well i like this girl, but she is like playing mind games with me. one day she loves me the next she hates me. i haven't spoken to her much, but she gives me looks. last year i asked her out, she said no, but i still like her, and btw her name is beth. next there is the other girl named lucy, i like her, but i think she's only likes me because of my money, but im not really sure. and i like her too. next there is this other girl named ashley, i known her a long time, but she recently broke up with her bf, and i want to ask her out, but i think she needs space. so what should i do? who should i try and date? im confused, my heart doesn't tell me, same with my mind. help me please! who should i go and date ashley? beth? lucy? who? and ashley has been giving me looks too, but its a good look. but i still go feelings for beth, and i like lucy. im so confused! help me!
i really like beth, but lucy then ashley im so confused. i like beth alot, but im still confused. what should i do?
2007-03-23 18:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to Ashley and tell her you would like to date her but after she takes some time to herself to gather her thoughts and get focused back on her track. She will love this idea and the thought that you can wait for her, is absolutely a heart taker. Good luck.
2007-03-23 18:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tell It Like It Is! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Olive. Your heart & mind aren't telling you anything about all these girls so, none of them are right for you. Anyone that plays games isn't worth the time. If you suspect someone likes you for your money, again, not worth your time. The other girl just broke up with someone so, unless you want to be the rebound guy that gets dumped, leave her alone too.
You're all over the place with too many girls. Find ONE and stick to just that one. You'll never find someone worthwhile if you keep this up.
2007-03-23 18:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is stop wanting to choose who you want to date, and step back and analize what you want in a potential girlfriend, the girl that is controlling towards you let her go, you don't need that, she is oviously very insecure & is using you. she isn't going to change. the girl you think is using you for money, stop flaunting your money to her, and try to do things with her that don't cost money,park,beach,cooking at home,rent a movie and see if her demeanor changes towards you, if it doesn't you don't need her in your life,[you can't buy love].and the girl that was hurt support her as a friend, be there for her,don't seduce her, and that will make her view you different, but you need to stop looking for love, & trust love will come to you, Remember let go of the woman that can't appreciate you, so the ones who can can find you...good luck
2007-03-23 19:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by boriquacj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old you are but if you can wait--wait for some time keep your self patience ,look wait and watch.You will get the answer by yourself.one who really loves you will never try to find anyone else than you.well if you seek real love don't give importance to either and you'll get the answer preety soon just need to keep patience for atleast a month.
2007-03-23 18:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by kirtik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy...talk to them all, date them all, and after a year or so you will know them all well
It is proven that it takes at least a year of knowing someone as to who they really are and if you even like them enough to want to know them more
People seem to change and grow in different directions and interests , likes and dislikes as the age, even at your age.
Relax, have fun and date many girls...
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2007-03-23 20:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for Ashley, but without seeing what they look like it is hard to say for sure.
2007-03-23 20:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Alan S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK now listen up for real here...you just said it..your heart doesn't tell you...you have the answer...NONE of these girls are the right one...just keep your eyes open and someone new will come into your life!..have faith...be patient
2007-03-23 18:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugh Hefner at the playboy mansion is looking for an assistant...Sorry, couldn't resist...Seriously, I gather you are a young person...my advice to you is...concentrate on enjoying being single...date when the opportunity arrives...Love takes time...and trying to make things happen with any one of these girls tells me you are trying to hard...Relax...breathe...be yourself...enjoy your singleness...Remember...Love comes to you when you least expect it...Best to you...!! CAKES
2007-03-23 18:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by CAKES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just figure out which one you think you'd have the most fun with...
best of luck.
2007-03-23 18:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only ready the first line....LEAVE HER ALONE!!! ANY WOMEN WHO PLAYS MIND GAMES SHOULD BE SINGLE FOREVER!!!!!!
2007-03-23 18:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋