My mother is compulsive an overly annoying. unlike most mothers who are overprotective and what not, my mom is ctrict up to the point where she throws away my things w/o asking, cleans everything in the house three times a day, doesnt let me use my own cell phone, (she doesnt pay for it) or any other ****. as a matter of fact i dont even want to get into details it would piss me off so much. i have a lot of anger inside from her and frustration, im in college right now and its hard to commute and go home to all that yelling am to pm!!!! im only 17 and i wont be 18 until the sophomore year. thars next year and i signed up for housing. its a nonrefundable** contract where i cant change my mind since i accepted the agreement. i need to tell her im moving onto campus next semester whether she wants me too or not. Personally i couldnt give a damn! im just so fed up. and dont take me wrong, i am not a bad kid, i do everything in this house, chores, garbage, groceries.help me....?!?!
2007-03-23 16:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Alex N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get an apartment and e-mail her your new address
2007-03-24 00:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting down with her and just tell it to her straight. That you'll be 18, and you want to move out. This is nothing against her being a bad mother or anything, but you just feel like this is something you need to do. And if you fail, then you have learnt a lesson (try throwing that in for good measure). Just tell her you need to try this.
Good luck
2007-03-23 16:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let her know when you have everything to move out
then i would tell her,but since you will be 18 there nothing
that she can do any way. but just keep thing simple until
time to make the move.
2007-03-23 17:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slowly move stuff out and then tell her. that way you have already got yourself set up and she cant stop you. it will help your schooling if your out of that situation. be strong it is hard (i had to do it too) but she'll get over it and you'll have a huge weight off your shoulders
2007-03-23 16:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by jenperera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no count how hard emotionally that's going to be, it won't kill her. inspite of the shortcoming of your brother, your mom is conscious the day is coming once you will additionally opt to pass out and stay on your guy or woman. tell your dad first so he will have the heads up and could be waiting to assist your mom. in keeping with how the preliminary information is going, invite your mom that may additionally assist you seek for a sparkling place. this is going to provide her time to get use to the belief. If this is not too painful to realize this as quickly as you're settled in, be certain to ask your mothers and fathers over for dinner and drop by using on a time-honored foundation. reliable success.
2016-11-28 02:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be independant. that means paying your own bills and all that goes with it...
i know what you are going through. you have to do what you have to do...
good luck. (she will probably blow her stack) let it roll off and take a deep when you walk out the door.
2007-03-23 16:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sraight up tell her, do not i repeat do not bead around the bush
2007-03-23 16:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋