Other - Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

Well im moving this summer and there's a guy who i have liked alot since the 5th grade and have flirted since then to now, but im moving and i won't be able to graduate with him next year, he's in my class) i really want to tell him before i leave, but idon't know how, or if i should tell him that i have liked him since i met him which was 5th grade and that i still do, the thing is that i don't have classes with him so i only get to see him in the hallways and barely during lunch. THere is a school trip to go cannoing for 3 days after school is over, Should i tell him during the trip or before school gets out, also i want to tell him but i don't know if after i tell him he wouldn't talk to me or look at me, im mexican and he's american. Please help me out



the thing is that i don't really know if he is interested in me, he is always joking around with me and flirting, but sometimes i can talk to him seriously and other times he won't say anything to

2007-03-23 16:47:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband just had this girl locked up for having sex with his son that was 11 when she was 18. She is charged with 6 counts of child rape and 1 count of statuatory rape. The mother was the one that got them together and let them have this relationship. We are trying to press charges on her for letting it go on and ruining his life. This girl has got a baby by this boy that is like 5 months old. They are trying to start all kinds of trouble. What would you do? Would you have pressed charges? It still hasn't went to trial and she is out on bond.

2007-03-23 16:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by TTC#2 4

Is it true if a man hits you once, he will always hit you?? I was in an abusive relationship, my boyfriend hit me about 6 times in our 3 year relationship, including while I was pregnant with our daughter and I always believed him when he said he wouldn't do it again. But the more times he did it, the more I hated him for it ... and I couldn't forgive him anymore -for my daughters sake and mine- so finally I left him ... even though I love him more than anything in this world. He was raised with an abusive drug addict father that beat his mom ... and I feel sorry for him but at the same time, I don't want to be hurt because of what he saw growing up ... do you think there's any chance he might change?

2007-03-23 16:30:09 · 16 answers · asked by cup_ma_cake07@sbcglobal.net 1

My mother is compulsive an overly annoying. unlike most mothers who are overprotective and what not, my mom is ctrict up to the point where she throws away my things w/o asking, cleans everything in the house three times a day, doesnt let me use my own cell phone, (she doesnt pay for it) or any other ****. as a matter of fact i dont even want to get into details it would piss me off so much. i have a lot of anger inside from her and frustration, im in college right now and its hard to commute and go home to all that yelling am to pm!!!! im only 17 and i wont be 18 until the sophomore year. thars next year and i signed up for housing. its a nonrefundable** contract where i cant change my mind since i accepted the agreement. i need to tell her im moving onto campus next semester whether she wants me too or not. Personally i couldnt give a damn! im just so fed up. and dont take me wrong, i am not a bad kid, i do everything in this house, chores, garbage, groceries.help me....?!?!

2007-03-23 16:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Alex N 1

couples that are involved for long term relationships, just what do they know that some girls do not know?? why are some women able to keep men from straying, and telling lies. why does a man dump a woman for another that does not look all that hot or why are men attracted to women that only date married men? do successful women keep their men on the run, on their toes??? how?

2007-03-23 16:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Shari 1

2007-03-23 16:14:18 · 9 answers · asked by hollymariejoy 1

2007-03-23 16:12:12 · 3 answers · asked by Sondra 3

Me and my fiance had been going together for 3 years and It was okay but we faught ALOT ... We lived together on and off since we got together. We have a 7 month old girl. But anyways We got our own apartment about a month ago and things were okay but suddenly fights just popped up from nowhere and one saturday night he didn't come home at all ... so I left him. was he wrong or was I ???? and also he's not even interested in getting back with me at all ... is he just being an *** because hes mad or is he just wanting to be single???? considering he is just a month away from being 21!

2007-03-23 16:00:36 · 6 answers · asked by cup_ma_cake07@sbcglobal.net 1

i have a man that i'm deeeply in love with and i dont think i will find a man better, but there one big problem i'm under age and he's not. i dont want to lose him but i dont want to get him in trouble either. but he's want to stay together,should i listen or just wait until i'm 18 years old.someone please help me.

2007-03-23 15:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by jasminwalker23 1

I may get married and own up to 8 dogs. No children. I will work with animals. Perhaps a zoo or a veterinary hospital. Thank you.

2007-03-23 15:46:22 · 9 answers · asked by hollymariejoy 1

Me and my ex were together for four months. We were each others first loves. He went on vacation for two weeks and when he came back he told me half of him still loves me but half just wanted to be friends. So I said fine, I just want him to be happy, so we broke up. Even though he said we would be friends he no longer talks or looks at me. It's been two months since we broke up now. We have mutual friends and a class together. It's hard because I will be standing right next to him and it's like I don't exsist. I'm not going to ditch our friends, and neither is he. I use to try and talk to him, not about anything big, just nice small talk, but he seemed annoyed that I was doing so. I use to wave, say hello, but nothing. Now I've just started ignoring him back, he obviously wants nothing to do with me but are things always going to be like this?

2007-03-23 15:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by Simple Love 2

My ex-bfriend picked up our 7 month old today 2 hours late and proceeded to call me a slut, whore--etc... He then pulled out of the driveway then pulled back in and grabbed the babe in the carseat from me and tried to hit me. He put the babe in his truck and I tried to stop him but was so afraid. He went to his mom's so I know the babe is safe. We are not "young" we are both 35. I really don't know what to do. He wants me back which is why he was upset but I am thinking of a restraining order or an order to meet at the police station to tranfer the babe. I hate this. Is this domestic violence?

2007-03-23 15:42:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-23 15:38:37 · 7 answers · asked by John C 1

i broke up with my bf 3 nights ago. he called me 3 times in a row that night but i didnt pick it up. and then he stopped.

Ever since thatt he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)

Is he totally not interested in me any more?

Now if i write him an email wanting him to want me too, what should i write in the email(we are long distance for a year and a half now)? should i write it short and simple or make it long and touching? which way would make him want me again?or should i just text him "i miss you, do you wanna talk?"

PS: he broke up with me 3 months ago and came back 1 month ago. But still he hurt me a lot a lot, way more than what i did to him.

2007-03-23 15:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by cherbearnew 1

2007-03-23 15:33:28 · 18 answers · asked by altered ego 3

also give from his/her time.
Is that enough : to say just > thanks. Some I feel I wana kiss the person whom help me with the answer or I don now what 2 do > what do you think what's we can do more than thanks
Nini

2007-03-23 15:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by Nini 1

ok i am not the most forgiving person, and im still holding a lot of grudges and have dislike for a lot of people, but my family seems to think you should forgive every one. some of these thing are really bad, but i see it all the time on tv people forgiving all these horrable things, am i just imature for not forgiving people?

2007-03-23 15:14:18 · 28 answers · asked by young mother 2

I have a 2-yr-old grandson. I have let him urinate two times outside - an emergency - once in the parking lot at the mall too. My daughter does not want him to urinate outside - she said only rednecks do this. She asked me to respect her wishes when we got into an argument about this - I said I would but that in an emergency I would still let him urinate outside if he had an emergency. She got mad and we had a yelling match. Who is right? Am I wrong to say in an emergency I would still let him urinate outside? I need help with this please. She said I should respect her wishes because she is the mother - I am not. I told her that she should respect me - as I am her mother. It was pretty bad. Please help.

2007-03-23 15:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by jworks79604 5

the parents: strongly against smoking & drinking
you: not so close with your parents or sibling
sibling: freshman in college, struggling with grades & probably under a lot of peer pressure

2007-03-23 15:12:29 · 5 answers · asked by silentvo1ce 1

Thursday
the Dr. sent me to the hospital for more bloodwork.
Told me to go ASAP.

They promised me that Dr N* would review the
results that afternoon and they would call me. When I
didn't hear anything today I called them and they told me
that he hadn't reviewed them. ( A nurse yesterday afternoon told me that he
was in the office and would
review them then.) - So anyway he hadn't looked at
them and he was now out of the office and in DC for
a conference. I was told that some of my bloodwork
was still out of whack, but they wouldn't elaborate and
told me that it would have to wait until next week.
I can't for the life of me understand why I was sent
to the hospital for bloodwork if they had no intention
of reviewing it and trying to help me.

I called them back and told them that I wanted answers and that it seemed
that noone there would even try to
help me and that I was thinking of going elsewhere.
I told them about the nurse telling me lies that he wasn't
even in town and then Thursday telling me that he was
in town and had been trying all week to leave and he
told her when she called him about me that he couldn't
keep doing this - (being bothered).

This is when they told me that DR N* and DR R*
took turns being in the office - so I asked them that
did this mean that when Noble is out there was noone
to take his place, noone to help me if I needed them?

It ended today with me calling and leaving a message that I want my records
and that I needed to be seeing someone who at least wanted and would try to
help me.

I am very frustrated and at my wits end. If I don't get
help soon, I am going to just forget about it and let it
go, since I can't get help. Its useless.

I am sorry for rambling... You are a good friend and
I didn't mean to go on like that. Just needed to get this
off of my chest. One good thing is its Friday night and
I can at least try to get rest.

2007-03-23 15:10:02 · 3 answers · asked by my-stang 3

About 3 years ago I was having some problems with my b/f, call him Jim, and I talked to a guy friend of mine about it a lot, we'll call him Chad. I broke up with Jim and got together with Chad.
He made me realize a lot of things about myself that I needed to find out, and we really got along great and had a lot of chemistry. I realized after a little while that I still loved Jim, so I broke it off with Chad and went back to Jim - Who is now my husband.
Chad's b-day is coming up and I wanted to tell him how much he meant to me and thank him for everything he did for me, but I'm not sure if I should. Jim never really liked Chad, but I'm not looking to really reconnect with him, I just want him to know I still think he's a good guy, and that he meant a lot to me (and still does), cuz we didn't really end things on good terms (he said he still loved me when I left, and he was pretty hurt).

So, I'm pretty much asking - What does everyone think I should do?

2007-03-23 15:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-23 14:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by yeah_shesastarr 1

The other night my fiance and I got back to the house. I had been drinking gin and Bud Light for most of the evening and was ready to pass out. We both fell asleep with her spooning behind me. When I woke up I had projectile diarrhea and it was all on my sheets, her legs and me. I had also urinated over the front of me as well. She was not aware yet that this had happened and she opened her eyes. She was about to give me a kiss when she pulled back the sheets. She was terrified as I blamed it on her. She felt so embarrassed and I told her I need time to think about things. I can't keep blaming this on her and putting her through this. What can I do?

2007-03-23 14:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE HELP ME!!
Im stuck in this house living with "this family" that I hate to the core!! They are trying to keep me here, and I cant stand this!
Each day I suffer more and more! I JUST CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!
Please help me!! I dont have a life here in Canada, My life, friends, family is all in Japan! But I am far away from it all!
I want my life back! Please help me! I cant take it anymore!
I am reaching breaking point...
I cant stand these pathetic idiots so I must get out of here!
I have little money, so it makes it harder...and the fact that i still have 3 more months of high school makes it harder too...
How can i get back home? How can I escape this prison?
Please! I cant take anymore of this hell! Help me please~

It kills to be away from the 2 things i love (My gf and Japan)
i need any ideas, any help...
thank you

2007-03-23 14:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Japan_is_home 5

So I know a lot of people will think that I need to lighten up and that I don't own my boyfriend... but the thing is, if I don't feel comfortable with something, should I really just let it slide. The thought of someone that I am dating going to a strip club disgusts me.
I guess I will give some background on our relationship. We have been dating for 10 months, and lived together for 7. We recently both moved back into our parents homes for money reasons, and broke up for about a week because I felt like he was ditching me all the time (which he was.) Anyways I am about 9 months older than him. When I turned 18, I really wanted to go to a club, but never did because he didn't want me to. I actually went for the first time last weekend and only danced with my girlfriend. Plenty of cute guys asked me to dance but I said no. I feel like I am being so faithful. I barely even talk to other guys. Should I tell him it's either me or the strip club?

2007-03-23 14:38:25 · 18 answers · asked by alli8188 2

my friend just called me crying and said his girlfriend is supposedly gunna cheat on him. he said hes gunna kill himself. and i told hm thats stupid and to find someone better, and he just says he doesnt want anyone else. what else can i say to him?

2007-03-23 14:25:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, almost all my life i've been told that i come off a lil stuck-up. i dont even know where dat came 4rm cuz i kno im not. I started 2 think about it 2day when my friend told me some gurl called me stuck-up and was talkin bout me. And i dont want dat 2 happen when i get 2 high-school cuz i kno high-school is rough. Rumors and Gossip is all it is. But n-ewayz i juss need tips on how 2 stop being stuck-up and some things i should watch 4 cuz i really dont wanna be like this.

Thanks a lot.

2007-03-23 14:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean like, is he cruel, and I heard you and him have a relationship, I wonder why he wants the plaga samples anyway?

2007-03-23 14:16:45 · 1 answers · asked by nightwalker 2

or just keep your mouth shut?

2007-03-23 14:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7

they dont come to practice.

I want to be helpful because i am only 21, coaching 15-17 year old girls. So i dont have a problem with them telling me if something is wrong. But it is just ridiculous how much they complain and dont listen. How do you handle these girls? make them run? i wish there was something else!

2007-03-23 14:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous