Me and my sister are like a year and six months apart. She always tries to put me down all the time I cant even trust her. she went as far as trying to break me and my fiance up for her own revenge about me not letting her borrow my shoes! My mom says she's jealous because i'm younger and have more things going on for my self. I love my sister but she is just so heartless when it comes to me. I can ask her a simple question and shell answer me like if I'm crap. I cry sometimes because it hurts me alot. I hate the fact that she looks at me like competition and she is not happy when im doing good. She started rumors about me at school about personal things that only she knew i thought i could of trusted her with my secrets and she tells everyone, she slept with a guy that I used to talk too behind my back, she talks to my enemies like if they were her best friends. I dont get it why does someone want to hurt their own sister it sucks! I never done anything to hurt her need advice?
2007-03-23 21:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Jade Marrie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her to grow up! That's too bad. If treats family like this , I would hate to see how she treats her enemies?
2007-03-23 21:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
chill out. calm down. separate yourself from her as much as possible (you didn't mention if you live together or not). just be really nice to her no matter what. try to talk to her. find her level and meet her there, even if it sucks. the most important thing is to find out what's going on with her, because it sounds like she just really wants attention, and often that's a cry for help. she's obviously threatened by you, and she needs to know that she's your sister and you love her no matter what, but the things she's doing to you are hurting and frustrating you. be kind and find the best approach (you should know) good luck!
2007-03-24 04:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by mbleh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's the one with the issues..ignore her and live your own life. Someday when she's all alone, she's going to regret the way she treated you..but until then, there's no way to get her to see the light and understand how important family really is.
Hope you can overcome it. Stay strong....siblings are hell lol.
2007-03-24 04:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by }{PurpleLipz}{ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help. She has some issues with you that need to come out into the open.
2007-03-24 04:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest. stop talking to her. she needs to learn to respect you and when she does then you can have sister to sister talk. thats what i would do. i know its your sis but there's no reason for her to be that way.
2007-03-24 04:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by mel_sophia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is jealousy but if u just blow her off and act like it doesnt bother u she will think it doesnt bother u and will maybe be a little nicer
2007-03-24 04:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by puppy dog 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to grow up
2007-03-24 17:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sisters are always like that.
2007-03-24 04:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋