ok my boyfriend use to kiss me all the time and hug me and all he wanted to do is be close to me. now he doesnt do that, all we do is sit home and play cards or watch tv. and when i asked him how come he doesnt kiss me like before or hug me he says because hes with me all the time, and hes use to me and he sees me everyday. what should i do to get him do what he use to do before? please help
2007-03-21 18:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he does not make the first move why don't you make the first move. Learned this in marriage counseling. ; ) It seems like a simple answer but it really does work. Good luck.
2007-03-21 18:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away! I mean on a trip or something. Make him miss you. Try not to spend so much time together. Know where i'm going with this? It's possible he's taking you for granted. You should spend more time with your self, do things that you want to do and that make you happy. I think if he doenst see you as often and sees you are making your self happy he's going to appreciate you and then give you the hugs and kisses you deserve. How long have you been dating? Do you guys live together? I dont want to scare you but I had dated a guy for year and 6 months into our relationship I didnt kiss or hug hm like I used to. This was due to...loss of interest in the person. I was not emotionally attached to him but adored him as a person and enjoyed doing things together. Hope things work out.
2007-03-22 03:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by mandysmith789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people tend to forget the respect in relationships. respecting one anothers space. sounds like he may need a break for some personal time. i agree that making the first move also helps alot. i have been married for thirteen years. there are always ways to rekindle love and affection. if he just doesn't respond or seems genuinely not interested, maybe its time to really reevaluate your relationship. good luck.
2007-03-21 19:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by keepinitreal72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her she is gay
2007-03-21 18:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋