I have just driven past my ex-boy friends house and his light is on! So now I'm wondering why he is up so late!
Strange isn't it, the things you do for love?
2007-03-23 16:52:03 · 48 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does it to me all the time - so I just wanted to see why!
2007-03-23 16:56:16 · update #1
Sad is an english term 4 loser!
2007-03-23 16:57:44 · update #2
Na you ain't sad, your just having regrets. but hey know what, life moves on. best thing to do is delete everything of him and forget about him. but as you said "Strange isn't it, the things you do for love?". pining for him does you no favours knock on his door and tell him how you feel and bring closure to your dilemma.
2007-03-23 21:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was part of your life and it's like a grieving process getting over a relationship. You can't help being curious about what he's getting up to. If however you deliberately drove past his house to satisfy your curiosity, you need to start accepting it's over and that part of your life is closed. You don't say how long you've been split up. Time will heal the wound ... maybe it's still a little sore! In time you won't be so bothered about why his lights are on, you will have other things to occupy your mind.
2007-03-27 22:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving the right person at the wrong time,
having the wrong person when the time is right
and finding out you love someone right after
that person walks out of your life...
And sometimes, you think you're already over a person,
but when you see them smile at you,
you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending
to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that
they will never be yours again...
For some, they think that letting go is one way
of expressing how much they love that person...
in my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love
being held by someone else...
Most relationships tend to fail not because
the absence of love. Love is always present.
It's just that one was being loved too much and the
other was being loved too little...
As we all know that the heart is the center of the body
but it beats on the left. maybe that's the reason
why the heart is not always right...
Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love
but to only discover that for them
we are just for passing time, while the one who truly
loves us remains either a friend or a stranger...
So here's a piece of advice;
Let go when you're hurting too much.
Give up when love isn't enough.
And move on when things are not like before...
It's certain... there is someone out there
WHO WILL LOVE YOU EVEN MORE...
2007-03-23 16:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by darlalee 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Question is: if you don't drive past his house at night, is his light still on?
Does it matter?
If a tree falls in the forest and there's no one around to hear it fall, does it make a sound?
Does it matter?
Strange, isn't it, the things you wonder about when you have nothing else occupying your mind. Get busy with new activities!
2007-03-31 07:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you are not a loser...But try to remember why you two broke up in the first place. Sometimes when we are lonely we tend not to see people's faults because the need for affection is so great...dont do this to yourself..try to move on...he is probably with a girl and here you are, wondering what he is doing...he is not worried about you..otherwise you two would have the lights on together..good luck hun!
2007-03-29 23:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there could be many reasons hes up . bet his was not the only light on. you are up late to go past his house just maybe hes awake thinking of you. hope it all works out for you. and remember there is a difreince from been sad and been in love
2007-03-28 12:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by gthknox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he saw you drive by he might be wondering the same thing. Next time, if you ended on basically all right terms& you don't think he will mind, stop & say you just stopped by cause you were worried something was wrong since he was up so late & see if he is all right. He may be pining for you too. You never know.
2007-03-23 17:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sad. (Unless you deliberately got up, got in the car and drove by his house. That would be a little creepy)
Strange things make me think about my ex. A resturant we visited or a show on tv she used to love. As time goes by it happens less though.
2007-03-23 17:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've driven by my ex's house many times, it is normal (at least for me) to be a little suspicious of what he's up to and to want to know if he's got a new girl or whatever it may be.
2007-03-28 21:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. Cheer up and move ahead - the world is full of nice people. Remember: There things known and there are things unknown, and in-between are the doors. Open the doors and enjoy the life
2007-03-23 18:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Shahid M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wondering why he is up so late, isn't exactly doing something for love, is it? But it is amazing how wierd the whole love thing makes us behave. And it is never sad to wonder about things. It is the beginning of philosophy.
2007-03-23 16:59:03 · answer #11 · answered by The Oak 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋