my girl and i went on a break 2 weeks ago. she said we should see other people. so i did just that and last week i went out and slept with one of her co-workers apparently. (i didn't know that woman was her co-worker but i found out from my girl today) what are the odds of that? 2 days ago we got back together and i didn't tell her anything about anyone and now she is really really angry with me because apparently i slept with someone and she found out. but doesnt "we should see other people mean" i have a right to sleep with who i want during the break? so should my girl understand that it was her fault because she said that i should see others? if you were in my girlfriends position would you give me another chance of no?
2007-03-23 18:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we were drunk. i know being drunk is not an excuse, i woke the next morning thinking what have i done? i felt really bad about it. i didn't know the women worked with my girlfriend/ex.
2007-03-23 18:30:42 · update #1
sounds like my man, you were drunk huh....[sigh] wow thats pretty ******, up huh.
If you were my man I would probably give you another chance but you would have to prove yourself to me....and I would make your life a living hell every single day.
oh and I would beat the sh!t out of you and if you hit me back.....I'd ******, try to kill you
:)
2007-03-23 19:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur girlfriend suggested that u should see other people. did she by any chance happened to mention that sleeping with others is included in it? if so she too might have done that? but she didnt. that is the difference bw you and ur gf. it may hurt u but i wont be surprised if she chooses not to trust u anymore. u went to bed with naother girl so fast. it is almost as if u were waiting for ur gf to suggest a break. sleeping with another woman, let alone ur gfs colleague is something very wrong. would u have forgiven her if she ha done the same thing? u wouldnt have, right. so u can imagine what ur gf might be going through. u say taht the next morning, u felt bad abt it. then what is it that made u say that it is ur gfs fault and taht she should understand it? that shows u r not really innocent. u fake repentance. i would lose respect for ur gf if she gives u another chance. as for me. u know what my answer will be. i will give u the boots.
2007-03-24 03:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not see that episode of Friends? Anyway, that was code for she either found someone she wanted to try out ,or she went on a trip & thought she might find someone she wanted to mess with so she broke up with you so she wouldn't feel guilty, or she was testing you & may have even got that girl to sleep with you . You never know. Ask her exactly why she said you were on a break if she didn't mean it, doesn't she know what being on a break means??? It sounds like whoever she either set you up, or whoever she wanted to sleep with either didn't wan to sleep with her or they were bad in bed. Ask her if she slept with anyone , why she said you were on a break if she didn't really mean it, seriously?? Yes, it was all her fault & she needs to just get over it, cause she is the one who caused you to sleep with someone else anyway.
2007-03-24 01:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your girl saying that you need to go on a break and see other people, what she is trying to tell you is that she wants you to stop seeing her so then you can think about your relationship, with a clear mind. i don't think that sleeping with another woman was the right thing to do, it shows her that you are not interested in your girl but in to new girls,yet if i was really in love with you i would give you a chance only on the terms that you didn't mean to hurt me.
2007-03-24 01:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Relationshipguro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see your point but she probaly thinks that she doesnt mean that much to you if you could so easily sleep with someone else so soon.maybe she thought the break would make you realize how important she is to you,but maybe she really isnt?would you be so understanding if she went out and banged your boss or your brother or best friend or neighbor?i am not your girlfriend so i dont know how she feels but good luck.
2007-03-24 01:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she decided for that call-off thing btw? for women -- seeing others does not mean that you can just sleep with other girls.. that's hurting.. if you really love her, you shouldn't have done it -- being drunk is not an excuse....
if i were your girl.. and I can see that you are sincere and with your intension.. I could give you the second chance...
2007-03-24 01:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by jami... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I understand what she said to you but why did you go out and do it so soon she was seeing if you would and you caught the bait. You failed her test for love, She wanted to see if she could trust you and you failed even if you do still get back togeather it will be downhill from now on. You are not worthy of her love and commitment you need to move on mark my words.lol
2007-03-24 01:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would give you another chance but next time be honest with her. thats the main thing. regardless if it her hurts her or not, but if she said yall would be seeing other people, I guess. but ask her what her opinon is on it. and if she didnt tell you in the first place then really its her fault. she should have set groung rules.but you should have never jumped in bed wit someone else so quick. so really its both yalls fault
2007-03-24 01:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by princess07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was the one that suggested the break up so she has no reason to be upset. I would question however, how you could sleep with someone in less than 10 days of breaking up from another relationship. ?????
2007-03-24 01:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hells yea i would, your hot! your sorta at fault though...i mean isnt it time you grew out of the having sex while your drunk thing? say your sorry and if that doesnt work find me! haha...jk....good luck with your girl friend/ex and next time if youre gonna sleep with someone else make sure you mean it first
2007-03-26 20:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by goldenmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look like a nice guy. I would give you another chance. I would think about the thoughtlessness of my own statement. She didn't think you'd actually sleep with anyone else, because she probably didn't herself, and it (her statement) came back to bite her in the butt. I hope she takes you back, because you really didn't do anything wrong, and I also hope that she learns from her mistake.
2007-03-24 01:35:51 · answer #11 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋