Me and my fiance had been going together for 3 years and It was okay but we faught ALOT ... We lived together on and off since we got together. We have a 7 month old girl. But anyways We got our own apartment about a month ago and things were okay but suddenly fights just popped up from nowhere and one saturday night he didn't come home at all ... so I left him. was he wrong or was I ???? and also he's not even interested in getting back with me at all ... is he just being an *** because hes mad or is he just wanting to be single???? considering he is just a month away from being 21!
2007-03-23 16:00:36 · 6 answers · asked by cup_ma_cake07@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please learn the words to "I Will Survive"...
It's over, I'm sorry, but it's over.
Good luck.
2007-03-30 13:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of you really wanted to be in this relationship, or he'd have come home and you wouldn't have left. People that love and respect each other come home at night, and don't leave each other because they're pissed off.
Sounds like you both have quite a bit of growing up to do. But I doubt that it will be with each other.
Good luck.
2007-03-28 18:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a daughter now, so you have to think about her first. She doesnt deserve to be around you both when you said you fight ALOT. Please realize you are so much better than that. He is keeping you on a string and pulling the bull----he is pulling cuz you have a kid and you still love him. I am sorry he is too immature. Just concentrate on you and your daughter and move on.. who knows you may find someone who is willing to accept your daugther and you and provide for both of you. By the way he is wrong, not you:)
2007-03-31 17:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Denise K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say where you moved to. it sounds like your relationship was on rocky ground anyway. think about what you want out of life for yourself and your child. you should be a mom first. the only thing that you and your friend have in common is your child. above all else, try to be good parents [both of you]. if you concentrate on that, the rest should fall into place.
2007-03-31 20:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes trying to move on and just dont know how being theres a kid involved, if he stayed gone all night and hasnt even tried to make it up to you, im sorry but hes already doing something that you dont want to deal with , its not worth it hes not worth it you deserve someone who is responsible for his actions and wont hurt you with them. its not your fault dont blame yourself, hes just a man and thats what about 95% of them do . be strong and move on you can do it
2007-03-23 23:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU...because if you were the bad one ..then you are ..and if he is a bad one then you are wrong because you choosed a wrong person to share a life with you not your life only ..but your daughter's life too
2007-03-23 23:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by doctorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋