Other - Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

when i met my man, i was very specific about not wanting a commitment, being i was recently divorced with 4 kids. He stressed he wasn't looking to commit either, he was recently divorced too. we clicked from the start, he would drive 62 miles just to see me. we took it slow by the second month i became his girlfriend, he did everything to reassure me his intentions where good and long term.by the fifth month i was in love like i never been. he moves me out of my apt. and we moved in to a new one. we lived together for a month then he deployed to iraq, the second month he was in iraq he proposed, asked me to do a tubal reversal, i was skeptical but i accepted, He would send me engagement ring pic. online and swore that he would re-propose face to face as soon he came home, Even went as far as set a wedding date, he always reassured me he couldn't. wait to marry me, i waited 7 months, when he came home in feb. he was different, cold non -affectionate,non-chalont,called off the wedding,

2007-03-23 19:18:09 · 13 answers · asked by boriquacj 1

ever seen the movie what about bob? except bob was jolly and nice in a crazy way...but did u see how he annoyed the doctor? shes the bob but add a derange psycho deadly liar harasser to the bob and thats my MIL..im going depressed my hubby doesnt wana move hes their only son he feels he has to stay with his parents cus they r alone..i hate him for that but cant leave him for it,,his mom is a serious trouble maker she stirs trouble between us we always argue..how do we over come this how do i make him listen to me? sex? money? being his slave? what what what? tell me

2007-03-23 19:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend wants me to go to Prom with him problem is im a college student and he is a junior in high school. I dont know what to do. You think it will feel weird for me taking my boyfriend to his Prom.I thought it was the other way around. I am 20 years old he is 17 but will be 18 in May.

2007-03-23 19:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by indygrad2006 2

She also has to be hot and I don't want to be hit back. Oh yeah, she also has to have a really nice car.

2007-03-23 19:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watch this 2 year old for $200.00 a month.Now she is getting a divorce,and she is going to be on goverment help and have them pay for a daycare.While I still watch him on weekends,because her ex-husband is not the father of her son and is not in his life anymore.Now she says that she will be out of town visiting a sick family member 2 days she was suppose to pay me.How can I tell she might be telling a lie to keep from paying me?

2007-03-23 19:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by aejr2005 2

2007-03-23 18:52:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

at first i loved them more then my own parents cuz they acted caring,,then i head them talking about me behind my back and quickly they r nice to the face again..now i cant stand them they r fake..im someone who says thank u 100x and sorry too.im sensitive i act caring so no one feels hurt,,why did they do this,,and my MIL teaches my husband to keep me tight so hes rude and acts like hes my boss.i told him dont do this cuz people who act superior fall on their face in life..why is his mom punishing me through her son by having him be mean to me,,hes a caring guy it looks like hes desperate to listen to his mom and is not happy with stress at home,,he said he rather stay at his job cus he hates home..,will he realize his mom is the bad lady?

2007-03-23 18:51:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My co-worker recently had to buy a new car after his old one broke down unexpectedly and the whole ordeal and financial obligations are really stressing him out and making him physically ill. I want to get him something to help him relax with the situation, but I have no idea what to get him. What do you recommend?

2007-03-23 18:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by Reviving Aerith 3

2007-03-23 18:49:50 · 16 answers · asked by mikel_understatement 2

We met and she was very foward about her situation. She was no longer in love with her husband and was legally separted and had moved out. Divorce papers were filed and she was just waiting for it to be final. We became exclusive after about 2 weeks of dating and i could honestly say i fell in love with her after 2 months although i didn't tell her. Things were going great. We would share our life dreams, talked about our future and about marriage and kids. Now 4 months had gone by and she suddenly breaks up with me. she said that she felt guilty that she was moving on and her husband was at home miserable. I don't understand why she cares after he emotionally abused her for 3 years and was border line physical abusive. So i feel like everything she said to me was a lie and now I'm heartbroken over her. How do i move on ;(

2007-03-23 18:37:59 · 11 answers · asked by lami 1

well i like this girl, but she is like playing mind games with me. one day she loves me the next she hates me. i haven't spoken to her much, but she gives me looks. last year i asked her out, she said no, but i still like her, and btw her name is beth. next there is the other girl named lucy, i like her, but i think she's only likes me because of my money, but im not really sure. and i like her too. next there is this other girl named ashley, i known her a long time, but she recently broke up with her bf, and i want to ask her out, but i think she needs space. so what should i do? who should i try and date? im confused, my heart doesn't tell me, same with my mind. help me please! who should i go and date ashley? beth? lucy? who? and ashley has been giving me looks too, but its a good look. but i still go feelings for beth, and i like lucy. im so confused! help me!
i really like beth, but lucy then ashley im so confused. i like beth alot, but im still confused. what should i do?

2007-03-23 18:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My old girfriend, I found out recently died. We went to different colleges after highschool, and I never said goodbye to her before I left, we end up breaking up over the phone. I have always continued to care for her deeply though she was one of the best friends I ever had. I was recently informed that she died two months ago. Since then I have been troubled by the sense that I never got to say good bye to her. How do I get over this feeling. I am married now and love my wife very much but I feel hamstrung by deep feeling of regret for not saying goodbye when I had the opportunity to.

2007-03-23 18:31:47 · 18 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

his mom was taking my personal things. others seen her do this. so i moved it all out and then he puts a lock on the door the lock i asked him to please put on before. mom and me couldnt see eye to eye. she told me i was stealing her son ( who has been with her 47yrs) going nowhere!!!i have never tried to steal him so i left and he dont understand.which i cant see how he dont. come on men and woman would you do the same?? and, where i went i feel does not matter. no sex partner, no sex going on. i neede a break. he is concerned how i hurt him by leaving. he knows. his mom fights with me, she wants him to herself, she wants to boss me this is his home, it went on everyday. he said i cant love him. fact is i do. cant deal with all the drama. i feel i will always be #2 as they at times gtang up on me. we have no privacy. we can be in our bedroom she hears veverything and joins in??? help

2007-03-23 18:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by greg b 2

which 1 is healthy?????????????

2007-03-23 18:21:50 · 11 answers · asked by riya r 2

my girl and i went on a break 2 weeks ago. she said we should see other people. so i did just that and last week i went out and slept with one of her co-workers apparently. (i didn't know that woman was her co-worker but i found out from my girl today) what are the odds of that? 2 days ago we got back together and i didn't tell her anything about anyone and now she is really really angry with me because apparently i slept with someone and she found out. but doesnt "we should see other people mean" i have a right to sleep with who i want during the break? so should my girl understand that it was her fault because she said that i should see others? if you were in my girlfriends position would you give me another chance of no?

2007-03-23 18:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my wife for seven years the night before my wedding i went out and nothing happened i was at a yard party ever since then shes had not really beleaved me i she thinks i cheated. i understand what she is saying and how she feels but now its hurting our marriage its about to end and thats such a waste ive tried every thing to prove it to her i love her very much and ive always been faithful. its over nothing nothing but whats in her head. we really was in love before that night.

2007-03-23 18:14:58 · 10 answers · asked by feller 1

2007-03-23 18:13:37 · 3 answers · asked by ME!! 2

When my husband passes gas he puts his hand at his butt to catch the smell then puts it at his nose. Am I the only one who thinks this is gross?

2007-03-23 18:05:11 · 34 answers · asked by J&A 3

I've been with my bf a little bit over a year now. He used to have a really high sexual drive but lately it's been getting worse and worse. He doesn't seem to be depressed or have any physical problems that I can see, and he doesn't seem to be stressed either. (He is 22, goes to school in the morning, and works on wkends, I work everyday) When I confront him about this, he either says he's "tired of it" or he already "knows he will be with me for a long time so there isn't a need or rush to do it so much", yet I've seen that he goes to a lot of porn sites on his computer and he's even searched for a local f* buddy. Honestly I'm not sure what to think, can someone please tell me what might be going on? Do you think he's thinking about cheating on me or maybe already has?

2007-03-23 18:03:17 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle 1

is there a way to find out if the person ur w/is related to u? like if the couple wants to make sure that there not related.
is there a DNA test they can take or ANYTHING??? if there is a number anyone no's or a hotline can yall plz post or answer to this in ur own words. plz plz post i have to find out before i go any further.

2007-03-23 17:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by anthony 1

which one is healthy????????????????

2007-03-23 17:48:57 · 2 answers · asked by riya r 2

which one is healthy????????????????

2007-03-23 17:48:20 · 1 answers · asked by riya r 2

In 4th 5th and 6th grade I really messed up with my popularity and girls. I was mean and still is today to everyone! But! I want that to change when i go back to school Monday.

But this is the thing i need help with. If I go to school and not be mean to anyone and get a attitude with anyone....
Will they forgive me for what I done?

Another thing is I am shy around girls! Idk why but help me become no shy to girls please!

Thanks in advance!

2007-03-23 17:38:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-23 17:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys... i have a bit of a problem, im an italian woman and im attracted to black males. My parents dont understand, its not that they are racist they just dont believe in inter racial dating. They have a lot of black friends, its just when it comes down to the dating, they want me to date an italian... im seeing someone now but its not really serious, i want to wait to make sure i get the right guy, plus i live with them still... its hard... anyone have advice or been in the same situation??

2007-03-23 17:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by mzlissa230002 1

He said that he loved me…and that he always will, until the end of eternality…However, he didn’t know the truth…At that cold time of my life, I was his…so called "lover"…I didn’t love him…I just used him…to feel loved….He told everyone that we were together, and that we are in love…Person after person asked me…Do you really like him? I told everyone the truth that I didn’t love him, and I was using him, just to feel loved…One rainy, melancholy day…he found out the truth…It was too late, he didn’t love me anymore…but I fallen for him…He was my life, and my love….he still is....Now, I say that I love him…and I truly do…he's so wonderful, and perfect…he just politely says back…I don’t think it would work between us, I know that you don’t really love me...Now, I live my life with regret…and its too much to bare…I just want to die, for he doesn’t love me anymore…

Basically, I really screwed it up with him..I know he really did love me...But now i love him..how can we ever b together again?

2007-03-23 17:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this girl, and I am making a list to give her titled 10 things i love about you.
I need some suggestions, something really romantic.

2007-03-23 17:10:34 · 15 answers · asked by Yep 2

I've had my eye on this guy I know who's out of my league, my heart is telling me to go after him but my instinct is telling me I would end up heart broken because the guy will never be intersted in me...what do you think I should do

2007-03-23 17:00:49 · 7 answers · asked by B. Zegeye 1

i am a dog trainer and i do have alot of animals i own my own house and he wants me to give my animals the boot outside i run a tight ship and my house is clean since we met he has been cool and helpful now he wants me to put my dogs outside.

2007-03-23 16:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by dragonfly 4

I have just driven past my ex-boy friends house and his light is on! So now I'm wondering why he is up so late!
Strange isn't it, the things you do for love?

2007-03-23 16:52:03 · 48 answers · asked by kiku 4