time... i would give anything to have him with me.... but we live sooooo far apart... and it hurts more and more each day... never been through this before... don't want to tell him goodbye... just want to know how to deal with this .... the more i talk to him the more i want him here.. and it is killing me that he's not.... ...... thanks!!
2007-03-26 21:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if your feelings are that strong,,don`t ever let go...hopefully for both your sakes,that eventually you will meet and be very happy togeather !!!! by the way you expressed your feelings,,,i feel you each found your life long partner !!!! all the best....
2007-03-27 10:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chancesare youre right this man is unbelievable. If this guy is so "perfect" then what the hell is he doing on here or is even available. Words are cheap and is the one drawback of computers. Men are great as using words to entrap people into their web. It sounds like youre in love with the idea of being in love and all the excitement that being in love brings. You have fallen for some guy because of his words and we all know men are notorious for letting a woman hear what she wants to hear to get what they want. On computers anybody can be what they want to be. So please be careful that this guy may not be for real. If you do ever get a chance to meet this guy then first meet him in a public place first with a good friend nearby just in case, but never give out your address and phone numbers, etc. out til youre absolutely sure because one mistake could cost you months of nightmares. Trust your gut instinct here and not your heart. Chances are if it sounds too good to be true, chances are its not. Just be safe here and dont read more into this than there really is and take this for what it is, talking on the computer. With all the weirdos in the world that have access to a computer nowadays, one can never be too sure of who they meet on here. Err on the side of caution. Good luck
2007-03-27 05:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet Romance can be weird.. But nothing is certain.. He could be a big lie, an 85 year old man, a con man, a liar, a pervert. Don't mess up your life. Go and be with a boy/man living in your area.. Or if you really want this guy, meet him and then decide
2007-03-27 04:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if this type of thing sounds healthy or if this would be something that Jesus would do. I wouldn't go for it just because people are never who they appear to be in person, let alone over the net. Besides, he may be the end all be all, but only for now, it's not worth breaking your but to realize that all things are temporary when it comes to feelings.
2007-03-27 23:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
til you meet each other then you can say you are each others everything.. keeping in touch via comp & never seen each other face to face are not basis to completely say he is your everything. be more real. get out of the comp & plan for a real date until then you are just living on fantasy.
2007-03-27 04:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think distance is the worst thing in a relation :(. If you love each other, then go and live with him, I believe 3D (3 dimension) is the best way to live with your boyfriend. By only net and telephone it is really hard to continue... I hope you can find a way to live together...
2007-03-27 04:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by aysegul d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big probability that he is not what he appears to be. You are in love with what you imagine he is. Look for somebody that you can meet in person and get acquainted with.
2007-03-27 04:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be with you, have him move to you. I would do that for the girl of my dreams. of course I have a job that would let me move anywhere I wanted also.
2007-03-27 04:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the net causes that problem...
distance means nothing to the heart...
BUT if you are on different sides of the world, it is a REAL PAIN!!!
save up to meet up... :D
2007-03-27 04:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know hes telling the truth.how can u hurt being apart from him when you ve nerver been with him?
2007-03-27 04:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by rose c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋