how do you feel when ur sister in law involves ur privacy over the limitted? she get in ur room when the door closed? knock on it at 12 am when it locked? leave her saliva on ur 6 mons baby's cheeks? yell at ur husband infront of u? remind ur husband to help his parents? her bf takes ur baby away from ur hands without say hi or ask u? just walks into ur room and takes her away to their room. She's 20 yr old and i'm waiting for her to understand for my situation, i live wit my husband's family. His parents and his lil sister. He wants to live wit them forever to help them out. I gave up my dream of having my family bcus i love my daughter and he loves her too. He told me he can't live without his daughter but i really need my privacy. My husband does not belong to me already his family is still trying to control him and even me. :(
thanx
2007-03-17 21:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get an education.
Get a job.
Move out.
Period.
2007-03-17 21:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you really love this man and want to be a part of his life you are going to have to accept what he has chosen....they are his family....however....there are no rules saying you can't sit the entire family down and calmly tell them how you feel...do not make accusations or point fingers ....simply go over rules you feel should be obeyed by everyone in the home...everyone needs privacy....I've been in a similiar situation only it was temporary and that was what i reminded myself everyday....i wish you peace and harmony in your home....communication is the key.....good luck!!
2007-03-18 04:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to divorce him and take ur daughter with u. get urself and ur brat as far away from him and that family as possible. thats crap. u should not be controlled like that.
2007-03-18 04:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to leave you alone and when you dont answetr to her knock dont come in... sometimes you have to be rude for peopl to respect you..
Good luck
2007-03-18 04:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by Giggagirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋