Other - Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Is it crucial to be apart of that world which you think is troubling you?

2007-03-21 20:11:15 · 6 answers · asked by uvika 1

My Hubby is in the National Guard and has been deployed to Iraq. We keep in touch daily, either by phone or on line. He gets very upset if he calls and I'm not home. He can also reach me on my cell phone. He has never said that he thinks I am seeing someone but he implies it by some of the things he says. Also he panicks if he can't reach me and calls family, friends etc. We have only been marrried a year, it hurts me to even think that he would doubt me being faithful and I want to get really angry but I try to understand that he is so far away and that might enter his mind. He deny's even thinking such a thing but his actions tell me he is. He also repeats over and over "as long as you are there when I get home" I hate that he sits and worries and I want to assure him that I love him and would never do anything to hurt him and I will be here for him when he gets home but evidentally I have failed in trying to do that. Any help on what I can say to ease his mind would be appreciated

2007-03-21 19:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by sash 5

Hi! I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend, who is only Spanish speaking, is 24. I am bilingual, and I love him with all of my heart. We have been best friends for a year now and have been dating for a month and a half. We spend almost every night together, since we both work and I am in school, that is the only time we have together. My family and friends hate that I am dating him, and they told me to just drop him. He has been nothing short of wonderful to me, yet they can't stand the fact that he only speaks Spanish and also has a child from when he was very young. I feel empty without him in my life, and they don't understand this. They make snide comments and told me that they will NEVER approve of him, and they haven't even met him because of this. I am lost as to what to do. I understand that there are many obstacles in our relationship, but he's too important in my life to just give up on it. Any advice? What should I do?!

2007-03-21 19:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really loved this guy still do but i just wanted to know when the hurting stops...

2007-03-21 19:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost both of my grandparents less than a year ago, both to old age. I spent the last 4 years deeply involved in the care of them.... and I miss them so much. Today, while working, I came across a lady who was so similar to my grandmother... I immediately choked up, and became teary eyed.. I had to excuse myself. I am a grown up... and know that they are "better off", but this is my first experience with death... and I was just curious, how long does the intense hurt last?

2007-03-21 19:14:23 · 18 answers · asked by JustJen 5

...feel like dropping whatever is in your hand, breaking everything within reach, and letting out a primal scream?

2007-03-21 18:43:14 · 7 answers · asked by A.Lee 3

2007-03-21 18:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 1

Did you have a good day? Could it have been better? Could it have been worse?

2007-03-21 18:32:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend use to kiss me all the time and hug me and all he wanted to do is be close to me. now he doesnt do that, all we do is sit home and play cards or watch tv. and when i asked him how come he doesnt kiss me like before or hug me he says because hes with me all the time, and hes use to me and he sees me everyday. what should i do to get him do what he use to do before? please help

2007-03-21 18:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i dated this guy for about 6 months and i know it doesnt seem like a long time but i really fell for him hard. one day he decided that he was going to break up with me because things werent the same. ive been devestated ever since. and i dont know what to do. when i think of him my stomach hurts and i cant stop crying and i just need some help and some tips on how to get over the one guy i think im actually in love with. oh and he also already has a new girl how am i supposed to deal with this.

2007-03-21 18:15:53 · 3 answers · asked by outrageousdiva414 2

what is the world coming to. Here i am doing my part in the world and im ******* waiting to have sex. i just turned 20 and theres everyone having sex. now the so called "purity" in my soul and my heart and my fuzzy kind nature is not me like everyone thinks it is, because im 20. have you idiots out there who lost their virginity early slept with the person when you had sex or did you just **** on weekends in your parents shielded by your family. i have my own apartment which i just got and am ready ladies. now gentlemen like me will offer something to a girl.

2007-03-21 18:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright everyone close to me bailed when things got out of control. All i needed was people what i got was alot of busy signals. Eight months lather things have changed they all want to be a part of my life again now that i'm better. Where the hell where you then? How dare they? Should i let them back in or turn my back?

2007-03-21 18:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by tangerine 1

its my name.. and I dont think its very common.. im curious to what other people think of it

2007-03-21 17:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I graduate from college in December so i am trying to decide if i should stay living in my apartment close to school until then and then break my lease or if i should move in with my boyfriend and his family. If i moved in with my boyfriend then i would be an hour away from the school but i would only have to go to school for one class in the fall which is taught on one day a week. So it would just be a one day a week one hour commute . But i would save $3300 on rent. On the other side, if i stayed in my apartment i would be closer to the school. And i am christian and am trying to figure out if it would be really bad for me to move in with my boyfriend and his family because i would be staying in his room with him. But we have been dating for 4 years and are probably getting married next year. And alot of my friends think that we should live together some before we get married. I am really confused and have to decide to renew my apartment or not by Saturday. Thank you for your advice!

2007-03-21 17:46:10 · 12 answers · asked by InLove621 1

can he go to jail

2007-03-21 17:45:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

DOES THIS MEAN SHES GAY?
OK I WAS GOIN OUT WITH A GIRL FOR ABOUT 3MONTHS BUT BEFORE I WENT OUT WITH HER WE HAVE LIKED EACHOTHER FOR A WHILE BACK SINCE WERE FRIENDS FOR A LONG TIME. AS WE WENT OUT SHE SHOWED ME ALOT OF THINGS AND ALOT OF FEELINGS FOR ME BUT SHE WOULD USUALLY SAY THAT SHE DOESNT WANT TO MAKE HER PARENTS ASHAME OF HER AND THAT SHE IS SCARED OF WHAT SOCIETY HAS TO SAY AND I HAD TOLD HER THAT I WAS NEVER GOIN TO GIVE UP BECAUSE SHE HAS TO FIGHT FOR WHAT SHE WANTS.. I WAS DUMPED AND HER EXCUSE WAS THAT SHE DIDNT LOVE ME AND THAT HER FEELINGS CHANGED. COULD THAT BE TRUE? OR COULD THE FEAR IN HER BE STRONGER?. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER BACK? OR SHOULD I LET IT GO?IS SHE GAY?

2007-03-21 17:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by ratoncita1207 1

if u c0uld give me at least 10.. :) thx.

2007-03-21 17:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard it told by Eddie Murphy. I've heard it told by random guy friends that it's true and that it's not true. But I'm not sure if it's really true. Do all men really cheat? Is there really such a thing as a man who believes in and sticks to one man one woman ?

2007-03-21 17:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello.
I am 24. and having a serious sex problem. I can't satisfy my gfd or anyone who was before her. I can tease, kiss and do staff...but when it comes to intercourse it doesn't last more than 5 min and I finish.
I go workout 1 hour, 3 times a week, work 9-5. smoke occaisonally (1-3 cigarettes per day). and drink only on weekends.
I am afraid my gfd will dump me like others did.
PLease help me.

2007-03-21 16:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

by that time you are worthless to society and no one has any use for you. I wanna say goodbye to all the day I turn 65

2007-03-21 16:58:24 · 20 answers · asked by doobiejuana j 1

We all work together in an office, and their job require them to work together more. She's younger than me, and married too but plays the victim cutsie roll with all of the guys in the office and they all hang on her every word. My husband thankfully isn't one of these guys but she does tell him "you're my favorite co-worker" blah blah blah... He says sometimes, he does feel a bit undcomfortable. I don't feel that he would cheat or stray, I just don't want this to consume me. I don't want to hate her, and I don't want to be mad at him. But there is this part of me that wants to slap her face! How do I handle this???

2007-03-21 16:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz tell me what to tell my mom because I've tried practicly everything and it doesn't work! plz help

ty for anything!,
Panicjunkie

2007-03-21 16:55:58 · 28 answers · asked by ♥ rachel ♥ 2

i think we get better at understanding and lose track of other things

2007-03-21 16:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by country-girl 3

what do you think is the hardest thing to say to someone? you know like i love you, i miss you, thank you...?

2007-03-21 16:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by i_play_6 2

Once , in my days of childhood I was at the lake with my father. There were two men in the water and one was giving the other a piggy back ride. These lads were at least 30 something. My dad said they were gay. Ya think?

2007-03-21 16:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I have a couple embarrassing questions, but Id like you to answer them honestly. I have been with my boyfriend 8 months and havnt really let him see me naked in bright light because of it.
First, my left inner labia hangs out a bit. Would you think anything of it, or just its not a big deal?
Second, I have really big aerolas. (part around my nipples) really big. Do guys find that unattractive? and they are brown, Is that bad too? please be honest. Thanks

2007-03-21 16:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by mandiliz06 4

2007-03-21 16:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by aiverson23@sbcglobal.net 1

I have a complicated situation..My grandparent and I have had a falling out due to my father and I not having a relationship..I had not spoken to my grandparents in almost a year until recently around Christmas time..I have not seen them in over a year and I am going to be by their house on friday for a job interview..I was thinking of calling them to see if I could stop by for a visit..I'm nervous to call as to what they might say since I have not spoken with them since Christmas.I was not the one who chose to not see them or speak to them and when i did talk to them they seemed happy to hear from me. The only thing is that I asked them if we could get together and they said they would get back to me and have not..So I'm wondering is it a good idea to call and ask or just not even bother?

2007-03-21 16:44:54 · 3 answers · asked by Colie 2

2007-03-21 16:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not that confident about my looks and my boyfriend's ex girlfriend keeps saying that she is so close to stealing him back... I think I am prettyer than her because...if you get grossed out easly dont read please...she shaves her eyebrowls off and doesent shave anywere else and wears same close for a whole week...but I just think that he mgiht be cheating on me with her because he dident answer when I called him today and then Ashley called me on her cell and said she was at his house and I heard him in the background...but since Im not that good looking I dont know if I should keep him and take my chances with Ashley or dump him...what should I do?

2007-03-21 16:32:23 · 2 answers · asked by cutiebabe66048@sbcglobal.net 1