2007-03-21 05:35:22 · 15 answers · asked by Ilse Fuentes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to concentrate on the disrespectful events he has put you through. Try not to think about the good things he has done and the good memories. It's better that you move on now, imagine him doing this to you if you were married and had a kid with him; this is the best time to end this relationship.
2007-03-21 05:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes couples can look past and forgive infidelity. If you believe that you can truly forgive him for what he's done and you are certain he won't make the same mistake twice, then stay with him.
But if you have any doubt or reservations about him repeating this behavior, or you fear that you won't ever be able to get over it, then you need to break up. Otherwise, there will always be that elephant in the room. You'll never be able to trust him and no relationship works without trust.
You just have to look inside yourself and think about whether or not you CAN be with him.
2007-03-21 05:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't move on because your consciousness won't allow you to accept being dumped. So, in essence you want to break up with him, know it is a good thing for you, but you can't.
If you had been contemplating breaking up with him before his infidelity you would have been ok as you were the one in control.
It's normal behavior. Break up with him and stay away. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you take him back it is sending signals that you will accept him unconditionally and that he can cheat but it is OK cause he knows he can come back.
He doesn't know what he wants or who....so do yourself a favor and dump him.
2007-03-21 06:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell ur b/f that u dont trust him n e more and yall should take a break...if he still wants to b w/u and show u he can change then u should tell him that yall should still c eachother but yall r just takin a break...u need to b sure he's not gonna do it again and b sure he's not hiding other things from u, cuz if u love him then its gonna be harder when he hurts u again if u dont take the time to find out whats goin on! good luck girl!
2007-03-21 05:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to enjoy his company but keep the thought in the back of your mind "he is only human and following his basic need to be satisfied sexually so I will practice safe sex with him always and spend less time with him gradually". You'll find it easier to break it off once you make him just another human being and not damn near a God in your eyes because he is that now without you realizing it. Intentionally spending less time empowers you to eventually boot him in favor of someone else you must be open to meet one day.
2007-03-21 05:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Janet L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear we all have to suffer from a heart break one way or the other.all you have to do is to be strong and keep moving on.if you are hurt then you do not have to stay in one place but rather move on for you have little time to live on earth.do something useful with your life instead of crying over split milk which you cannot drink.all you have to do is move on and next time you are in love do not fall in with your heart for they say
LOVE IS A PRISON,YOU CAN GET LOCKED IN.IF YOU FALL IN WITH YOUR HEART YOU SHOULD KNOW YOU ARE IN IT.
you were locked in that prison but now you can escape.go go !!!!before something really bad happens to you.if your bf loved you then he would have known better than cheating on you.
2007-03-21 05:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first answer. i had a guy cheat on me 3 times before i left his trifling a**. knocked some sense into me! i know how hard it is, trust me, i went back 2 times! u just have to move on.
...like he said, once a cheater, always a cheater!
2007-03-25 01:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by jsf19872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you move past his infidelities and still love him the same?If not then you have no choice but to end it. tell him that you love him and you wish things were different but its impossible for you to look past his infidelities, that you still love him but you don't trust him and its impossible to be in a relationship with a man you can't trust. Good luck!
2007-03-21 05:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by ladydream67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. He doesn't love you as much as you do...or else he wouldn't have cheated on you....even if alcohol was the cause. That's just an excuse.
Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2007-03-21 05:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl u have to let go no matter how hard it is you have cuase a cheater will always cheat and you dont deserve a broken heart cuase it will happen again if u dont do sumthin about it now
2007-03-21 05:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋