The other night my fiance and I got back to the house. I had been drinking gin and Bud Light for most of the evening and was ready to pass out. We both fell asleep with her spooning behind me. When I woke up I had projectile diarrhea and it was all on my sheets, her legs and me. I had also urinated over the front of me as well. She was not aware yet that this had happened and she opened her eyes. She was about to give me a kiss when she pulled back the sheets. She was terrified as I blamed it on her. She felt so embarrassed and I told her I need time to think about things. I can't keep blaming this on her and putting her through this. What can I do?
2007-03-23 14:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit drinking before you crap out you liver or die.
2007-03-23 14:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Indeed a very tough situation...we are not in control of bodily functions if we have a bit much to drink, but you can try to plan for it. As others have recommended, try cutting down on the amount of drinking, or at the minimum, try to cut off drinking 1 or 2 hours before you 'pass out'...kinda like at the ballpark. This way, you can give your body some time to process and you can both take a leak (or dump) before going to bed. Dumping might be difficult because a lot of us usually have the bowel movement in the morning after our first cup of coffee...but at least you will be able to relieve the potential liquid pressure that can contribute to 'projectile diarrhea.' The main thing is to be sober right before going to sleep so that you can relieve yourselves.
Drinking so close to passing out (apart from drinking itself) is not healthy because of all the acids in alcoholic beverages. Normally, you should give your body at least 1-2 hours of nothing (no food or drink) prior to sleep, otherwise you can introduce acid reflux issues. Most people know this as heartburn, which seems innocent, but too much of this condition can lead to esophageal cancer. If you need to neutralize all that acid from the drinks, try eating a banana with your last drink.
Also, if either of you have an opportunity to relieve yourself in the middle of the night...do it! It is not healthy for your bladder to 'hold it in'. Your body will thank you later.
I have to echo the others...please cut down on drinking...it will eventually kill you. You and your fiance are too valuable to be wasted on the effects of overdrinking. If you ever plan to have kids, they will deeply appreciate having someone to be around to parent them, or to be a grandparent to their children. Before it kills you, it can take out your liver and kidney, it can make you diabetic, and/or it can make your body a cancer haven.
2007-03-23 15:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ken F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? Ask yourself how bad will it have to get before you are finally repulsed enough to get treatment for your drinking problem. Do you have to run over someone and kill them? Do you have to be locked up in jail? Do you have to injure yourself? Just what is the breaking point? You have basically just described yourself as a nasty, disgusting drunk. Isn't that bad enough for you to make a drastic change in your life or do you need to fall even lower? Say to yourself, "I am an alcoholic and I need help."
2007-03-23 15:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that your girlfriend is so stupid that she didn't realize that she hasn't had a bowel movement all over herself and the mess was on the front side of her. And if she was spooning you then wasn't the mess on the other side of her - not by you. Either shes a moron or your a liar.
2007-03-23 14:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by non_stopangel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i drink a lot too but my loose stole comes in the morning or sometime in the afternoon.. you must be drinking way to much..i would be calling the kettle black if i told you to stop .. so what i will say is why are you drinking as much as you are.. are you happy.. my quess is no.. atleast not happy with your self.. you need to tell her the truth.. and tell her that your sorry that you just did not know what to say when it happen..if she loves you she will stick by you ..
2007-03-23 15:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You owe her an apology. You need to get help for your drinking and behavior. I recommend a 12 step program.
2007-03-23 15:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join AA
see a Dr.
stop drinking
tell her the truth
2007-03-23 14:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth - you must if you don't want to hurt her feelings
if she is a good person for you - she will help and support you in your time of need and confusion - afterall, that's what you two will do for each other once you're married
2007-03-23 14:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Zuri 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a selfish jerk! I hope she sees you for the jerk you are and kicks you to the curb!
2007-03-23 14:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking
2007-03-23 14:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋