2007-03-21 18:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whats the big deal?! Marraige is a commitment of monogamy before God. It is a promise to be faithful to your mate. Marriage is sacred, and should be honored. If you feel its no big deal to cheat, then you shouldn't be or get married because you are not mature enough to know what honesty, commitment, and integrity mean.
2007-03-21 18:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by thilitha_tipton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the big deal about married couples not cheating on each other??? From everything I've seen that you wrote you need to seek Psychiatric help, seriously. YOU have a serious problems. Call your local Community Mental Health Center & get you an appointment & go to it & tell the counselor everything you wrote on here so they can help you get the help you so desperately need.
2007-03-22 03:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im not married but been asked, im scared to say yes, even tho its about the commitment your supose to be in it together. In a relationship to make it it takes two. Then again, if its not a big deal then ya shouldnt get married i think. I only say that b/c i loved just having a friend with benfits at one time.
With a marriage your suppose to be, committed to each other, honest, faithfull, and have enough respect for each other. I have been in a 4 year relationship, soon to be getting married myself. Im scared shitless..lol only b/c we have had lots of problems but nothing with cheating. with cheating you dont know what these other ppl have.. then you get something you might come home be with you husband then give it to him.
Who would want that. Not me for sure and im sure a lot of people agree with that one. You just dont know what your husband or wife to be with who ever and then come home saying who (dick/ clit )was in you or what ever. It not a great feeling. If your matture you'll want to make it work in your marriage if you get married and cheating and money are the big reasons for a divorces these days.
What would you want from your partner? What would you except with them to respect you? You need to sitt down and ask your self some big Questions. Is this who i want to spend my life with for the rest of it, if it works! Do you want to go screw around, if yes then your not ready for marriage.
What big changes will happen if i do? Is it really worth it? Do you really love them? If you do you wouldnt want to cheat. Thats a porven facter. Do i want to come home to a husband and tell him im pregnant by another guy or dont know how the dad is. There is so much to marriage that makes it scarey. Just ask your self what do you want? think hard and clear before making a huge decision. and make the right one! i hope this is kinda what your looking for idk but hope it helped ya! Goodluck!
2007-03-22 02:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by kristy_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The big deal is that committment without variety is a form of control. Partners that cannot feel comfortable with another person once accepted by committment is crippled by insecurity. When the insecurity is strong enough the control of ownership helps stop the feelings. Truth is that I believe that to cripple openess and experience in an open environment with all consenting is a shame and only shows the shallowness and insecurity by those that have to control. Open mind and open spaces is the area for creativity.
2007-03-22 01:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by missionaryplus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree it's a commitment, but not always before God. Not all who are married believe in God.
God or no God marriage does require commitment, trust and compromise. Some people just can't do that. And those people should NOT be married.
I've been with my husband for 7 years and maried for 3. I would never cheat on him, and know he would never cheat on me. If we ever had an inkling of those kind of feelings we are mature enough to discuss the issue.
2007-03-22 02:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Katie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To ask a question like that, one can only assume you have
no morals. People who sleep around, cheat, and lie are
trash.
2007-03-22 02:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋