I have found that it's best to stay out of the middle of these things. If you don't, somehow, you wind up being the loser in the scenario for just trying to help. Oftentimes, the person being cheated on doesn't believe it, and thinks you're only trying to cause trouble. If I were you, I would just keep my mouth shut.
2007-03-23 14:25:51
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answered by olderbutwiser 7
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Ask yourself how you would feel if your partner/spouse is cheating on you, would you like to know? Most times the spouse could tell if their partner has been wandering... so it's best to stay out of it. Sometimes no matter how well-meant the message is, the messenger always gets 'shot'. If you are unsure, then stay out of it till you know in your heart, what's right to do. The right timing would come upon itself and you would know whether to tell or not.
2007-03-23 21:25:40
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answered by kohuole 1
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It's none of your business so stay out of it. If you've actually witnessed him or her in the act, then maybe, but I'd probably still suggest that it's not your business. There are so many details you just can't know that I think it's best to just keep quiet.
2007-03-23 21:38:12
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answered by finra 4
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Don't. As long as it's not you he's cheating with then it's none of your business. Getting involved in others marital affairs is a can of worms. And if they reconcile you will be the villain. So butt out.
2007-03-23 21:24:10
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answered by Tom 7
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A picture is worth a thousand words!
2007-03-23 21:28:17
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answered by FuzzyPinkBathrobe 1
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Two words....photographic evidence!
If you tell your neighbor, you better have 100% undeniable proof. If not, mind your busines..
2007-03-23 21:25:50
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answered by Sunshine Queen 4
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If your not good friends with either of them let it go, they will get caught eventually
2007-03-23 21:19:50
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answered by Krista H 2
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tell her what you know. be discreet, dont discuss his affair with anyone else. be prepared that she might be angry with you and call you a liar
2007-03-23 21:20:37
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answered by Anonymous
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