Why cant i move on???
why cant i move on from my ex? it has been a year and i still love himsooooo much. how come i cant move on??
does this mean i really love him?
everytime i think that it is time to move on something happens like he contatcts me or something and i cant seem to move on
2007-03-23 23:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's but normal to every break-up.
But for sure you will learn to move on after you have finally learned to love yourself, as in love yourself, God-centered.
Note: yourself or family and God is more important than him.
Only God knows His plan for you, so you should not fear for anything.
I've have a 5 year relationship and we broke up. It's been 2 years since we broke up. And i've still been thinking of him and i think even if i grow old i'd still be thinking of him. Because he is my first love.
But, you know what? that doesn't mean that i still love him just like the way i love him as a bf. Definitiely I can't erase all the memories we had together, unless i have amnesia.
But, what i am proud of right now, is that i don't love him as a bf, i just remember him as a special person, a special part and chapter of my life.
It helps to meet othe people and to be on another relationship.
But it doesn't mean you have to jump immediately into another relationship just to get over with him. Part of my action was deciding to be in another relationship. And what I'm thanking God is that he gave me my bf now, and i just can't believe, he is a better man than my x. Don't tell me you can't find a better one than him, because i've told that myself a million times.
Don't question God's plans and purposes You broke up for a reason And believe me God has a better plan for you.
Remember me when you get happier in time.
Another important note: It's not also important to be in another relationship just to forget him, coz you may remain single if you feel happier alone.
What could help you move on is to accept that you've broken up already. You should grow up. And do not try to erase the memories, because it gets more bitter.
Learn to be in control and on top of your situation.
Accept all the good and accept as well as the bad because trying to forget them worsens your ability to move on.
Important: Haven't you realize the other aspects of your life aside from your lovelife? Remember: God didn't lend you LIFE for you to waste it for crying. He might not just be the right guy for you.
There are more opportunities ahead.
Appreciate the blessings God had given you.
Focus on your strengths and not on your weaknesses.
You what, when we broke up, i thought that was my end, but i wsa totally wrong, I soooo happy now with my man, more mature, more loving, and treats me like a princess. You just have to wait. Be optimistic., Stop crying. Be patient. Pray to God that may the right man come.
We're getting married this year. And I never regret my decision of ending my previous 5 year relationship, because if not of that decision, I wouldn't meet my mr. perfect.
Stay charming and empowered. Be happy!
Don't be afraid to move on.
Women can live without men but men can't live without us.
Trust in the strength and power of God. Goodluck!
2007-03-23 23:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he your ex? If you still love him, why aren't you together? Is it something you can forgive each other for?
It might mean you still love him, but you could be attached for another reason. Perhaps you can't admit a failure in a relationship, or just like it's unfinished for some reason. Maybe you care about him, but one of you can't commit properly.
If he doesn't love you, forget him. If he mistreated you very badly so you had to run away, forget him, you don't even have to answer his calls. You can burn everything that reminds you of him, change your number without telling him, rearrange the furniture, even move if you need to.
If it was a silly argument about a dog not being on a leash or what color the wallpaper should be, try getting back together.
But from what you say, I cannot tell.
2007-03-23 23:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the same case with my sister... it's been 4 years since my sister and her boyfriend broke up... when she's starting to move on, her ex would always contact her... everytime that happens, her plan to move on will be destryoed... because she still loves her ex boyfriend... but then she realized that maybe this guy were just fooling her so she started to forget the guy... she's successful with that... although she still hadn't moved on completely, and everytime that she will see this guy in school, she will still feel that she still loves him... but she just tries to focus on other things like her studies...
don't let yourself be bothered with him all of your life... always have the hope that someday, someone will come into your life and will love you more than your ex boyfriend did... just go with the flow... you never know what god planned for you... but im sure that there's a happy ending at the end... maybe not with him but with the person that you will be happier... the person who is really intended for you from the very beginning...
2007-03-23 23:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop contacting you. I was married for 5 years and it ended real bad. I hate my ex but since i have not and am not willing to get in another relationship I always think about her. it's because it's what you were used to. try getting with someone else that always works.
2007-03-23 23:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by job e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause you haven't met the right man in your life to take away that memory. Get out and go to a club or something and meet new people.
2007-03-23 23:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by theanswerman63 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give time.. It's difficult, involve yourself in some healthy activities like sports, service groups etc. and that may help..
2007-03-23 23:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it doesn't mean that you still love him. it simple means that you are refusing to let go of the past. you need to hang out with people more often, talk to your friends and realise that you are living for yourself and for nobody else
2007-03-23 23:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! you still love him, don't rush your heart to forget. let the time fade that feelings. but if you really love each other, dearest you can't forget him until the end of time! if you love him why should to forget? love him! it's better to love amiss than to love nothing.
2007-03-23 23:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Emerald_1828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he still call you? sometimes it's hard to move on. if you truly want to move on then you have to stop speaking to him, tell him that it hurts too much. best of luck
2007-03-23 23:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by lady luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't move on because you're still hoping that you can be together again... "If there's a will definitely there's a way!! You can do it if you will!
2007-03-23 23:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by mary grace d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋