what would you think if you found pics of some chick on your boyfriends computer?

Question

and the comuter logged them as being tooken at 3:50 am in the morning then he did everything possible from attempting to delete them everytime you left the room when you only left the room to go put something in the car because he asked you to after he had already just asked you to go get the same out of the car but you ran so he didnt have time and then when you got tired of him wasting time when he had something that was so important to go do but he was still on computer doing seemingly nothing but making sure you didnt get the mouse that you took the mouse from him then he ripps the hard drive out of the computer so you cant see them, he tries to tell you that it was his sisters friend and it was during the afternoon and then his sister when seeing the pictures says " whos that'' and not to mention that when you return to his house after stealing the hard drive from hoim so he cant delete the pictures somehow they are on the comuter but instead of being 5 pictures there were only2

the pics were tooken in his bedroom at 350 am in the morning and even after finding these pics he still lied telling me it was in the afternoon so i then looked at the computer log and they were in fact tooken at350 in the morning and it wasnt his sisters friend because when i opulled up the picture in front of her she said whos that and to top it opff i thought i took the hard drive they were on but i guess i got the back up hard drive because when i went back to his house he had the pics on his computer and there were only two i could see and the rest were so dark i couldnt tell what was going on when i know i saw at least 4 in a slideshow befor now theres only two with some chick in a pink shirt i hate him but its hard to leave him without cold hard facts but those are cold hard facts and i think i need to just leave him and never look back because i wouldnt have done those things to him unless i was cheating or had done something bad enough to qualify as cheating logically.

and i did confront him and all i got was lie after lie each time i research and prove something to not be true and show him the proof right in front of his gface he then admits it but only because i found the proof if i hadnt he would have just kept lying now the only thing i can do to prove that he actually did something or the pics wrere of this dumb girl taking off her shirt or them touching eachother is to send the pics to some phioto editing and restoring sevice and pay to have them fix but still i hate him for this and shgouldnt stayu with a man that i want to kick in the face for being so full of it all the time right sometimes a little incouragement and support helps.

it wasnt on the internet these pics were took with his logitech quickcam orbit sitting on top of hjis comuter and she was sitting on her knees right in front of his chair smoking illegal drugs at 355 am and they were alone he says the door was open but so what i am so glad i didnt show up and walk up on that because i would be in jail for violent assult on both of them

Answer 1

Wowwww that's alot, but i think you should confront him in a calmly manner and speak from the heart.

Answer 2

Wow, that is an interesting situation....why are you worried about him looking at other girls, if your relationship is solid, there is no problem with looking, unless he is contacting or meeting these girls, but honestly hun, I wouldn't go through all that trouble, of stealing hard drives and messing up the computer, if you can't trust him, just end it, because where there is no trust there is no love....my husband, when we first started dating, used to go on the computer to look at these hot girls, I never made any big deal, once he even set up a date, his son told me, that he went on that date, and I just broke up with him, plain and simple, we eventually got back together and he still goes online once in a while but he has never gone out with any of these girls. Its better for you to let him know that you don't mind that he looks as long as he is only looking and not disrespecting you. That is the important thing, if he can't do that, then honey its time to find a new boyfriend, who you will be able to trust. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Are these pictures downloaded at 3:50am or actually taken by a digital cam? That would make a difference.

But even then... seems like there is a lot of trust issues going on. On both ends. You don't trust that he's with you and only you. He doesn't trust you enough to open up to you about whoever they are.

So foul play or not, there are already other issues in the relationship.

Answer 4

I'd think: 'You cheater. You've been caught red handed at your dirty tricks. You're trying to hide the obvious.' and then I'd end the relationship. But what do you think? You're thoughts are more valid then mine esspeacially as you're in this situation and I've never been in this situation.

Answer 5

Could have been porn or something he just wanked off to. Doesnt mean he is cheating alot or males have pictures of girls on their pc that isnt their gril friend.

Answer 6

tough girl tough, well, ask him for the truth, was it the same girl? give him a chance, but listen girl, if it happens again, you have to blow it. stay put, and i know that it might hurt, but if he dosen't speak, you gotta do the talking. good luck.

Answer 7

maybe there aren't enough naked pictures of you available for him to look at. this is the problem i ran into with my girlfriend so i look at other naked girls on the internet.