i am 18 and my bf is 19 he works from 6:30am to 7pm and when he comes home i have'ent seen him all day and im ready for some romantic time alone but he is never in the mood he always says hes to tierd and just wants to go to bed i have tryed alot of thing to get him in the mood like showers togeather,sexy underwear,waking him up with a bj(that worked only once now he wants the alarm to wake him up)im running out of ideas if you have any suggestions i would like to hear them
2007-03-16 05:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by lisa b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you're going above and beyond to me! I understand he works long days, but I don't know a normal man that denies sex all the time....especially when you are working that hard to arouse him.
My suggestion at this point would be to just not try for a while. Maybe once he notices your focus is elsewhere, he'll change his mind. If that still doesn't work.... I'm out of ideas.
2007-03-16 05:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waking him up with a bj - wow fantastic idea thats on my fantasy list LOL ;)
ok, anyway, find out if he is cheating on u. second, if hehas any spare days, try to see if he is different. If negative, then talk to him and tell him all abt this. And try to take him places on holidays - new place new romance, etc might kick him up. And last point - is he stressed out at work - find out and help if reqd.
2007-03-16 05:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he's going to continue to be like this you're moving in with me. ROFL!
Seriously, I just don't know.... everything that you're trying should be working. Perhaps it's the timing....
Are you suggesting that he sleeps the whole time that he's at home? I mean, there has to be SOME time for relations in there, doesn't there? Good lord, wait until you have kids. You'll never have sex again, LOL!
2007-03-16 05:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by taotedan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely it sounds to me that he has some tension themes. There must be some problem along with his wellbeing or kinfolk. in any different case, he in basic terms desires to regulate his anger. Why do no longer you initiate ignoring him.... permit him see which you're actually not a clingy woman....supply him his time and area...the 2d you sense he's gonna get indignant, go away the region.
2016-10-02 05:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing it right! More than right! He should notice that, and at some pint he is supposed to be in the mood. Tried ignoring him? The fantasy idea is good? roles? Otherwise, if he does not pay you the attention you deserve... you'll need to be with a man who does!
2007-03-16 05:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Lekter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to make you feel bad or anything, but do you think there is a possibility of cheating going on. Those are all the signs ofcheating... I would question that if you want to save your relationship. Good luck... I hope it is something else , for your sake
2007-03-16 05:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
troj has a good point, other than that, find out what his fantasy is and do it!
2007-03-16 05:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite one of your friends over.....lol
2007-03-16 05:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Troy R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him.
2007-03-16 05:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Allison M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋