2007-03-21 16:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by aiverson23@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask many questions, soon they will come to you fluently. Don't worry, I'm not very talkative either! Watch many TV shows that people would be interested in- "Did you see when ________ happened last night in the ______ show?" If you can't think of anything, just ask random Q's like, "Who's your best friend?" "What's your favorite color?" "Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?" "Who is your girlfriend/boyfriend?" Just ask them in a curious way- don't sound gay!
2007-03-21 16:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Emy G. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be very shy. I would blush if someone even
spoke to me, but not now. I can talk to anyone about
anything. I read a book about different personality types
and I also learned a few things that appeal to people the
most. It seemed like a stupid idea, but I tried it and it really
worked.
First of all the one sound people love to hear is their name.
People perk up when they hear their name.
Also people love to be complimented, so the next time
your around someone, find something to compliment them
on and even if your not interested do it anyway. It will
open a window for a conversation and you will see how
easy it is to get some ones attention. Try it and see for
yourself that it does work.
2007-03-22 02:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the news and/or read the paper every day
You can talk to anyone about the things in the paper. This will give you a foundation for the topic(s) of your converstation.
You can be more talkative by soliciting the opinions of others regarding what you read.
Formulate your own opinions based on what you have read and have a dissucssion based on what the person you are talking to thinks about what you have said.
If you read the paper every day, you will never run out of the source for what to talk about!
You can also look in your phone book for 'toastmasters'. They can tell you mroe about this group when you call them but I promise that it will help too!
2007-03-21 23:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just cannot become something--you are quiet??? Well, that's you--you are an individual with unique talents, and qualities. You must have some hobbies or interests that occupy some of your time....you can just talk about anything when you find interesting people to share a conversation with---you are the opposite of people who won't shut up--so just be yourself and enjoy life---smile, be nice and good luck
2007-03-21 23:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being talkative can get you in trouble. You're okay being quiet.
2007-03-21 23:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by miss pochacco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother no one wants to hear you anyway
2007-03-21 23:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by doobiejuana j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
would you PLEASE just shut up!!!
2007-03-21 23:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋