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My boyfriend is jobless and his exam result really suck!
But,I love him. How do think about my future if i married him?
What should i do?

2007-03-23 21:32:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

17 answers

If you really love him, and he is willing to work, you may have a chance....don't just jump into it, until you see if he is willing to be a hard worker, if he is allergic to work, I would definitely run for the hills, unless you don't mind supporting him....just my opinion, sorry if it is rude.

2007-03-23 21:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sure, If you really love him then go right ahead and marry him.
***Just one more thing - Did you have any dreams in the future of actually owning anything like a car, house or even owning any self respect if so then I would re-think the whole marriage thing. What, without an education or employment could he offer you besides a maid around the house and a sti@@ D*$* at night when you get home from a hard day a work. THINK ABOUT IT!!

2007-03-23 21:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0 0

If you will marry a jobless guy you might end up in a financial crisis.. for he is jobless were you two going to get the needed money to survive your daily needs... it might end up in separation or divorce... if you really
love him then go for it but remind him to find a find job or any job that can support both of you

2007-03-23 21:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by cool as ice 25 3 · 0 0

If he makes u feel good enough to make you ignore the fact that he has got no future, obviously he got something that no job having man has, and if u feel he cares for u, test him, wait a while to see if u just a fad. If not, marry him, and if he really cares, he will get a job or be dedicated to learn a profession to save u from ur troubles. I know i would if i met someone like u.

2007-03-23 22:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0 0

It is not a Crime to be Unemployed , Manny Couples that are Marrierd unemployment some times creaps in however they mannage . Go marrie the Chap and dont mind the Poverty Law`s . I am sure your Boy Friend will try and get some work to support you . and you him please have a Look at this .

http://search.conduit.com/Results.aspx?q=JOB%20SEARCH%20&ctid=CT412288

Now go & Support your Boy Friend by trying to find him a Job and one for your Self .

2007-03-23 21:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would think if he loves you he'd get a job even if it's not what he wants until the right one comes along,if he doesn't I would think twice about marrying him,you could end up working while he sits home on his lazy a-s.

2007-03-23 21:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0 0

Don't be discouraged. You can live on love. Yeah, right.

When you don't have money, all you can think about is money. If you're a couple and you don't have money, all you'll fight about is money. If you don't care about money, it will still be the center of all your life. Hope you have a tent.

You need to get a career.
He needs to get a career.
Don't come back until both of you do.

2007-03-23 22:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by nnucklehedd 7 · 0 0

each person in the relationship should have individual and mutual goals. you take them on one at a time, day by day.
live in the day with the goals in mind and you can achieve. good things to come dont always happen overnight. you work together at them peace

2007-03-23 21:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0 0

I can say, in maintaining stronger relationship, one should have at least a job to sustain primarily financial stability..any kind of legal work would do, as long as it would help both of you.

2007-03-23 21:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i might wait until after the toddler is born. you have already got plenty to handle and residing at house is your ideal guess for my area. i became pregnant at 21 and it became a effect of a rebound. We had already broken up formerly I knew so i became single. My mothers and fathers weren't happy yet got here visiting and became extremely excited. while my daughter became born they could not do adequate. I lived on my own and became slightly getting by using with a job. those tiny little issues value a good form of money. The ecomomy is undesirable. Your boyfriend could have a hard time getting artwork. i might take a while identifying and watch for slightly extra risk-free practices. this is going to save you a good form of stress, i think of, in case you wait until after the toddler is born to examine your suggestions. And...... Congratulations. edit.... that's romantic to think of that issues will fall into place and love conquers all even even though it does not. Love does not pay the fees.

2016-11-28 02:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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